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“Please make cheques payable to”

259 replies

asatelliteisnttoofarright · 17/07/2026 06:37

I went for a private healthcare appointment recently and just got the invoice in the post.

It says that the preferred payment method is a cheque! I’m in my 20s and have never written a cheque before. AIBU to think they need to update their payment terms?

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MimiGC · 18/07/2026 16:59

OwlCalledSage · 17/07/2026 07:17

Wow. Do cheque books even exist anymore?

Yes! I love cheques, but rarely get to use them now.

BaseballBraves · 18/07/2026 17:01

I remember cheques fondly. When you were skint back in the 90’s and payday wasn’t for another three days, you could do you grocery shopping and pay by cheque, safe in the knowledge that it would take three days to clear!

but today??? Really?

WerewolfOfLoudon · 18/07/2026 17:48

asatelliteisnttoofarright · 18/07/2026 15:54

It’s ageist and unacceptable. I’ve explained why the telephone call is hard for me, it’s not because I don’t like making calls but it’s because it’s inconvenient for me to fit it around my work. Especially when they don’t answer the phone!

You don't think your own comments about using cheques and paying by card over the phone aren't ageist but anything directed at your age group is?

If phoning is inconvenient, send a cheque.

Jc2001 · 18/07/2026 18:27

MimiGC · 18/07/2026 16:59

Yes! I love cheques, but rarely get to use them now.

What's to love about them? It must be at least 15 years since my bank issued me a cheque book.

asatelliteisnttoofarright · 18/07/2026 19:11

WerewolfOfLoudon · 18/07/2026 17:48

You don't think your own comments about using cheques and paying by card over the phone aren't ageist but anything directed at your age group is?

If phoning is inconvenient, send a cheque.

Edited

How is it ageist to point out it’s 2026 and things have moved on? I can’t send a cheque when I don’t have a chequebook!

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MimiGC · 18/07/2026 23:06

Jc2001 · 18/07/2026 18:27

What's to love about them? It must be at least 15 years since my bank issued me a cheque book.

I like them, they sometimes come in handy, though not often nowadays, I grant you. I will be using one in a few weeks, when I make a gift to my niece who is getting married. I have ordered a nice personalised money wallet to put the cheque in. The alternative is handing over a large sum of cash or an impersonal bank transfer, neither of which appeals to me.
As far as I know, anyone can be issued a cheque book. I don’t request one, they just arrive, albeit very infrequently these days.

MandemChickenShop · 18/07/2026 23:15

cheques are making a huge comeback to reduce fraud

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 08:22

MandemChickenShop · 18/07/2026 23:15

cheques are making a huge comeback to reduce fraud

They’re really not 😂

Papyrophile · 19/07/2026 09:52

I use cheques, infrequently, and usually only for larger sums or for wedding presents as below. And I do think they have a role in preventing fraud.

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