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Unfriending right wing friends

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nondrinker1985 · 16/02/2026 16:53

One of my school mum friends of around 10 years has started sharing loads of Restore Britain/Rupert Lowe posts.

I’m actually really shocked as she’s an Irish immigrant herself.

I’ve unfriended her which is a shame as day to day she’s ok. Also another mum who has been liking and commenting on the Restore Britain posts, they’ll probably tell me they’re not racist but I can’t be arsed calling them out.

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Miggledyhiggledy · 17/02/2026 21:36

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 21:32

True.

Having a PM who lies and a government that withholds information and is more worried about ‘narrative management’ than making the right decision will do that to a person.

Are you suggesting you believe everything they say?

The same PM who is ruled by his hard left backbenchers. A tax evading gobshite is coming up through the ranks yet these lefties try to lord it over the rest of us 😆 🤣 God help this country if Rayner is let loose on the international stage, representing the UK. Luckily, that's less chance of happening than a Reform government.

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 21:42

ToWhitToWhoo · 17/02/2026 21:33

People who are worried about Islamism (and I agree that Islamism is very right wing in itself!) and the dangers that it poses to secularism: are you also worried about the influence of the American Christian Right on our politics and on the world? Because surely ALL theocracy is dangerous?

Last time I checked the American Christian Right are not entering our country in increasing numbers, intimidating and threatening election candidates with beheading and declaring an intention to gain political control over us? Not to mention the constant threat of Islamist terrorist attacks.

If the ACR start doing that I’ll be more worried about them.

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 21:53

Katypp · 17/02/2026 14:00

But what's that got to do with this thread?
Surely you are not saying that everyone who does not agree with allowing unfettered immigration is laughing at children dying?
That shows a massive lack of common sense, critical thought and intelligence.
Why would you even think this?

Reading isn’t your forté, is it.

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 21:54

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 17/02/2026 08:44

Can you link it please?

You can literally look at ANY post from ANY major news outlet on ANY social media platform.

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 21:55

Sparron · 17/02/2026 08:37

I'm curious, did you take a look at how the social media accounts of certain demographics were reacting to events such as Charlie Hebdo, or the Bataclan attack?

Plenty of laughing emoji's there and calls for more.

And this is people living in the UK and other European countries.

If you are going to go all in on performative outrage, at least be consistent.

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Are you feeling ok? To have so spectacularly missed the point is really quite impressive.

HRTQueen · 17/02/2026 21:55

GoldDuster · 16/02/2026 17:01

I think it's a good idea not to be friends with bigots and racists.

Agree

Miggledyhiggledy · 17/02/2026 21:58

HRTQueen · 17/02/2026 21:55

Agree

I also agree. I don't really care for the left remaining in my recognised circle. When they proudly march for the death of Jews and boycott Isreali goods, it tells me what racists and fascists they are. What's that saying about the garbage taking itself out?

Happyjoe · 17/02/2026 22:08

Miggledyhiggledy · 17/02/2026 21:24

I think you know all about side stepping, or is that the okey cokey that seems to be your preferred dance?

Well, I am not the one who didn't believe that Starmer stopped the taxi rides which started this who convo. That's the problem when you butt into another conversation between two people!

JHound · 17/02/2026 22:11

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 20:49

I guess there have been a few incidents where immigrants have attacked medical staff in hospitals so maybe it’s safer to avoid them having to queue - I hope they have protection.

Is that a “yes”?

EasternStandard · 17/02/2026 22:11

Happyjoe · 17/02/2026 20:51

You are mixing things up and getting confused.

Of course there are crimes in the EU, nobody as said otherwise and nothing is 100% foolproof remember.
BUT, they are not all committed by people who already have a record as already mentioned and without a criminal record how do you predict?

We are no longer privy to those who do actually have a record as found out by another EU country, or who are considered a threat, whereas the ones in the EU who share information, fingerprints and track illegal immigrants etc do. I presume those ones are then not granted asylum and are removed quite fast and if a person tries again in the EU, the information is there. The information as far as I am aware is digital and quick.

We now have to rely on finding out each and every asylum seeker from scratch, we only have slow and not very good interpol really and our own methods. So, even if they had already been refused in another country because of criminal background (or whatever reason they are failed asylum seekers), we don't know. Adding to the backlog of a year or so waiting, allowing people to roam our streets freely while they wait and of course, the cost of hotels etc with that backlog keeps mounting.

