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To be sick of politicians using 'fairness' as justification for tax rises?

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Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 07:46

Fairness is completely subjective and I notice that this is often shorthand for giving more money to those that contribute the least.

Of course there will always be those that can't contribute much due to factors outside of their control, but we are kidding ourselves if we pretend that there aren't already lots of people that are scraping by doing the bare minimum (sometimes even less) and making completely irresponsible decisions knowing the state will ultimately insulate them from the consequences.

I personally know people that have had lots of children that they can't afford and can't parent properly simply because they wanted to. They are now on an incredible amount of money as the two child cap has been lifted. I know people that have stopped working because they weren't much better off than being on benefits and they couldn't be bothered with the hassle. I know young people that are already planning to stay on disability benefits their whole lives for mental health issues as they want to stay home and game.

Is it really 'fair' to charge the rest of us more to subsidise all of this?

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JasmineMac · 21/07/2026 15:29

Differentforgirls · 21/07/2026 15:21

Your tax is a drop in the ocean and is being used to fund the debt that the Conservative Govt ran up while selling off our assets to their chums. The UK is completely debt ridden. You’re one of the useful idiots paying for it while blaming the people it has affected the most.

One's annual tax summary (well, those of us who have one) breaks down how our individual tax contributions are spent. Welfare is the highest percent, year on year.

XenoBitch · 21/07/2026 15:29

JasmineMac · 21/07/2026 15:29

One's annual tax summary (well, those of us who have one) breaks down how our individual tax contributions are spent. Welfare is the highest percent, year on year.

That includes pensions though.

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:31

XenoBitch · 21/07/2026 15:29

That includes pensions though.

Who suggested they weren't included? They are afterall another benefit

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 21/07/2026 15:31

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:24

I have never dehumanised or othered anybody on this thread. I have always been at absolute pains to state that people are people, no matter how much money they have. We are all subject to the same selfish desires and there are always people wanting to abuse the system in every socio economic class. I myself have been poor and I'm now not. It hasn't fundamentally changed me as a person. The idea that the poor or disabled are a different species that none of us can speak about with knowledge is hugely dehumanising and othering in itself.

I haven't suggested anything even vaguely extremist. Reference to welfare was in the initial post. It's a fundamental part of the premise. Why do politicians pretend that some of us need to pay more to pay our 'fair' share whilst never really questioning why some are contributing so little and taking so much? Not everyone in this category is vulnerable or disabled before we go down that rabbit hole again.

The poll is clear that most people agree with me. On a democracy this should bring about change and hopefully it will do soon. You can complain about capitalism all you want but we are a long way from unpicking that system.

So how did you become "not poor" ?

A feel good story of triumph over adversity and the times in which you achieved it might be quite inspiring for those of us facing a bleak future.

JasmineMac · 21/07/2026 15:32

XenoBitch · 21/07/2026 15:29

That includes pensions though.

Yes, I think we're all aware of that (about half).

Newbutoldfather · 21/07/2026 15:33

This site is surprisingly right wing.

Of course we need to question welfare spending, although on a European comparison, we are at the low end.

But, if we think about fairness, we have to think about why we have exploding wealth inequality. This isn’t because the rich have become more creative and brilliant. The causes are multivariate but a lot are down to government policy, both deliberate and accidental.

Fairness, inter alia, is what politics is all about. In a democracy, we get to vote on what we think is fair. The problem is a lot of politics is now based on dog whistles, not rational argument, or facts.

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:36

MistressoftheDarkSide · 21/07/2026 15:31

So how did you become "not poor" ?

A feel good story of triumph over adversity and the times in which you achieved it might be quite inspiring for those of us facing a bleak future.

I worked hard and made huge sacrifices. Massive ones. I'm not suggesting it's possible for everyone but a lot of people could do a lot more. I am obviously hugely angry that despite the enormous amount of tax I already pay that apparently I'm still not paying my fair share. Meanwhile family members and friends pay nothing, claim an awful lot and aren't accused of the same by politicians.

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LuckyTraybake · 21/07/2026 15:37

The amount of tax (in various forms) I pay every month is vast and feels unfair to me. If I thought too long and hard about it I could get really annoyed.
I burst my ass off, like many many others it seems in the country, the harder you work, the more you are financially punished.

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 15:38

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:36

I worked hard and made huge sacrifices. Massive ones. I'm not suggesting it's possible for everyone but a lot of people could do a lot more. I am obviously hugely angry that despite the enormous amount of tax I already pay that apparently I'm still not paying my fair share. Meanwhile family members and friends pay nothing, claim an awful lot and aren't accused of the same by politicians.

