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Would this give you a major ick?!?! Re: sexting

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Coldcoldcold98 · 05/01/2025 17:19

I have recently dated a guy and we were sexting and got onto the topic of sucking breasts.. and he put back, not joking, ‘goo goo gah gah I’d love to’ ?!?!

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ZipCode · 06/01/2025 23:56

Ew

@ConstanceM humor tells you a lot about the person, my soulmate and life affirming partner wouldn't say googoo gah gah in any sexual context. It's really not a tall order to want a normal human being!

SleepingStandingUp · 06/01/2025 23:59

Illegally18 · 06/01/2025 14:59

exactly ! and they are talking about breast sucking!

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Any reply where one of you isn't pretending to be baby / child

SleepingStandingUp · 07/01/2025 00:02

ConstanceM · 06/01/2025 22:10

Is it a crime though?
Is it a relationship ending crime as suggested?
Is is worthy of complete banishment of what could, potentially, be a life affirming long term relationship?
How serious is this miscalculation in the MN world?
Defcon 1?
Ps. I was under the impression it was SEX TEXT? and not real time sexy talk on the phone.

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Even sex text though, do you really want him bringing up babies / making baby "noises"? And this is when he's on best form trying to woo he into actual sex, not once he's got settled and let slip a kink. Imagine she actually meets up and gets naked with this guy and he starts pretending to breast feed. Bleurgh!! It's on a par with "Daddy"

katter · 07/01/2025 00:03

Ugh...
Reminds me of the guys who want to be called daddy in bed.😖

Youngheartsalittletogetherness · 07/01/2025 00:27

katter · 07/01/2025 00:03

Ugh...
Reminds me of the guys who want to be called daddy in bed.😖

That's connotations of incest,🤢

ItGhoul · 07/01/2025 11:48

ConstanceM · 06/01/2025 22:10

Is it a crime though?
Is it a relationship ending crime as suggested?
Is is worthy of complete banishment of what could, potentially, be a life affirming long term relationship?
How serious is this miscalculation in the MN world?
Defcon 1?
Ps. I was under the impression it was SEX TEXT? and not real time sexy talk on the phone.

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It's not a crime. I don't think anyone is suggesting that it is. But if someone you've only just started dating says/does something that's a major turn-off, it's perfectly OK to realise that they're not the person for you. It's OK to dump someone because their joke made your skin crawl.

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