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Jesus Christ it keeps going

473 replies

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 14:49

After Bonnie blue beat Lily Philips to "bed" as many men as possible in 12 hours, lily has now said she plans to have anal sex with as many men as she can, I'm guessing in 24 hours.

apple.news/AiTwmZjdrTHu-iTDkVjOQ9Q

wtf is wrong with people ?
Aibu or has the world gone mad ?
I'm no prude but this all just seems so classless.

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BitOutOfPractice · 18/01/2025 19:39

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I only have one word to answer that and it’s “eh?”

how did you get to that from what I wrote?

3luckystars · 18/01/2025 20:02

Most women over 45 are on antidepressants and alone and it's only going to get worse while most men can thrive being alone, most women sadly cannot.

Imagine, of all the things in this thread, this has shocked me the most!

ARingtoit · 18/01/2025 20:08

This is so utterly depressing. Misogyny is on the rise including in women and girls. I am so scared for girls now. This sort of thing just reinforces negative ideas of women.

theresabluebirdinmyheart · 18/01/2025 20:17

So gross, what next? What if she says getting slapped or punched in the face turns her on and lines up guys to do that to her?

Her whole demeanour and behaviour screams some serious kind of childhood trauma or an undiagnosed personality disorder tbh.

theresabluebirdinmyheart · 18/01/2025 20:21

AliasGrace47 · 18/01/2025 16:17

I had a look at the Graft Kings podcast & yes, Lily did say her parents were 'always sexually open.' Heaven knows what that means. .
The parents should be focused on by the media. It's really creepy how the mum is the one organising the funds, I makes you wonder what their motive is. 😡
Another notable thing is that she uses her real name, for a lot of reasons porn stars don't normally do that. Even Annabel Chong didn't. Unwise for many reasons.

Yeah it makes you wonder what she was exposed to as a child and if she was groomed into it. she seems really unwell and i agree with pp that sadly can see suicide or drugs in her future. Don’t think I’ve ever heard of a “porn star” having a happily ever after when they retire.

AliasGrace47 · 18/01/2025 20:25

Iceboy, Most men thrive on being alone, you say? What about the towering male loneliness & suicide rates? Loneliness is bad for everyone, but it affects men more bc women evolved & socialised more for connection.

AliasGrace47 · 18/01/2025 20:27

OlderMumAndProudOfIt · 18/01/2025 18:03

The only place I've heard either of these stories (for the first time) is here and it's not like I've checked out of the news so...perhaps you need to check where you're getting your news.

It's been mentioned in most media: DM, Spectator, Guardian,

CheeseQuiche · 18/01/2025 20:29

theresabluebirdinmyheart · 18/01/2025 20:17

So gross, what next? What if she says getting slapped or punched in the face turns her on and lines up guys to do that to her?

Her whole demeanour and behaviour screams some serious kind of childhood trauma or an undiagnosed personality disorder tbh.

The horse has long since bolted. Literally anything you can think of is already on onlyfans and porn in general.

oggie679 · 18/01/2025 20:32

wonderblocks · 18/01/2025 12:39

The thing is what I worry is what the hell is it going to be next ? So Bonnie beat Lily to have sex with over a thousand men in what was it, 12 hours ? So then Lily goes okay, I'm Gona let 1,000 men bum me ! What will Bonnie then do ?! Fucking madness all of this.
And the men to be honest I don't know what to say because let's face it, it's men. Yes not all of them but a vast majority do see women as objects to fuck and Chuck.

It makes me wonder if all women are expected to want gangbangs and deep throating, anal etc and if we don't we're "frigid" because of this publicity.
I remember that word going around secondary school early 2000's

That's why I think it's so important that we give our kids (& sons) very different sex Ed talks to what we got in the 80s/90s. Now it's about reminding them that those women they (are bound to) have seen are acting, it's not real, it's not what you should expect a girl to do (or be like) in bed - and same talk to the girls - you don't need to act like that to please the guy, it's all fake and exaggerated.

I've heard of mum's getting their sons subscriptions to 'OMG Yes' to try and counter this kind of stuff when they're the right age, I might do that.

Deeperthantheocean · 18/01/2025 20:58

Just disgusting and no self respect, desperate for no talent or hard work fame. Great role model for any future children, oh my Mummy shagged 100 men to become in/famous. Yuk!

Fixx · 18/01/2025 21:01

🤢🤢🤢

Bobbybooo · 18/01/2025 21:07

wonderblocks · 17/01/2025 14:49

After Bonnie blue beat Lily Philips to "bed" as many men as possible in 12 hours, lily has now said she plans to have anal sex with as many men as she can, I'm guessing in 24 hours.

apple.news/AiTwmZjdrTHu-iTDkVjOQ9Q

wtf is wrong with people ?
Aibu or has the world gone mad ?
I'm no prude but this all just seems so classless.

It's infuriating that the same news outlets that advertise these despicable creatures were applauding Gisele Pelicot only a few weeks ago. The men who are queuing for sex with these women are no better than the men who raped Gisele, no moral or self respect.

JHound · 18/01/2025 21:10

I don’t know why news platforms keeps giving them this attention.

But as gross as they are at least their grossness has no impact on my life so I shall continue to ignore them.

JHound · 18/01/2025 21:15

The only positive from this…a lot of comments have jumped to assume these women are from
broken homes, derived backgrounds and have “absent fathers” - “this is what happens when you’re raised by a single mother” is one comment I saw.

So it has been satisfying to point out they both appear to be from staunchly middle class, fairly privileged, two parent households. And for both of them I believe their parents help with aspects of their work.

