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Jesus Christ it keeps going

473 replies

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 14:49

After Bonnie blue beat Lily Philips to "bed" as many men as possible in 12 hours, lily has now said she plans to have anal sex with as many men as she can, I'm guessing in 24 hours.

apple.news/AiTwmZjdrTHu-iTDkVjOQ9Q

wtf is wrong with people ?
Aibu or has the world gone mad ?
I'm no prude but this all just seems so classless.

OP posts:
Keeponkeepingon9 · 19/01/2025 10:25

MyPearlCrow · 19/01/2025 10:01

I feel the former reaction reflects the sad way women do tend to judge other women, which starts super early these days as young girls at primary school. I am militant about stamping out any bitching I hear from my kids, and any bitching I hear in my female groups. Women need to stick together not rip each other apart.

imagine it’s your daughter, sister, niece. Be respectful.

@MyPearlCrow so you believe your daughter sister,niece should respect a woman who voluntarily has anal sex with a vast amount of strangers in one night.
I say judge and bitch away rather than promote & accept the idea it's normal & should be respected. There is nothing to be respected about women voluntarily having anal sex with a vast amount of of random men in one session & there is nothing to be respected about the men who participate.

Leafy74 · 19/01/2025 10:27

A friend of mine is a secondary school teacher.
Some girls now see Only Fans as a career choice.

In the last few weeks she's heard girls talking about who they prefer, Lily or Bonnie.

In my day girls talked about the Bay City Rollers or ABBA.

EarlofShrewsbury · 19/01/2025 10:29

Has anyone done the maths?

1000 men in 12 hours is 1 man every 43.2 seconds.

Youngheartsalittletogetherness · 19/01/2025 10:32

Leafy74 · 19/01/2025 10:27

A friend of mine is a secondary school teacher.
Some girls now see Only Fans as a career choice.

In the last few weeks she's heard girls talking about who they prefer, Lily or Bonnie.

In my day girls talked about the Bay City Rollers or ABBA.

Edited

That's such a sad indictment on society.
Prostitution has always been around but it was never a career choice it was generally taken up in desperate circumstances.

Keeponkeepingon9 · 19/01/2025 10:37

Leafy74 · 19/01/2025 10:27

A friend of mine is a secondary school teacher.
Some girls now see Only Fans as a career choice.

In the last few weeks she's heard girls talking about who they prefer, Lily or Bonnie.

In my day girls talked about the Bay City Rollers or ABBA.

Edited

I hope the Teacher concerned on hearing this took them aside to warn them about the dangers of this behaviour. If not then they may as well promote a Lily or Bonnie lifestyle as being the norm. A Teacher can't prevent pupils talking about sexual depravity. They can and should intervene if they hear it in exactly the same way they would intervene if there was a fight.

Keeponkeepingon9 · 19/01/2025 10:45

EarlofShrewsbury · 19/01/2025 10:29

Has anyone done the maths?

1000 men in 12 hours is 1 man every 43.2 seconds.

Women promoting this are either seriously depraved or seriously mentally ill.The men who participate in this should be jailed.

KimberleyClark · 19/01/2025 10:46

Anyotherdude · 19/01/2025 08:51

I’m just thinking “where’s Mary Whitehouse when we need her now, more than ever?”

Yes. I could weep for the teenagers growing up in such a raunchified pornified culture where hooking up with strangers for sex is seen as the norm. I hope they are being told that it is absolutely fine to not want to have casual sex and that not wanting to does not mean you are a frigid prude.

MermaidEyes · 19/01/2025 10:50

It’s not in the broadsheets. Stop reading trash in place of news?

Huh. I've seen 3 stories in my local evening paper so far, probably because that's where both these girls come from, but still.

KeepYaHeadUp · 19/01/2025 10:58

@MyPearlCrow - you've entirely missed the point - it's all over social media, and Mumsnet... ergo it's bound to make its way into conversation in schools at some point - assuming it hasn't already.

Leafy74 · 19/01/2025 11:09

Keeponkeepingon9 · 19/01/2025 10:45

Women promoting this are either seriously depraved or seriously mentally ill.The men who participate in this should be jailed.

Jailed for what though?

PoltergeistsStartLowKey · 19/01/2025 11:11

MamaTrois · 17/01/2025 14:57

Absolutely.

Do you think as many women would be in the queue for a man with the same objectives?

This is an interesting standpoint.

MyPearlCrow · 19/01/2025 11:17

KeepYaHeadUp · 19/01/2025 10:58

@MyPearlCrow - you've entirely missed the point - it's all over social media, and Mumsnet... ergo it's bound to make its way into conversation in schools at some point - assuming it hasn't already.

I certainly won’t be sharing this story to a wider audience. If fewer people did, perhaps it would deny the essential oxygen and it might fizzle out?

Keeponkeepingon9 · 19/01/2025 11:19

Leafy74 · 19/01/2025 11:09

Jailed for what though?

Exploiting and taking sexual advantage of insanity.

Allog · 19/01/2025 11:23

Why does she stick to men? Why doesn’t she try horses, pigs, goats etc? That would really get her headlines.

Judecb · 19/01/2025 11:23

It's incredibly sad. I suspect there are mental health problems here. It also speaks to the type of men who would want to be involved with this "challenge". All very disturbing.

ObelixtheGaul · 19/01/2025 11:35

What's worrying me is the number of you on this thread that seems to be so very au fait with the details of all this. I hadn't heard or seen a thing about it until I read this thread.

