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To ask would you expect someone to look very different if they had lost 13 stone

65 replies

Weighloss777 · 03/06/2026 17:46

Or not

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Overtheatlantic · 03/06/2026 17:48

Yes absolutely. Why?

KojaksLollipop · 03/06/2026 17:48

They’d have lost a whole other person in weight, they’d look very different.

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 03/06/2026 17:49

13 stone is a lot! I'd expect them to look massively different.

SilenceInside · 03/06/2026 17:50

Yes of course. I’ve lost just over 11st and look very different.

But, maybe if they are super morbidly obese, to the point of being bed bound, then 13st might not be as big of a change? Even then I’d imagine it would be noticeable though.

peakygull · 03/06/2026 17:51

I’ve never weighed anywhere near 13 stone never mind losing it, I’d expect them to be unrecognisable!

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 03/06/2026 17:51

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 03/06/2026 17:49

13 stone is a lot! I'd expect them to look massively different.

This, it may be that others don’t want to mention it but though if the weightloss person is known to be sensitive about it. It also depends on starting and current weight- 35 stone to 22 or 22 to 9!

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 03/06/2026 17:51

Yes, if they had started out at 15 stone.

Random321 · 03/06/2026 17:52

Yes - it's a significant difference.

I'm not sure how it couldn't impact how someone looks.

FirstdatesFred · 03/06/2026 17:52

Well yes, but it would depend how much of a percentage of their starting weight that was.
also how much they carry it in their face.

feathermucker · 03/06/2026 17:52

Of course I would unless they were super super obese but even then I’d be able to tell

Stoicandhappy · 03/06/2026 17:53

Yes of course.

youalright · 03/06/2026 17:58

Yes absolutely i weigh 13 stone and I'm fat so losing that amount is significant. When I've lost weight in the past people usually noticed after id lost 2 stone

WhereYouLeftIt · 03/06/2026 17:59

Depends.

If they started at 25 stones, yes of course.
If they started at 60 stones, maybe not.

Why do you ask?

darksideofthetoon · 03/06/2026 17:59

Weighloss777 · 03/06/2026 17:46

Or not

They would look like and physically be a different person.

Even when I lost 7 lbs of fat and put on 7lbs of muscle, my face looked different. Stronger jawline, sharper cheek bones. Not to mention my body was much leaner with abs saying hello.

13 stone is life changing beyond belief.

Cookingandfoldingthings · 03/06/2026 18:00

Pretty much anyone would look massively different (even the super morbidly obese person)

Congratulations to @peakygull aren’t you marvellous

@Goodnessyoualldashoffdontyoureppies I’d also be wondering about the cost and the skin! would also hope that there wasn’t an awful underlying illness to blame.

Nonetheless I think I’d be pleased for them.

CagedBirdInACage · 03/06/2026 18:00

WhereYouLeftIt · 03/06/2026 17:59

Depends.

If they started at 25 stones, yes of course.
If they started at 60 stones, maybe not.

Why do you ask?

I was going to say this. If you started at 35st and lost 13 then maybe not but if you start at 22st then sure I'd expect that losing over half their body weight would make a big difference.

OpheliaNightingale · 03/06/2026 18:01

I lost 4 pounds and my colleagues noticed!

Rizzz · 03/06/2026 18:02

Yes obviously.

Why such a tiny opening post?

Is there something you'd actually like to discuss?

Seend · 03/06/2026 18:08

I refuse to answer until you come back
to give more detail and context!

EdinaTheConfessor · 03/06/2026 18:09

Seend · 03/06/2026 18:08

I refuse to answer until you come back
to give more detail and context!

This!

AnonymityAnonymity · 03/06/2026 18:10

Why are you asking OP?

Have you lost a lot of weight and people, or one person in particular, haven't acknowledged the fact?

SilenceInside · 03/06/2026 18:10

Yes. I am very curious if this is about you or someone else @Weighloss777?

Silverbirchleaf · 03/06/2026 18:11

I know someone who has lost ten stone, and she looks a slimmer version of her former self . I know other people who have lost a couple of stone (in the past by dieting) and I’ve hardly recognised them.

trendysetter · 03/06/2026 18:11

Yes, I would expect them to look like a completely different person.

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