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To ask what age you would say is no longer dying young

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Whyohwhy88 · 01/01/2026 19:35

Although hard still I feel from 80 onwards it’s expected

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User3353821614 · 10/09/2026 07:06

I work in probate and I’d say 80. We see more and more people making it to their very late 80s and 90s.

Spidey66 · 10/09/2026 07:12

My dad died at 56 which was definitely young. My mum died at 67 which now I’m 60 seems young. I’d say if someone gets to 80+ they’ve had a good innings.

Savvysix1984 · 10/09/2026 07:12

about 70, but I know very ‘young’ 70 year olds like my parents who have busy social lives, good health, go on holiday 5-6 times a year and can still run after grandkids. I know others who look 80 with chronic conditions and poor mobility who just present as very old.

Etincelle · 10/09/2026 14:38

Average lifespan is around 80, but average healthy life span is only 60 apparently. I guess before 60 is young.

Zov · 10/09/2026 15:27

Why has this thread been bumped up (today) after 8 months of no posts?

ZOMBIE THREAD!

givemesteel · 10/09/2026 15:59

It depends. My dad is 84 and he's in great health so I'd be in shock if he died now though technically it wouldn't be befire his time.

My aunt is 79 and hasn't looked after herself, I've been surprised she's still here for quite some years.

BugOnARugDrinkingTeaFromAMug · 10/09/2026 17:47

I think 70 for dying young, over that it can still be younger than expected but not young as such.

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 11/09/2026 08:17

80's although very much depends on the individual. I know some very spritely 80 year olds!

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