Fed up with colleague rimming this down my throat?

[Glasgowrache]

I’ve a colleague who I get along with at work, we chat and know a reasonable amount about each other.

She has dated a few people over the past year of two, she’s currently seeing someone who is getting divorced. It seems to be getting a bit serious in her words (only been a few weeks) and they’ve discussed buying a house down the line.

He has a very well paying job and she has said they’ll either be able to buy somewhere and be Mortgage free, or buy a big house in a great area which she never thought she’d be able to live in. Great, I do want her to be happy.

My ‘AIBU’ is whether I am wrong to feel fed up with her mentioning his wealth at every opportunity, and how she could never dream of ‘being mortgage free at her age’. It is starting to feel gloaty now…

Rimmer is a bone fide surname...I had a Mrs Rimmer at church group lol but I was innocent then and didnt get the joke

Yes..it sounds like the OP has been having a scandalous affair....that got quite out of hand!! *cluching pearl necklace

This is what I see 😳

So he's married.

Its probably future faking nonsense..Will never happen

I had all this with a colleague - the money, the brand new motorhome, the amazing job, the big plans.

It lasted 5 months tops.

I'd feel a bit sorry for her, she's deluded.

Just be there to hold her hand when it all goes pear shaped. He's probably not even getting divorced.

The title of this post pulled me in. It promised so much.

......

And delivered so little.

I'm gutted. 😭

Honestly? He’s getting divorced and has children. If he really is rich then the divorce is going to take a while … and he will be appalled to discover that his wife is entitled to half.

At best this won’t last long, he wants a distraction but he won’t be in a position to get serious for quite a long time.

At worst, he could really do with somewhere decent to live and someone to help feed / clothe / house his children when they are with him.