Losing access to this information of Eurodac and SIS II because of brexit has hurt us, not just because of immigrants but many other types of criminals. If you don't believe me, please go read. It's one of the things Starmer tried very much to get access to again in the EU with good reason, but they refused. It would've helped massively with the backlog of cases that they inherited. Sharing information on criminals, not just immigration related too has stopped for the most part, leaving the UK more vulnerable too.

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No confusion thanks I think you’re overstating Brexit on this. Especially when compared with other EU struggles over migration, bar Poland.

Even Mahmood has said similar in a rare moment of Labour honesty.

Miggledyhiggledy · 17/02/2026 22:14

Happyjoe · 17/02/2026 22:08

Well, I am not the one who didn't believe that Starmer stopped the taxi rides which started this who convo. That's the problem when you butt into another conversation between two people!

Well that's the problem when you think an AIBU platform only includes two people. I'm not surprised your thinking doesn't extend beyond your own comfort zone.

RosesAndHellebores · 17/02/2026 22:17

HRTQueen · 17/02/2026 21:55

Agree

Or communists and anti-semites.

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 22:18

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 21:54

You can literally look at ANY post from ANY major news outlet on ANY social media platform.

So you can’t link to even one. It’s ok to just admit that.

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 22:24

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 22:18

So you can’t link to even one. It’s ok to just admit that.

So you can’t Google? It’s ok to just admit that.

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 22:29

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 22:18

So you can’t link to even one. It’s ok to just admit that.

As you apparently don’t know how the internet works, here. Literally the first things that come up if you search “migrant boat news” on Facebook.

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Teanbiscuits33 · 17/02/2026 22:31

Basquervill · 16/02/2026 17:36

Acceptance , inclusivity and diversity. Except if you disagree with them, in which case, ostracise.

Nobody is obligated to tolerate intolerance. Because then intolerance becomes acceptable and then we really are fucked.

I don’t want to be associated with people who follow fascistic ideology, and I don’t give a fuck what people who follow that think of me because they aren’t worth it anyway. There was a time not so long ago when people with those views would be shamed and ostracised, and rightly so.

Miggledyhiggledy · 17/02/2026 22:33

Teanbiscuits33 · 17/02/2026 22:31

Nobody is obligated to tolerate intolerance. Because then intolerance becomes acceptable and then we really are fucked.

I don’t want to be associated with people who follow fascistic ideology, and I don’t give a fuck what people who follow that think of me because they aren’t worth it anyway. There was a time not so long ago when people with those views would be shamed and ostracised, and rightly so.

Yet you DO follow fascist ideology and your very post attests to that. You don't and won't want to see it. Are you the arbiter of all that's good, holy and worthy in the world?

Teanbiscuits33 · 17/02/2026 22:35

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JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 22:36

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 22:29

As you apparently don’t know how the internet works, here. Literally the first things that come up if you search “migrant boat news” on Facebook.

You made the claim, it’s interesting to know what sort of media you look at.

I don’t read the Sun, nor is it remotely credible proof of anything, even if you really want it to be. Soz.

Your very rude attitude won’t help convince anyone either.

Miggledyhiggledy · 17/02/2026 22:38

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The usual dramatic and personal attack from the left. Likewise, nobody has to agree with you in order to be free of defamatory and very lazy labels.

RosaMundi27 · 17/02/2026 22:38

Have you tried being more tolerant? It's a helpful strategy if you want to have people in your life who aren't just living in your silo.

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 22:39

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 17/02/2026 22:36

You made the claim, it’s interesting to know what sort of media you look at.

I don’t read the Sun, nor is it remotely credible proof of anything, even if you really want it to be. Soz.

Your very rude attitude won’t help convince anyone either.

You are prerfectly at liberty to find articles from any source that you like, and the other is from the bbc. The article itself is irrelevant- my entire point was about people “laugh reacting” and crowing in the comments. You denied this happens. I have proven it does.

Teanbiscuits33 · 17/02/2026 22:44

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Miggledyhiggledy · 17/02/2026 22:47

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I don't believe in friends because they've proven fickle, over time. I do, however, believe in everybody's right to free speech. Do you?

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 17/02/2026 22:49

PortSalutPlease · 17/02/2026 21:54

You can literally look at ANY post from ANY major news outlet on ANY social media platform.

I have. I haven’t seen THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of the posts you are referring to.

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