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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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NeedWineNow · 16/07/2026 16:17

XelaM · 16/07/2026 10:38

How is it the "same old story" when England played in 4 semi-finals and 2 finals in the last 5 tournaments?!?

England could only have dreamt of such consistency at tournaments during the time of the so called "golden generation". I think people forget how bad England was and how amazing this team has done. They were not even in the same stratosphere as this team.

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He meant it in terms of not getting over the final hurdle rather than not getting through to the semis/finals.

In this instance he did think that Tuchel got his tactics wrong.

Grandmistress991 · 16/07/2026 16:21

mindymoo11 · 16/07/2026 16:07

'Genius' God I hate people who treat Messi like he's a messiah.

Another example of how fu...cked up our world is.

People value someone that can kick a ball over people that do nearly anything else

Didn't say he was a messiah...said he was a footballing genius, so as far as kicking a ball goes he does it very well. Which to some is worth shouting about others not so much. No its not fair he gets paid millions for it while nurses teachers etc get bog all.

Theres also.people like nige farridge who get given millions to do and say what the person who paid him wants him to do and say ...so its up to you who you think is the 'worser' person.

HRTQueen · 16/07/2026 16:23

the top four rated teams are
Argentina
Spain
France
England

we may come third but its likely that the ratings shall stay the same as before the tournament

England have played really well at times, other times not so well as with all the teams above

LuckyHazelFox · 16/07/2026 16:24

Grandmistress991 · 16/07/2026 16:21

Didn't say he was a messiah...said he was a footballing genius, so as far as kicking a ball goes he does it very well. Which to some is worth shouting about others not so much. No its not fair he gets paid millions for it while nurses teachers etc get bog all.

Theres also.people like nige farridge who get given millions to do and say what the person who paid him wants him to do and say ...so its up to you who you think is the 'worser' person.

'Nige' makes his way into most threads. How on earth is he relevant in a football discussion about winning and losing streaks.

GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 16:34

mindymoo11 · 16/07/2026 15:40

Do you think that Argentina scoring a second goal JUST before it went to extra time was a coincidence?

They talk about everything, including timing

We get it, you LOVE The Argentinian football team, and you're not keen on the English one!🙄

But please stop pretending you knew that Argentina were going to score a goal at 85 minutes and then a second one a few minutes into stoppage time, and were just 'biding their time' with England. Never heard anything so daft! Even THEY didn't know they would score those goals, or at what point in the match!

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TheLightOfDay · 16/07/2026 16:42

YesIKnowThatThankyou · 16/07/2026 10:14

Jude Bellingham is not a prick.
Here's one example of his integrity. He stopped to speak to a disabled Venezuelan reporter IN SPANISH when no one else would
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/jCKTpXZISLo

I think he's amazing and he's still only 23.

I love this, thanks for sharing it.

Grandmistress991 · 16/07/2026 17:32

LuckyHazelFox · 16/07/2026 16:24

'Nige' makes his way into most threads. How on earth is he relevant in a football discussion about winning and losing streaks.

As both men are currently topical i was just making a comparison between one man who earned alot of money having a certain physical skill that is rightly or wrongly admired my millions .....and another making alot less money, but still alot of money from grifting offf someone else, being a prolific liar, mercenary and having no obvious skill other than being a con man. 😃

ComeOnEngland12 · 16/07/2026 17:46

Why stop at Nige let's get Trump in swiftly followed by Hitler 😜@YesIKnowThatThankyou thanks for that. He's such a young lad but has a good family around him.

GasPanic · 16/07/2026 17:55

mindymoo11 · 16/07/2026 15:17

it does annoy me how much football players get paid. There's a video on social media showing Erling Haaland's collection of Birkin bags. He has loads at around 50,000 each (at least).

When I think of how we throw millions and millions of pounds at football players, than I think of the people I know who are struggling to survive, I think 'what kind of world is this'

A footballers pay is a function of the number of people who want to watch him and buy merchandise related to him and the revenue he can help generate for the teams he plays in.

IcedPurple · 16/07/2026 18:03

GasPanic · 16/07/2026 17:55

A footballers pay is a function of the number of people who want to watch him and buy merchandise related to him and the revenue he can help generate for the teams he plays in.

Exactly. Man City aren't paying Erling Haaland half a million a week out of the goodness of their hearts. It's a business transaction, and they've calculated that he's worth the money.

That's his value on the football market. If they didn't pay him accordingly, Real Madrid or Paris Saint Germain would happily do so.

ChirpaChirpaCheepCheepChirp · 16/07/2026 18:27

mindymoo11 · 16/07/2026 15:32

Paid well is one thing. Paid obscenely while other people are struggling to survive. Its awful.

Do you remember when Ashley cole complained that he only 60,000 per week.

You wrote that they bring in millions for people that employ them.

That;s because currently, we as a society put more value on football than on getting homeless people off the streets. Society is fu..cked up

Ashley Cole didn’t complain about earning £60k a week. He complained because Arsenal reneged on what he considered to be an agreed contractual salary.

I’m sure if your employer agreed your rate of pay and then unilaterally changed their mind, you’d just suck it up without comment.

