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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

435 replies

GorgeousSpringtime · Today 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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ComeOnEngland12 · Today 14:18

randomchap · Today 14:01

Why would you do that to yourself?

Watching the awful decisions live was bad enough but watching them again the next day? You absolute masochist

I'm really enjoying it now I couldn't last night bevause it was too emotionally charged !

We made a much better effort than the French i would be heartily dissapointed as a french fan !

randomchap · Today 14:19

ComeOnEngland12 · Today 14:18

I'm really enjoying it now I couldn't last night bevause it was too emotionally charged !

We made a much better effort than the French i would be heartily dissapointed as a french fan !

I'm pleased you're enjoying it. I'd just sit there and seethe at the poor decision making.

mindymoo11 · Today 14:20

BackToLurk · Today 14:17

FWIW I have no idea what 'Dance Moms' is.

It just shows our different interests! I went to dance school as a child and teenager.

Dance Moms is a tv show about the dance competition world

ComeOnEngland12 · Today 14:22

@Dappy777 that team wanted to win.
We were v close . I would be very interested to know how we could have opened up that last 20 mins and got them on the back foot Bellingham and kane hardly got near our goal and I'd be interested to know how and why

LuckyHazelFox · Today 14:23

randomchap · Today 14:18

They will just have played each other. England France is an old rivalry, I'm sure whoever loses will care

Yes, it's a nothing match and one I won't be watching.

BeSassyOpalSquid · Today 14:24

We ARE one of the best teams, but keep letting it go at the final hurdle. Why?

My view: because the EFA keep appointing former defenders to be England manager. You can only take it so far i with a defensive, cautious strategy, which is what they tend to adopt.

Tuchel, Southgate, Sven Goran Ericsson, Roy Hodges - all defenders.

Quote from Rooney: “ “If you’re an attacking player on that pitch and you go 1-0 up and you see the changes which the manager’s making, you’re losing belief. Then you start thinking, ‘Oh no, we’re going to sit back for this long, how are we going to get through this?’ It’s a panic, it’s a real panic. You can’t go a goal up and then surrender the strength of the ball and surrender any opportunity going to try and get the second goal, because that’s what you want to do.”.

Even the coach for Argentina has effectively stated Tuchel made an error going all defensive when what’s needed is attack.

And the interesting thing is that Tuchel made the same error he identified Southgate had made with this kind of approach.

Time we had a striker / midfielder in the position of manager. Because these people are less afraid of attack. We need one known for his determination and refusal to give up, that would inspire the players. But not Rooney.

Rewis · Today 14:27

mindymoo11 · Today 14:15

Well they can really celebrate anywhere they want on the pitch.

Of course. I was just answering the question. His celebration was unsportsmanship like and was looking for a reaction and he got one.

ComeOnEngland12 · Today 14:32

We were one up until the 86 min. Jude very very nearly intercepted their first goal he ran to tackle and misses it by a millisecond.
86 mins we were the better team !!

mindymoo11 · Today 14:38

ComeOnEngland12 · Today 14:32

We were one up until the 86 min. Jude very very nearly intercepted their first goal he ran to tackle and misses it by a millisecond.
86 mins we were the better team !!

86 mins doesnt mean anything. i think argentina timed it to get their goals later so that it wouldnt go to extra time

mindymoo11 · Today 14:46

I was just watching it again. Very bad play by England in the late second half. Bad defending

TheCurious0range · Today 15:02

ComeOnEngland12 · Today 09:57

I can't understand why that line that was so effective against Mexico failed.
I think at the moment we've got the best team we've ever had.

Hopefully they can be proactive against the French and shine.

Because Argentina are a very different side to Mexico and one tactic fits all doesn't work. Defensive changes were made too early in this match.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · Today 15:04

Dappy777 · Today 14:06

Self-loathing.

The British left hate Britain. Above all, they hate England and Englishness. I remember reading an interview with the ‘comedian’ Alexi Sayle (very left-wing) in which he said “this country needs to lose a war.” That was years ago, yet I have never forgotten it. It reveals what really goes on in the minds of the British left. Just listen to people like Will Self or Stewart Lee for five minutes. They hate England so much they can hardly get the words out.

Unfortunately, the left have a massive influence. They run academia, the BBC, the arts and the publishing industry. Radio 4 can’t even mention Jane Austen without linking her to colonialism. People absorb, or internalise, that hatred, and our footballers are no exception. When they come up against mediocre sides like Mexico, it’s not a problem. But when it is 1-1 in a semi-final against Argentina, the urge to go that extra mile just isn’t there. My grandparents never said anything patriotic, because they didn’t need to. They’d grown up in a country that had such a deep-rooted sense of history and culture and identity and pride that there was no need to wave flags. All that has gone. To be honest, the drip drip effect of leftist thinking has even worked on me. Frankly, I don’t give a sh*t that England lost either.

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I hope you did a proper warm up before making that reach, you'll do yourself an injury.

Piglet89 · Today 15:04

EverMissWicklowSometimes · Today 09:44

No idea but as a Scot long may it continue! 🙌

I grew up in 1980s west Belfast, where you’d be hard pressed to find an England fan.

However, having lived in London over 20 years, I was cheering for them last night (tho interestingly my Scottish husband who’s lived in England over 15 years couldn’t bring himself to).

I find this attitude so odd, but it’s clearly ingrained.

