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AIBU?

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To be annoyed at this?

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ByDreamyLimeLurker · 24/12/2025 02:41

Hi all, dont know if im just overreacting.

To cut a long story short, struggling a lot with sleep lately due to pregnancy and DP hogging the bed. We have a kingsize so theres plenty room for both. Im now getting bigger with bump and DP has recently resorted to either lying on top of me or giving me such little space im hanging off the bed. This has now been happening for around 3 weeks.

Around 30 minutes ago he woke me up because he started lying on top of me again. Asked him to move around 5 times over the 30 minute period. Kept getting an attitude off him so i eventually lifted my pillows and a blanket to head downstairs for the sofa as ive got an early start at 5am.

As i took my pillows he woke up and said "what are you doing?" So i replied "im just heading downstairs to sleep because I dont want to keep waking you up when you start work tomorrow at 2pm" after i said this i was hit with "aw whatever, BYE!" in a very sarcastic way.

AIBU? i feel like hes being a bit selfish considering im not as small as i used to be now bump is well and truly out there.

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ForUmberFinch · 26/12/2025 11:19

And you chose to procreate with this turd? Good grief. I’d be kicking him out ASAP. He won’t cope when baby arrives and he isn’t centre of attention. Good luck OP. You’ll need it!

Picklejuiceleak · 26/12/2025 11:48

Sorry, but he’s a twat. As always, why did you have a child with this man?

It sounds like you’re being really too nice to him about it all. His reaction is ridiculous.

Did you know, the leading cause of death in pregnancy is murder? Now I’m not suggesting he’s going to end your life, but you’re pregnant and your partner is abusing you if he thinks acting this way is ok.

Bedrock81 · 26/12/2025 14:31

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