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Paying to go to a kid’s birthday party..?

104 replies

hannneshy · 14/05/2026 18:51

Some friends of ours havs recently booked a party for their six year old at a zoo. The invite says all accompanying adults need to pay their own entry into the zoo (£15 per adult)
(details slightly changed for anon purposes)
Is this a pisstake, or am I being unreasonable?
if this was me, I’d have absorbed that cost into the cost of the party booking - I would’ve covered it. Surely..?

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MsSquiz · 15/05/2026 14:01

Pyjamatimenow · 14/05/2026 23:21

Not in a public place. Drop offs are for parties in a home at this age

It’s not a “public place” it’s a hired room within a zoo.
I’ve done drop offs at parties within a hired space when the birthday child’s parents stayed and there is an entertainer or party host for the kids.

vladimirVsvolodymr · 25/05/2026 09:04

As I posted upthread (I think) my daughter’s birthday was at the weekend in a farm. Parents to the party had to pay €8 entry fee which I covered. I had 11 kids and 10 parents. Most parents weren’t aware they had to pay, while one or two offered. The farm policy requires the adults to stay with with the kids. Ours were ages 4-6 so parents had to stay.
These party places can be expensive, ours per child was €23.50 and an extra €8 per adult, maybe the organisers cannot afford to pay for the ticket and you can always decline going.

Bleachedjeans · 25/05/2026 11:24

PennySweeet · 14/05/2026 18:58

It's a bit odd to make parents stay.

But at least they've been upfront about it and they can either accept or decline.

No. That means forcing your child to miss out when their other friends are going. How can you not see that?

PennySweeet · 25/05/2026 12:41

Bleachedjeans · 25/05/2026 11:24

No. That means forcing your child to miss out when their other friends are going. How can you not see that?

Everyone is at liberty to accept or decline a party invitation.

Kids need to learn they can't go to every single one they're invited to.

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