Agree with PPs, TT’s defensive strategy was never gonna work at 1-0 down V. Argentina - even A’s stats from their previous clashes in this tournament would tell you that. To paraphrase the commentator, Messi was just sliding past defenders “like they weren’t even there”.

Argentina is an unlikeable, dirty-play side, though: anyone can see that.

mindymoo11 · Today 15:06

Piglet89 · Today 15:04

I grew up in 1980s west Belfast, where you’d be hard pressed to find an England fan.

However, having lived in London over 20 years, I was cheering for them last night (tho interestingly my Scottish husband who’s lived in England over 15 years couldn’t bring himself to).

I find this attitude so odd, but it’s clearly ingrained.

Agree with PPs, TT’s defensive strategy was never gonna work at 1-0 down V. Argentina - even A’s stats from their previous clashes in this tournament would tell you that. To paraphrase the commentator, Messi was just sliding past defenders “like they weren’t even there”.

Argentina is an unlikeable, dirty-play side, though: anyone can see that.

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well why would people cheer for a different country?

Piglet89 · Today 15:09

mindymoo11 · Today 15:06

well why would people cheer for a different country?

Me: Why on earth wouldn’t I? Ireland’s not in the World Cup and England’s my adopted nation.

As to my husband: Scotland isn’t in the tournament any longer, so no dog in the flight any longer and no shade cheering for England, surely?

mindymoo11 · Today 15:12

Piglet89 · Today 15:09

Me: Why on earth wouldn’t I? Ireland’s not in the World Cup and England’s my adopted nation.

As to my husband: Scotland isn’t in the tournament any longer, so no dog in the flight any longer and no shade cheering for England, surely?

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Lets look at your husband. But why would he support England. It's not his team?

Its football. People usually choose one team and stick with that team. Once that team is out, they're out.

mindymoo11 · Today 15:13

Piglet89 · Today 15:09

Me: Why on earth wouldn’t I? Ireland’s not in the World Cup and England’s my adopted nation.

As to my husband: Scotland isn’t in the tournament any longer, so no dog in the flight any longer and no shade cheering for England, surely?

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You seem to think that because Scotand and England are neighbours, that Scotland should support England.

But plenty of neighbouring countries don't like each other!

I know a Canadian woman. She told me that she would never support the USA in sport

ForMerryMauveDreamer · Today 15:13

This thread has cheered me up a bit. The media have done their usual tearing England down rather than celebrating the fact they got to a WC semi final, so it’s nice to see people seeing the positives!

It’s pretty obvious where it went wrong but the Argentinians are such dirty players and bad sports, they’re just not a team I can root for. I hope Spain beat them on Sunday.

mindymoo11 · Today 15:15

ForMerryMauveDreamer · Today 15:13

This thread has cheered me up a bit. The media have done their usual tearing England down rather than celebrating the fact they got to a WC semi final, so it’s nice to see people seeing the positives!

It’s pretty obvious where it went wrong but the Argentinians are such dirty players and bad sports, they’re just not a team I can root for. I hope Spain beat them on Sunday.

I think Argentina will win

DuncinToffee · Today 15:15

TheCurious0range · Today 15:02

Because Argentina are a very different side to Mexico and one tactic fits all doesn't work. Defensive changes were made too early in this match.

England were holding on to dear life at the end of that match and that was against 10 men and no real star player.

You can't do that against a better side.

hourglass2 · Today 15:15

ComeOnEngland12 · Today 14:18

I'm really enjoying it now I couldn't last night bevause it was too emotionally charged !

We made a much better effort than the French i would be heartily dissapointed as a french fan !

Yeah it was really odd regarding France, I don't think I've ever seen them play so badly it was weird...

mindymoo11 · Today 15:17

it does annoy me how much football players get paid. There's a video on social media showing Erling Haaland's collection of Birkin bags. He has loads at around 50,000 each (at least).

When I think of how we throw millions and millions of pounds at football players, than I think of the people I know who are struggling to survive, I think 'what kind of world is this'

Piglet89 · Today 15:18

mindymoo11 · Today 15:13

You seem to think that because Scotand and England are neighbours, that Scotland should support England.

But plenty of neighbouring countries don't like each other!

I know a Canadian woman. She told me that she would never support the USA in sport

@mindymoo11that’s a really weak argument. “A Canadian woman told me she’d never support USA so Scottish supporters are right not to cheer for England, even if the match isn’t England V Scotland”.

OK, then.

Because cheering for only one team is what people “usually” do is another weak argument.

randomchap · Today 15:18

mindymoo11 · Today 15:17

it does annoy me how much football players get paid. There's a video on social media showing Erling Haaland's collection of Birkin bags. He has loads at around 50,000 each (at least).

When I think of how we throw millions and millions of pounds at football players, than I think of the people I know who are struggling to survive, I think 'what kind of world is this'

They bring in millions and millions for the companies that employ them. Why shouldn't they get paid well?

mindymoo11 · Today 15:19

Piglet89 · Today 15:18

@mindymoo11that’s a really weak argument. “A Canadian woman told me she’d never support USA so Scottish supporters are right not to cheer for England, even if the match isn’t England V Scotland”.

OK, then.

Because cheering for only one team is what people “usually” do is another weak argument.

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I think your argument is weak. Why should neighbouring countries support each other? They are different countries.

Your husband didn't want to support England, so let him be

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