To not really want to better myself

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I'm supposed to be reading more books, learning other languages and to play an instrument, lose weight

All I wanna do is lay down, look at tiktok videos and offer my opinion on mumsnet whilst watching classic holby city and eating biscuits

I think I'll be fat and gossipy with a 10 second attention span forever

Does anyone relate or have any advice 😪😄

I would recommend you form a political party . You would win the next election by an overwhelming majority.

Do you really just want to look at tik tok videos?
look at your screen time and see how many hours this week you didn’t in tik tok and let us know which videos actually stick in your mind as being worthwhile of spending your time on.

Im similar so working on it too but luckily I exercise and joined a book club. Have you Sen those videos about disappearing for 6 weeks or months or whatever to quietly focus on your goals? I love them and really want to do it.

I'm supposed to be reading more books, learning other languages and to play an instrument, lose weight

Says who?

Wtf is this comment. What has given you this idea?

Important question… where the hell do you find classic Holby?! Need links please…

Not everyone wants to be striving like a rat on a treadmill. Maybe you should lay down and eat a biscuit every now and then. It would do you good...

Go away, Jane 🙄

Are you perimenopausal by any chance?? Even with HRT I’m going through serious spells of can’t-be-arsed-itus!

Guilt free laziness is my guilty pleasure.

Yawn. No need for this Jane. We can't all be go-getters. If we were all the same life would be very boring. I think most kids would prefer a mum like OP. Busy people don't spend any time with their kids.

Me too.
Am hormonal and just want to nap, eat rubbish and watch tv. Don’t want to entertain child, exercise or make dinner but not sure how long I can get away with the lying down…

That list is exhausting.
Pick one of those things and just work on that.
Then you’ll still have time for Holby.
Bit of both, not all or nothing?

How rude!

Why do you have to learn all those things OP?
Just pick one - start small

The people trying to do those things are the jugglers who are on the verge of burnt out and don’t know how to stop. I dropped all the balls last year and wish to god I could do what you want to do guilt free!!! Go for it op!

I advise Hobnobs; chocolate ones.

FUCKING HELL 😭😭

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Do you know what, maybe

I'm 33 - my dm was always talking about being menopausal (I never listened 🤭)

🥺🥺 thank you

Me and dd are in bed together 😄, she loves biscuits (and is naturally thin and tall)

Dunno who riled up Jane

@youreactinglikeafunmum youre a bit young but it’s not impossible, would be very early though.

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We've got bourbons, chocolate digestives and these cream and jam ones

Come on then Jane, tell us how you spend your evenings

Tiktok makes time disappear, just like mumsnet. No advice. 😅

Pretty unlikely you're menopausal at 33 (though not impossible).

I don't know what you want from this thread tbh. If you don't want to read books and learn languages, don't. You won't stick at that kind of thing anyway if you don't want to do it. Some posters will think the things you prefer to do are low-brow and thick. Others will think you're just normal and people who like reading literature and learning languages are intellectual snobs. It's up to you. Do what you enjoy.