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Would this give you a major ick?!?! Re: sexting

106 replies

Coldcoldcold98 · 05/01/2025 17:19

I have recently dated a guy and we were sexting and got onto the topic of sucking breasts.. and he put back, not joking, ‘goo goo gah gah I’d love to’ ?!?!

OP posts:
nonbinaryfinery · 05/01/2025 18:16

Coldcoldcold98 · 05/01/2025 17:59

Thanks for the laugh, these replies are great and just as I am feeling myself 😁it makes me feel worse as I am a single parent, my little one isn't a baby anymore but its made me feel he has some sort of fetish or something for mums or breastfeeding or something like that.

He's got a breastfeeding fetish I bet you.

Woodworm2020 · 05/01/2025 18:16

Yikes.

Deadbeatex · 05/01/2025 18:35

I love a bit of sexting so no judgement there but eugh that's a total nope from me!! Tbf some people are just not great at sexting, how was the rest of his chat? Was he maybe trying to be funny rather than sexy?

I actually don't know why I continued typing after nope from me 😂 cos really does it matter? The damage is done and I don't think there's much coming back from that

MiniPumpkin · 05/01/2025 18:58

Vagina clamped shut indefinitely

Onetimeonly2024 · 05/01/2025 19:03

My legs literally clamped shut as I read it. Bin. Immediately.

Pamosonic · 05/01/2025 19:05

Depends on the context of what you were sexting him prior.

BobbyBiscuits · 05/01/2025 19:08

Yeah. Absolutely gross.
I'd be really worried he had a lactation or 'man baby' fetish. 🤢

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 05/01/2025 19:09

Any one who puts anything remotely baby like in any form of sexual conversation is a complete no go. Urgh just absolutely vile.
Similarly, but non sexual situation, had an ex once years ago who put cream around his groin for chafing on holiday and then he did this pretend baby waaa waaa thing. Game over at that point am afraid I can't fancy someone like that.

BCBird · 05/01/2025 19:10

Gross. This thread is helping with the Sunday night blues.

Waterboatlass · 05/01/2025 19:12

Pamosonic · 05/01/2025 19:05

Depends on the context of what you were sexting him prior.

What would have made this in keeping, like?

TwoBigNoisyBoys · 05/01/2025 19:12

🤮🤮🤮 instant ick!!!

RachelGreep87 · 05/01/2025 20:07

Log it with 111

Bamboosilverleaf · 05/01/2025 20:17

Redgreenred10 · 05/01/2025 17:25

I was one sexing a boyfriend and he texted me he was “sweating like a rapist”.
he was dumped immediately

I've had this one b4 ... repulses me still now

Exasperated24 · 05/01/2025 20:42

Teanbiscuits33 · 05/01/2025 17:23

I think texting about sucking breasts is bad enough in the first place, but his reply is repugnant. Sounds like an absolute weirdo. I’d dump immediately.

This

saltandvinegarchipsticks · 05/01/2025 20:47

Ew

Justsaywhatyoumean123 · 05/01/2025 20:48

Vagina closes over

KimFan · 05/01/2025 20:48

I’d have barfed on the phone. 🤢

StarDolphins · 05/01/2025 20:51

Ewwww🤢🤢🤢

StopStartStop · 05/01/2025 20:53

these replies are great and just as I am feeling myself
you can read while you do that?

TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 05/01/2025 20:55

Yuck
Stay with him and he will be wearing a nappy and getting you to change him before long. Run for the hills!

Cityandmakeup · 05/01/2025 20:58

Hufflemuff · 05/01/2025 17:23

That would make me drier than a mummified Egyptian.

Dead 😂

Balloonhearts · 05/01/2025 22:54

Urg. I have the ick so much I think my hymen just grew back. I think I'm a virgin. I also think I'd rather be sacrificed than shag that.

I got called a naughty girl once. Literally blocked him then and there, got up and watched Star Trek instead.

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 05/01/2025 22:57

GRIM

namechangeGOT · 06/01/2025 06:56

Balloonhearts · 05/01/2025 22:54

Urg. I have the ick so much I think my hymen just grew back. I think I'm a virgin. I also think I'd rather be sacrificed than shag that.

I got called a naughty girl once. Literally blocked him then and there, got up and watched Star Trek instead.

Edited

A man once said 'I'm your dog and your my bitch' to me. I was only 18, I do

namechangeGOT · 06/01/2025 06:57

Pressed too soon! I didn't know whether I was supposed to like it or not at that young age I just remember feeling very uncomfortable

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