JHound · 18/01/2025 21:16

Newbutoldfather · 18/01/2025 13:52

The anal sex is to me a tricky one, as I think she will end up physically damaged, and that is entirely foreseeable.

You can’t consent to be assaulted, so the legality of the men having anal sex with her is, to me, questionable.

The legality isn’t questionable at all. You disapproving doesn’t make it non consensual or illegal.

JHound · 18/01/2025 21:18

AliasGrace47 · 18/01/2025 16:17

I had a look at the Graft Kings podcast & yes, Lily did say her parents were 'always sexually open.' Heaven knows what that means. .
The parents should be focused on by the media. It's really creepy how the mum is the one organising the funds, I makes you wonder what their motive is. 😡
Another notable thing is that she uses her real name, for a lot of reasons porn stars don't normally do that. Even Annabel Chong didn't. Unwise for many reasons.

It’s just the industry. For most porn stars their real times are also known. It’s not like it’s hard for k ow their identity when their faces are on camera.

JHound · 18/01/2025 21:20

Technonan · 18/01/2025 17:53

If you do the maths, you'll see that in order to have had sex with 1,000 men in 12 hours, Ms Blue would have to have sex with each man for around 0.77 of a minute, with no breaks. Can't be done.

Yep - it was clear she was lying. I am not sure which is sadder - doing it or claiming you did.

JHound · 18/01/2025 21:21

ARingtoit · 18/01/2025 20:08

This is so utterly depressing. Misogyny is on the rise including in women and girls. I am so scared for girls now. This sort of thing just reinforces negative ideas of women.

So blame women for the misogyny they face?

theresabluebirdinmyheart · 18/01/2025 21:31

oggie679 · 18/01/2025 20:32

That's why I think it's so important that we give our kids (& sons) very different sex Ed talks to what we got in the 80s/90s. Now it's about reminding them that those women they (are bound to) have seen are acting, it's not real, it's not what you should expect a girl to do (or be like) in bed - and same talk to the girls - you don't need to act like that to please the guy, it's all fake and exaggerated.

I've heard of mum's getting their sons subscriptions to 'OMG Yes' to try and counter this kind of stuff when they're the right age, I might do that.

The thing is that they’re not acting, it’s all horribly real. Damaged women letting men abuse them for money and being filmed while it’s being done.
They clamped down on pro ana sites and sites that promoted self injury and suicide, personally I think sites that promote violent sexual acts on women who clearly are doing it as a form of self harm are the same. Worse even.

PruneEnigmatique · 18/01/2025 21:35

MumblesParty · 17/01/2025 15:41

@sometimesmovingforwards are you trying to open up a debate, or are you genuinely confused at the difference between having regular one-night-stands, and allowing an unlimited number of men to penetrate your anus constantly for 12 hours? Because to my mind it’s clear that one is sexual preference, and the other is significant mental illness.

I think the issue is the way most people have reacted here. There are very few comments genuinely worrying about her mental health and wellbeing, about possibly being exploited and the circumstances in her life that led her to it. Instead, it's all outraged squeaking about "disgrace" and being "classless" and "repulsive" - can you see the difference between the two kinds of reactions? Because I can and I find the latter nasty and judgmental in the worst possible way.

But that's Mumsnet for you.

Totallymessed · 18/01/2025 21:38

dayswithaY · 18/01/2025 19:09

Most women over 45 are on antidepressants and alone and it's only going to get worse while most men can thrive being alone, most women sadly cannot.

You can’t be serious, the single women over 45 that I know love their life, they feel liberated.

It’s men who can’t seem to cope without a partner carer.

Edited

Yup, no idea where that comes from. The most contented group of adults are single women.

ARingtoit · 18/01/2025 21:38

JHound · 18/01/2025 21:21

So blame women for the misogyny they face?

Weird inference from my comment. Of course I don't blame women for misogyny nor do I blame this woman. I blame the patriarchy and internalised misogyny. I am pro sex work but this woman markets herself to teenage boys and is showing them and teenage girls that a woman is a hole and female pleasure is irrelevant.

HorsesAreRunningOn3LegsTonight · 18/01/2025 22:18

It’s not “ sex “ , she’s a hole.
Sad.

CheeseQuiche · 18/01/2025 22:20

HorsesAreRunningOn3LegsTonight · 18/01/2025 22:18

It’s not “ sex “ , she’s a hole.
Sad.

I agree and I do wish the media would stop saying "sleeping with" - Its a queue of youngish men all with their phones in one hand and their cocks in the other, punching it in and out of these girls vaginas and mouths. They need to report on it accurately.

Grammarnut · 18/01/2025 22:29

wonderblocks · 18/01/2025 12:39

The thing is what I worry is what the hell is it going to be next ? So Bonnie beat Lily to have sex with over a thousand men in what was it, 12 hours ? So then Lily goes okay, I'm Gona let 1,000 men bum me ! What will Bonnie then do ?! Fucking madness all of this.
And the men to be honest I don't know what to say because let's face it, it's men. Yes not all of them but a vast majority do see women as objects to fuck and Chuck.

It makes me wonder if all women are expected to want gangbangs and deep throating, anal etc and if we don't we're "frigid" because of this publicity.
I remember that word going around secondary school early 2000's

Only Fans makes a few rich. Others not so much. And it's prostitution, giving free adverts to the porn industry.
As to having 1000 men have anal intercourse - that has shades of what happened to Mme Pelicot. It's stuff like this that made it possible for her rape to happen because the men involved can say, but it's consensual, it's a sex kink - and that's exactly what some of Mme Pelicot's attackers said.