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Woman went ballistic at me in the gym

200 replies

JennaR · 23/03/2026 17:48

My gym had a big refurb recently, all brand new kit etc and it is really nice.

The issue is that there’s now very little ‘free’ space where you can place mats and do work on these.

The only space is directly in front of 3 of the machines (chest press etc) where there is a mirrored wall, there’s room for about 3 people to be working on mats in a row and the machines are about a metre away. This space is intended for mat work and it’s where they are hung up.

Yesterday, I was working out on one of the mats with ear pods in. There was a man using the machine directly behind me.

After being there for about 5 minutes, I noticed a woman walk over to me so took my ear pods out. She started ranting at me saying I was trying to get her boyfriends attention and why was I being so attention seeking by exercising right in front and ‘bending over’.

I quite firmly explained I was using the space as intended. She kept going on and then said I can do what I want because ‘she’ll be the one fucking him tonight’.

The man was silent throughout and once she finished going on, they walked off together.

Another member nearby came up to me and checked I was okay.

I’ve told a couple of people this today with mixed views - one thinks I probably shouldn’t have been there and it’s a stupid design, and the other says the woman was out of order.

Would welcome any views - it’s a hotel gym with regular members and I didn’t recognise them so am hoping they were guests and I won’t see her again.

OP posts:
Aeroyum · 23/03/2026 19:46

ChristmaslightsuptilJanuary · 23/03/2026 19:10

I really do think that 99% of what’s on mumsnet these days is made up shite. Just a general observation.

Yep, I don’t believe this happened

bunnyvsmonkey · 23/03/2026 19:47

I think you have just participated in a sex game. Seems like it's a ritual of some kind that they, as a couple, get kicks out of.

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/03/2026 19:49

Aeroyum · 23/03/2026 19:46

Yep, I don’t believe this happened

I can assure that people like this really do walk among us.

I have run pubs for years and have seen this happen many times.

Count yourself lucky if you have never encountered one.

Ali1262 · 23/03/2026 19:50

thequeenoftarts · 23/03/2026 19:39

LOL knowing my gob I would have replied with - if I wanted to fuck him, you being here won't get in my way, wouldn't have helped the matter at all but hey ho

Haha see i would say something like this as well, its amazing ive got to 48 and havent been decked

Mushypeasandchipstogo · 23/03/2026 19:51

OMG she is nuts ! Sounds very like my gym at the moment with a huge new revamp. Had a Lycra babe taking pictures of herself in the changing room with several of us oldies in the background. I told her to stop or I would stick her phone up where the sun don’t shine. She was so shocked that she was speechless. 🤣

Aeroyum · 23/03/2026 19:52

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/03/2026 19:49

I can assure that people like this really do walk among us.

I have run pubs for years and have seen this happen many times.

Count yourself lucky if you have never encountered one.

I haven’t, thankfully. I must have led a very sheltered life

Lavender14 · 23/03/2026 19:53

That relationship sounds toxic and like they'd be better off ending it. Absolutely mad.

I don't think you did anything wrong, however I think the hotel layout probably isn't great in that I think I'd feel a bit conscious if I thought people on the machines were watching me like that.

My guess is he was being a bit leery, she noticed and decided to take it out on you instead of him.

canisquaeso · 23/03/2026 20:02

She’s just bonkers, her being “plump” has nothing to do with it.

The new gym layout seems like it sucks though.

Solutionssought2026 · 23/03/2026 20:02

When I was in my 20s, I’d have probably just given him a blow job there and then just to make a point

Solutionssought2026 · 23/03/2026 20:03

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/03/2026 19:49

I can assure that people like this really do walk among us.

I have run pubs for years and have seen this happen many times.

Count yourself lucky if you have never encountered one.

I’d imagine those situations I usually alcohol fuel though this sounds as if it was stone cold sober

Devonshiregal · 23/03/2026 20:03

Mushypeasandchipstogo · 23/03/2026 19:51

OMG she is nuts ! Sounds very like my gym at the moment with a huge new revamp. Had a Lycra babe taking pictures of herself in the changing room with several of us oldies in the background. I told her to stop or I would stick her phone up where the sun don’t shine. She was so shocked that she was speechless. 🤣

You didn’t just ask her to not get you in her videos before resorting to aggressive language?

Dogmum74 · 23/03/2026 20:06

Report her. End of

notnorman · 23/03/2026 20:09

It wasn’t being filmed was it?

MikeRafone · 23/03/2026 20:11

Weirdo, I’d like you hope she is a hotel guest and not a regular.

Hotwaterpls · 23/03/2026 20:14

one thinks I probably shouldn’t have been there

not someone you actually get on with?!

NotDarkGothicMama · 23/03/2026 20:14

Were you dressed in a crop top, thong, and see-through sarong, doing squats and deadlifts while throwing winks and licking your lips at this man? If not, then she is a nutter. If so, leave out the winks and lip licking next time.

Fowen77 · 23/03/2026 20:31

Trying to locate a baby comforter from 2004 that came from boots tried eBay and Vinted no luck

Woman went ballistic at me in the gym
MacchiatoMavis · 23/03/2026 20:38

@Fowen77

Probably best to start a new thread for this

BringBackCatsEyes · 23/03/2026 20:39

Personally I would feel self conscious bending over in my gym kit right in front of anyone sitting at a gym machine. That's clearly my problem though. I absolutely would not be doing so to catch anyone's eye.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 23/03/2026 20:43

I would complain to gym asap so they can id her on cctv before its wiped

PeopleLikeColdplayYouCantTrustPeopleJez · 23/03/2026 20:56

She kept going on and then said I can do what I want because ‘she’ll be the one fucking him tonight’.

I’m dying of cringe on her behalf 😬

Noodles1234 · 23/03/2026 20:57

That isnt a good design, but you are where they have intended you to be.

I feel she maybe insecure in her relationship, that is not normal behaviour. It wouldn’t have bothered me in the slightest, I may have worried about your safety if only 1m between you and the machine.

might be worth asking the gym staff to put clearer signs up to save you or some other poor person from their rants.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 23/03/2026 20:59

Sounds like something set up you'd see on tik tok. I would've laughed in her face.

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/03/2026 21:00

Solutionssought2026 · 23/03/2026 20:03

I’d imagine those situations I usually alcohol fuel though this sounds as if it was stone cold sober

Not at all, I would say about 50/50. Would be more understandable if they were.

Moveoverdarlin · 23/03/2026 21:04

She’s a fucking nutcase and whilst I feel sorry for you for being spoken to like that, I feel more sorry for the poor bloke she’s with.

Take it as a very backhanded compliment - she was clearly threatened by you.