Absolutely nothing has come up about in on my internet newsfeed or on any of my news sources.
This thread is full of, 'I read an article, I saw a video'. Someone upthread was able to answer a question about how it all worked, whether the men queued up, etc.

If you are all so horrified by it, and rightly so, I really can't understand why you appear to be reading so much about it. Just from this thread, and I haven't read all of it, I have NO wish to read any article or watch any video about this at all.

Part of the problem is right here. All of you who have clicked on links, watched videos, listened to interviews, have all taken part in the profiteering at the expense of this woman.

You don't want your kids seeing this shit, stop keeping it in circulation. Every article posted online about this is telling yet more men who is doing this and where to go to look at this. For every person reading in outrage, someone else is reading with a different kind of interest.

Wherever this is that you are all getting this from, you should be complaining, reporting and blocking. Doesn't matter if it's an article from a 'respected' tabloid expressing moral outrage over it, it's still part of the problem. Mainstream media is a responsive beast. If it's not getting the eyeballs, it won't keep dragging up the lurid details. And if you aren't regularly clicking on content from the sort of media outlets that run lurid articles on this kind of thing, you won't see it come up.

Vote with your eyes. Don't feed the frenzy.

Keeponkeepingon9 · 19/01/2025 11:36

Judecb · 19/01/2025 11:23

It's incredibly sad. I suspect there are mental health problems here. It also speaks to the type of men who would want to be involved with this "challenge". All very disturbing.

So true, although just as disturbing is when the woman concerned suffers severe damage to the point of no longer having control of her bowels. The final men may be in for a shock.

MyPearlCrow · 19/01/2025 11:39

ObelixtheGaul · 19/01/2025 11:35

What's worrying me is the number of you on this thread that seems to be so very au fait with the details of all this. I hadn't heard or seen a thing about it until I read this thread.

Absolutely nothing has come up about in on my internet newsfeed or on any of my news sources.
This thread is full of, 'I read an article, I saw a video'. Someone upthread was able to answer a question about how it all worked, whether the men queued up, etc.

If you are all so horrified by it, and rightly so, I really can't understand why you appear to be reading so much about it. Just from this thread, and I haven't read all of it, I have NO wish to read any article or watch any video about this at all.

Part of the problem is right here. All of you who have clicked on links, watched videos, listened to interviews, have all taken part in the profiteering at the expense of this woman.

You don't want your kids seeing this shit, stop keeping it in circulation. Every article posted online about this is telling yet more men who is doing this and where to go to look at this. For every person reading in outrage, someone else is reading with a different kind of interest.

Wherever this is that you are all getting this from, you should be complaining, reporting and blocking. Doesn't matter if it's an article from a 'respected' tabloid expressing moral outrage over it, it's still part of the problem. Mainstream media is a responsive beast. If it's not getting the eyeballs, it won't keep dragging up the lurid details. And if you aren't regularly clicking on content from the sort of media outlets that run lurid articles on this kind of thing, you won't see it come up.

Vote with your eyes. Don't feed the frenzy.

This.

Meltingslush · 19/01/2025 11:42

Ugh 😩 She will be incontinent before she's 40. Seriously.😟

Pianoaholic · 19/01/2025 12:00

Sarah Vine has written a very good article about this in mail on Sunday today.
I agree with everything she says about this , she talks alot about the wider implications for women and girls from only fans websites and the behaviour of Bonnie blue and the like. Can't link, sorry.
So for people who say it's not being reported on in the wider media, it has been today.

MermaidEyes · 19/01/2025 12:25

Allog · 19/01/2025 11:23

Why does she stick to men? Why doesn’t she try horses, pigs, goats etc? That would really get her headlines.

Yeah and a jail sentence

NewBootsWeather · 19/01/2025 12:54

@ObelixtheGaul

Complaining and reporting won't do anything. Unfortunately, apparently nothing illegal is going on. Its all over TikTok. The kids will see it.

Alltheyearround · 19/01/2025 13:00

Asvoria · 18/01/2025 23:31

She's a total amateur, women have three holes don't we? If she wanted to make a real impact she'd do 3000 men with one in each hole. It'd look like a game of Twister, but hey, at least it'd be fun 🙄

So classy 🤮

Stock up on hemorrhoid cream and faecal incontinence pads for afterwards though.

Makes your bum clench thinking about the physical after effects, as well as the psychological consequences. Just awful. I can't imagine a parent encouraging their daughter to do this. It makes me so sad.

ObelixtheGaul · 19/01/2025 13:38

NewBootsWeather · 19/01/2025 12:54

@ObelixtheGaul

Complaining and reporting won't do anything. Unfortunately, apparently nothing illegal is going on. Its all over TikTok. The kids will see it.

Reading every article going about it isn't going to achieve anything. It might be all over TikTok, but we could help prevent it from being all over everywhere else by not giving it our eyeballs.

Every time you click on an article, you are 'telling' that media source that this is of interest. How many people do you think reading the outraged articles have hopped over to TikTok to see what the fuss is about?

The more we read about this, the more there is to read, the bigger the story becomes, the more people hear about it. The more articles produced, the greater chance even more children will have of seeing it. Even worse, the greater chance more sleazy men will hear about it.

I am not sure when we, as a society, will really start understanding that we aren't led by the media, the media is led by us.

3luckystars · 19/01/2025 15:14

I dont agree we should ignore it. I think we need to talk about it. Any man taking part in this need to be told that it will be investigated afterwards.

The woman is going to be injured publicly by hundreds of men. There is a hint that she may have autism or have mental health issues, it needs to be gotten out there that’s this is completely and utterly wrong and maybe illegal and they need to stay away from her entirely.