“I worked hard and made huge sacrifices. Massive ones”

can you expand on this? Why do you think you work hard and why did you need to make massive sacrifices?

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · 21/07/2026 15:38

I've been poor and now I'm better off.
Being better off made me feel more benevolent, not less.

EasternStandard · 21/07/2026 15:39

Newbutoldfather · 21/07/2026 15:33

This site is surprisingly right wing.

Of course we need to question welfare spending, although on a European comparison, we are at the low end.

But, if we think about fairness, we have to think about why we have exploding wealth inequality. This isn’t because the rich have become more creative and brilliant. The causes are multivariate but a lot are down to government policy, both deliberate and accidental.

Fairness, inter alia, is what politics is all about. In a democracy, we get to vote on what we think is fair. The problem is a lot of politics is now based on dog whistles, not rational argument, or facts.

This site is very much wedded to asking for higher taxes and still Labour heavy. There’s threads running constantly, the current one is which taxes should Andy Burnham raise.

OriginalUsername2 · 21/07/2026 15:40

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 15:38

“I worked hard and made huge sacrifices. Massive ones”

can you expand on this? Why do you think you work hard and why did you need to make massive sacrifices?

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This is my question too. The answer is vague. A single mum who is a full time waitress on minimum wage works hard and makes sacrifices, for example.

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 15:42

I don’t believe most people work hard. I think most employment in this country isn’t what I’d consider to be hard.

i think most people who say that just mean “I have a full time job”

and I don’t see any reason for anyone in the uk to make “huge sacrifices” in order to be “not poor”

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · 21/07/2026 15:43

"I worked hard and made huge sacrifices. Massive ones."

Working hard posting on MN during the middle of the working day in order that billionaires can hold on to their billions must pay someone quite well.

Sacrifice? Dignity.
Massive sacrifice? Soul perhaps.

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:44

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 15:42

I don’t believe most people work hard. I think most employment in this country isn’t what I’d consider to be hard.

i think most people who say that just mean “I have a full time job”

and I don’t see any reason for anyone in the uk to make “huge sacrifices” in order to be “not poor”

Believe what you want. I don't care. If you're from some areas and backgrounds you really do have to make sacrifices to not be poor.

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Cantquitebelievewhatitscometo · 21/07/2026 15:44

Newbutoldfather · 21/07/2026 15:10

I do think it’s funny how many people want to ignore me because they don’t like what I post, so they think I am confused!

my quote about top earners paying 12% net tax was a search for UK, not U.S.

And I don’t have any idea why someone seems to think that I believe that you can sell the same business annually.

No, I am not an accountant and nor have I run a business, but I have for most of my life paid tax at the highest rate and I invest in both publicly traded shares and small private equities, and I can see the tax advantages accruing to the owners.

It is a fact that most (successful) business owners will pay themselves a small salary, so they won’t hit the higher tax bands and the rest as a mixture of dividends and pension contributions (although a lot of that benefit has recently been destroyed).

Although, yes, you do pay corporate tax on profits and then tax again when you receive the dividend, it is still a lot less than the personal tax bands (about 5% if you are paying tax at the highest rate).

And, as for taking capital gains, you can sell a share in your business via private equity if you have a medium size successful business. Most small private equity companies will look at any business with a net worth of over 5 million, which means an EBITDA of under one million at a reason ratio. That isn’t a huge business by any means. So, yes, you can release bits of your business over time. It isn’t all or nothing.

If I am wrong, I am happy to be challenged with actual facts, but not dismissed with nebulous accusations of having no idea what I am talking about.

Do people seriously believe that owners of medium (with medium starting quite low) to large successful businesses pay a net tax rate of 45%? Why do you think a wealth tax is being mooted (although will never happen)?

As you say, you are not an accountant and you have not run a business.

You repeat nonsense you’ve heard about tax benefits of owning a business as if it’s foolproof and easy and has no consequences.

If a business owner artificially suppresses salary for dividends they will find it extremely difficult to get a mortgage. You can do it for a couple of years but it will impact your ability to buy or remortgage your home in the longer term. The dividend allowance is relatively low and then it reverts to income tax rates depending on what is drawn down. There may be business owners with huge liquid assets who don’t need income. I can’t imagine there are many in that category and they would have paid tax every year as they took those assets from the company. They certainly can’t take loans from the company every year as you so confidently stated in an earlier post. They would be struck off as directors.

This is all pretty basic stuff.

