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By way of illustration, a female acquaintance whom I have known since university was a big one for this. She's straight and probably of average attractiveness. While at university she'd frequently remark on the absence of men she found attractiv

117 replies

Nearenough · 03/07/2026 15:21

To think cross gender collective punishment is a thing.

OP posts:
DeedsNotDiddums · 03/07/2026 16:44

Yeah but no but yeah but no...

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thestudio · 03/07/2026 16:47

Also OP - you might want to have a think about the fact that, as with male and female strippers, female criticism of men is not the precise equivalent of male criticism of women. This is because of something called 'Context'.

Both happen within the context of a patriarchal society in which men have more power than women in almost every respect, although I understand that you've been confused by Nigel telling you that this is the Big Lie or whatever.

Shittyyear2025 · 03/07/2026 16:47

ComtesseDeSpair · 03/07/2026 15:23

That would be an ecumenical matter.

Wins the internet today!

PerkingFaintly · 03/07/2026 16:54

DollopOfFun · 03/07/2026 15:28

Did you get your title and your OP the wrong way round, and then in your fluster, your little finger hit the post button, and well, here we are?

Oh chapeau, @DollopOfFun , for getting that!

Though it transpires putting title and OP the correct way round doesn't actually increase intelligibility...

Darragon · 03/07/2026 16:57

Is OP going to come back and engage with the deep and meaningful discussion he started?
My money’s on this being about tree limbs not people limbs. But I’m just going out on a limb here.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/07/2026 16:59

ZorbaTheHoarder · 03/07/2026 16:09

You, OP, are causing several people to have snapped and farted!

But seriously, for a moment, what on earth are you on about?

I think it boils down to a fairly simple phrase.

'I'm not getting laid and I don't like it'.

Theyreeatingthedogs · 03/07/2026 17:00

It's on the shelf behind the food processor.

GotALionInMyPocket · 03/07/2026 17:05

Huh?

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 03/07/2026 17:10

Shall I have the Pistachio Magnum or the hazelnut one?

Lemonyyy · 03/07/2026 17:12

Op did your school break up for the holidays today? Surely you aren't bored already?

TidyMaid · 03/07/2026 17:22

Rarely does one find such obvious examples of where A1 would have made an improvement.

PickAChew · 03/07/2026 17:32

Oh for the olden days when people merely swallowed dictionaries, rather than LLMs.

Naunet · 03/07/2026 17:45

So what? It's biology, the vast majority of female species are more selective than males. Did you think biology only ever worked in males favour?

CrispySquid · 03/07/2026 17:47

I love both a Waning Gibbous and a link to a Boden sale.

Createausername1970 · 03/07/2026 17:50

Darragon · 03/07/2026 15:32

Well that’s clear as mud.

🤣🤣.

I may not be university educated, but I think I am of reasonable intelligence, and I am not completely sure what the heck is going on.

But I am eating a sausage and watching with interest.

TFImBackIn · 03/07/2026 17:52

Is this just like saying, "Who you think you are to call someone ugly?"

Gymnopedie · 03/07/2026 17:52

I believe the answer to be 42.

PinotPony · 03/07/2026 17:55

Don’t do drugs, kids.

Darragon · 03/07/2026 17:56

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 03/07/2026 17:10

Shall I have the Pistachio Magnum or the hazelnut one?

Pistachio! Everything is improved with pistachios.

Thecomedyclub · 03/07/2026 17:58

BitOutOfPractice · 03/07/2026 15:51

I’m near enough unsure.

I am, however, applauding the creative use of the semi colon. We don’t see enough of it in this day and age

Edited

You beat me to it although I was about to pontificate about Oxford commas.
Anyway, it was general waste day here and I put out the recycling by mistake so now I have to take the waste to the tip (by appointment only) in case it gets too hot next week. The weather, not the waste but it could be both.

JustGiveMeReason · 03/07/2026 17:59

This thread, and so many brilliant posts is yet further evidence of why we still need the laughing emoji.

Pleeeeeeaaaaassssse return it to us.

Thecomedyclub · 03/07/2026 18:00

TidyMaid · 03/07/2026 17:22

Rarely does one find such obvious examples of where A1 would have made an improvement.

I think you’ll find the A1 is in need of vast improvement. The potholes are appalling.

Bumcake · 03/07/2026 18:10

CrispySquid · 03/07/2026 15:31

What do you think about the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre?

People need to be able to drive to Curry’s!

Livelaughlurgy · 03/07/2026 18:15

It's irelands biggest lingerie section I understand.

SummerHasArrivedatLast · 03/07/2026 18:35

OtherS · 03/07/2026 15:46

Ooh, where are you? My forecast says maximum chance of rain is 7%, at 4am tomorrow morning. Should I put my roof up?

North West Highlands.

It looks like it might rain tomorrow as well, so it might be tumble dryer job.

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