Dds both took 3 goes to pass at 17/18. A lot of lessons! But we live in a busy area, so by the time they actually passed, we were confident that they’d had plenty of practice in traffic.
A friend of a dd, who passed after just 12 lessons in a relatively quiet area where her DPs had a holiday home, was then too scared for months to drive in busy traffic anywhere near her own home!
I passed first time, but it was abroad ages ago, where it was definitely easier. We knew of someone who actually drove through a red light, and still passed! The examiner just said, ‘Remember next time!’
And when we lived in Oman, a (Brit) colleague of mine was learning with a local instructor. At one point she told him she really needed to practise reversing, to which he replied, ‘Oh, they don’t ask ladies to go backwards here.’ 😂
That was ages ago though - I bet they do now, far more cars on the roads.