You can only sell a business once - capital gains tax relief is of no practical use for drawing income from a business. I don’t know why you keep talking about it as some kind of loophole for business owners. It’s not income so not covered by income tax. It has its own category of tax.

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:45

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · 21/07/2026 15:43

"I worked hard and made huge sacrifices. Massive ones."

Working hard posting on MN during the middle of the working day in order that billionaires can hold on to their billions must pay someone quite well.

Sacrifice? Dignity.
Massive sacrifice? Soul perhaps.

It not my working day. I never advocated for billionaires.

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 21/07/2026 15:45

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:36

I worked hard and made huge sacrifices. Massive ones. I'm not suggesting it's possible for everyone but a lot of people could do a lot more. I am obviously hugely angry that despite the enormous amount of tax I already pay that apparently I'm still not paying my fair share. Meanwhile family members and friends pay nothing, claim an awful lot and aren't accused of the same by politicians.

Little light on inspirational detail to incentivise the allegedly prolific workshy....

Have you stopped to consider why the burden is being placed so heavily on you? Why fewer and fewer people are apparently able to capitalise on our meritocratic democracy in recent years? Why people working hard still need government top ups? Why is that?

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · 21/07/2026 15:47

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:45

It not my working day. I never advocated for billionaires.

You at 14.48 today.

"We have around 150 billionaires in the UK. Of those, most only have £1 billion. Very few people are hoarding billions in the UK. We lost 20 of them in the past 4 years so the number of billionaires is dropping quote significantly. What happens if they leave?"

Backedoffhackedoff · 21/07/2026 15:47

MistressoftheDarkSide · 21/07/2026 15:45

Little light on inspirational detail to incentivise the allegedly prolific workshy....

Have you stopped to consider why the burden is being placed so heavily on you? Why fewer and fewer people are apparently able to capitalise on our meritocratic democracy in recent years? Why people working hard still need government top ups? Why is that?

Yep this is what I was saying earlier on. I earn a high salary and don’t work hard.

why do you need to OP, when I don’t?

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · 21/07/2026 15:48

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:44

Believe what you want. I don't care. If you're from some areas and backgrounds you really do have to make sacrifices to not be poor.

We all make our choices.
We don't all pull the ladder up.

JasmineMac · 21/07/2026 15:48

OriginalUsername2 · 21/07/2026 15:40

This is my question too. The answer is vague. A single mum who is a full time waitress on minimum wage works hard and makes sacrifices, for example.

Waitressing isn't working hard, with respect. A waitress clocks on and off, and carries little to no responsibility.

Studying for a speciality, exams, whilst working extra unpaid hours every day, and an on call rota whereupon you are unlikely to get any compensatory rest is hard.

OriginalUsername2 · 21/07/2026 15:48

Itchthescratch · 21/07/2026 15:44

Believe what you want. I don't care. If you're from some areas and backgrounds you really do have to make sacrifices to not be poor.

Can you say what sacrifices you made?

Newbutoldfather · 21/07/2026 15:50

There is another huge problem we all have, and that is debt. 8% of public spending goes on debt servicing, more than 1/3 of the total welfare expenditure.

Like anyone, if you live beyond your means for years , eventually we need to pay the piper, which means cutting spending or raising taxes, but there is no desire to do this. Thatcher was the last PM to pay down government debt (partially due to North Sea oil).

Of course, another alternative is inflation, to reduce the debt in real terms. We have kind of being trying that the last few years. And this is another tax on the less well off. Asset prices go up above inflation (with negative real interest rates) and that includes houses. And all those salaries which depend on assets going up (the finance and allied sectors and property companies) go up with inflation (or more), so it is benign for them. Teachers and doctors not so much, nor other essential workers.

Anyone who sees taxes on the well off as the only problem is only looking through one eye.

XenoBitch · 21/07/2026 15:52

JasmineMac · 21/07/2026 15:48

Waitressing isn't working hard, with respect. A waitress clocks on and off, and carries little to no responsibility.

Studying for a speciality, exams, whilst working extra unpaid hours every day, and an on call rota whereupon you are unlikely to get any compensatory rest is hard.

Why is this a competition? There is no real way to measure what work is hard or not. Why is it, on MN, that only high earners are working "hard"?

I know I would find waitressing really hard work. Having to "mask" for a shift, be on your feet etc. I would hate it, and find it hard work. I could go home, but be wiped out for the rest of day and struggle to do much else apart from recover.
That is the reality for a lot of people in low paid jobs that do not have responsibility over things like hundreds of employees, or a massive budgets. But they still work hard.