And people aren’t homeless because footballers earn a lot. In fact, footballers pay a hell of a lot of their earnings as tax. It’s down to politicians how that’s spent.

jimmyhill · 16/07/2026 18:44

Out of 48 teams in the World Cup, 47 have to fall at some hurdle or other

EasternStandard · 16/07/2026 18:56

GasPanic · 16/07/2026 17:55

A footballers pay is a function of the number of people who want to watch him and buy merchandise related to him and the revenue he can help generate for the teams he plays in.

Yes I prefer it go to the actual sports person. There’s a good movie on this but for the US, Jordan I think changed remuneration. The players with talent and taking a risk should be rewarded over others.

GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 18:59

IcedPurple · 16/07/2026 18:03

Exactly. Man City aren't paying Erling Haaland half a million a week out of the goodness of their hearts. It's a business transaction, and they've calculated that he's worth the money.

That's his value on the football market. If they didn't pay him accordingly, Real Madrid or Paris Saint Germain would happily do so.

Half a million a WEEK?! Shock

I'm in the wrong job! 😆

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Decacaffeinatednow · 16/07/2026 19:02

Harry Kane is on €480,769 per week with Bayern Munich (excluding bonuses).
Jordan Pickford is on a measly £150,000 per week.

IcedPurple · 16/07/2026 19:05

GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 18:59

Half a million a WEEK?! Shock

I'm in the wrong job! 😆

That's his base salary.

He earns an estimated £10 million (!) a year on top of that from bonuses and endorsements.

After his high profile performance for Norway at the World Cup, that is likely to increase still further. Nice work if you can get it!

GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 19:07

Nice work if you can get it!

True @IcedPurple

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 19:08

Decacaffeinatednow · 16/07/2026 19:02

Harry Kane is on €480,769 per week with Bayern Munich (excluding bonuses).
Jordan Pickford is on a measly £150,000 per week.

Blimey. Tasty salaries! Grin Especially Harry's!

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LoftyPlumLion · 16/07/2026 20:23

We're technically not good enough.

We need the FA to subsidise uefa coaching Badges.

Griff123 · 16/07/2026 20:59

IcedPurple · 16/07/2026 19:05

That's his base salary.

He earns an estimated £10 million (!) a year on top of that from bonuses and endorsements.

After his high profile performance for Norway at the World Cup, that is likely to increase still further. Nice work if you can get it!

"if you can get it". To get to the top of the football pyramid takes a lot. It is similar to becoming a top drug dealer. Many people are trying to get there.
England - because success was so long away, and football is so central to our culture, then we are desperate to succeed. IMO - England is doing lots of things right, but to become tournamenant winners we have to find a version of the team that is much much better than the competion. This team wasn't. France had clearly the best squad but went out like us!

mindymoo11 · 17/07/2026 00:47

GasPanic · 16/07/2026 17:55

A footballers pay is a function of the number of people who want to watch him and buy merchandise related to him and the revenue he can help generate for the teams he plays in.

yes as I said society is fu...cked up. Footballers are paid a huge amount because people put huge value on football. When it is far from the most important thing in the world

mindymoo11 · 17/07/2026 00:48

IcedPurple · 16/07/2026 18:03

Exactly. Man City aren't paying Erling Haaland half a million a week out of the goodness of their hearts. It's a business transaction, and they've calculated that he's worth the money.

That's his value on the football market. If they didn't pay him accordingly, Real Madrid or Paris Saint Germain would happily do so.

Half a million a week - is a bit disgusting though when people are using food banks in England

mindymoo11 · 17/07/2026 00:50

IcedPurple · 16/07/2026 19:05

That's his base salary.

He earns an estimated £10 million (!) a year on top of that from bonuses and endorsements.

After his high profile performance for Norway at the World Cup, that is likely to increase still further. Nice work if you can get it!

Haaland is a Nepo baby. His dad played for Man City.

The same as Wayne rooney's son has just been signed to play professional football

mindymoo11 · 17/07/2026 00:51

Griff123 · 16/07/2026 20:59

"if you can get it". To get to the top of the football pyramid takes a lot. It is similar to becoming a top drug dealer. Many people are trying to get there.
England - because success was so long away, and football is so central to our culture, then we are desperate to succeed. IMO - England is doing lots of things right, but to become tournamenant winners we have to find a version of the team that is much much better than the competion. This team wasn't. France had clearly the best squad but went out like us!

Having a father who played for Man City definitely helped Erling Haaland with making the right connections

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 03:32

EasternStandard · 16/07/2026 18:56

Yes I prefer it go to the actual sports person. There’s a good movie on this but for the US, Jordan I think changed remuneration. The players with talent and taking a risk should be rewarded over others.

It’s gone too far though as clubs are actually getting massively into debt to pay the wages of these players. Football clubs are almost all being subsidised by their owners and many of them risk going out of business at the lower levels beyond the top Premiership clubs.

I don’t see that anyone deserves earning £500k a week. Nobody needs that kind of money. It’s obscene. People say that it’s a short career etc. etc. but one week’s wages is as much as many people earn in twenty years and they still have homes and families. I want them to benefit from their talent of course but we have to remember that ordinary fans are in the end paying these obscene salaries and these are ordinary working people. If not through buying match tickets, through buying shirts with players’ names on or buying expensive subscriptions to television screenings of matches,

Maybe the genie is out of the bottle and we can’t go back but I’m a bit fed up in general with seeing people who could never spend the amount of money they have still trying to get more. And that’s not just footballers it’s people in all walks of life - Elon Musk for instance. Why does someone need to be a trillionaire? It’s just greed for its own sake.

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