Twitter Porn girls

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So yes I am unreasonable because I went through his internet history and seen that he often logs on to Twitter and then will search a girls name followed by porn. So I got suspicious. He's never mentioned he has a Twitter account why is he on it so much. And I have Twitter, I know sometimes porn things come up on there. So it turns out he's just following porn and sex accounts on Twitter. Then he finds a girl he likes and searches them on the internet for like porn videos and pictures. I'm struggling to understand how this is different to Only Fans (except for paying for content). It's not a him problem it's a me problem. Because it makes me feel like I'm not enough.
And to top it off I can't even speak to him about it without blowing myself up for bloody snooping in the first place. So feel free to tell me how unreasonable I'm being please 😂

Also I should just add, he works away and is only looking at this kind of thing when he's not at home. In case that makes me less unreasonable

I really don't understand why you're getting so het up about some innocent porn usage, if it isn't affecting your relationship and he is faithful what is the issue? Maybe watch it together sometime, it may enhance your relationship

I would argue paying for only fans is actually more ethical if it's just to view content and not engage with the person on a conversational basis. The actress is actually getting paid for their work, whereas a lot of what is posted on twitter is copied from elsewhere and the actress gets nothing.

I would dump any man who watched porn, its a demonstration of a man’s attitude to women if he thinks it is okay.

Whether is free or paid for Porn is Porn, and it’s either a dealbreaker or it’s not.
It’s ok to have boundaries & beliefs that are different to your partner, what that means though is that in the long term, it might become a constant point of disagreement

Oh another porn thread. Yea.

I think porn is very 2 sided, it's either a yes it's fine or a no it's horrible as the comments already show.

My issue isn't with the actual porn, I watch porn, and if I'd just seen a generic porn website then I'd be like god does he ever stop wanking and laugh it off. My issue is more the fact that he is searching very specific girls. Like look at porn but don't have favourites 😂 I know it sounds backwards, I'm just upset that these girls aren't me and I can see exactly who they are and what they are doing rather than just random porn videos on a website?

You don't have to read it or comment. You have the option to scroll on

Me too, gives me the ick.
Women were not put on this earth to be fetishised and used for men’s entertainment.

Yep don't listen to this nonsense OP.

It's grim and I wouldn't accept it either. There's watching random videos and then there's searching specific people, wanting to see their specific body type, youth etc.
Regular human women can't compete with this shit. And then men wonder why we don't want to get naked.

It wouldn't really bother me. Most men use business trips as an excuse for shagging about, so your DH having a wank in his hotel room sort of pales in comparison.

As long as it was free. I'd be pissed off if my DH was daft enough to pay for it.

Doesn't matter if it pales.. that's saying women should be grateful their man isn't cheating so should accept anything else. Eerr... no. 😆

Twitter is full of filth these days thanks to Elon. Its porn by another name but its only tits and ass.

Watch it the other way around - lots of good domme porn 😂

It seems a weird thing to get wound up about OP. I get being against your partner watching porn, although it's not something I care about personally.

Allowing porn but then getting wound up about him watching certain porn seems daft though.

My partner snooping through my internet history though, that would be the end of the relationship for me.

Except I didn't say that at all. He's having a wank in a hotel room to some girls on Twitter. In the grand scheme of things it's really not worth getting upset over.

Fair play to the OP for admitting her concerns are rooted in jealousy though. Most posters usually like to pretend it's a moral issue.

Yeah let's set the bar so low for men that some chimps could clear it.

I Personally think if a man’s in a happy healthy relationship he doesn’t need porn. It’s also very icky after they reach a certain age. I think younger men 18/19 have hormones constantly and that’s what drives them to it. But a grown man with a partner at home shouldn’t need it.

I don’t think your being unreasonable at all because he only does it when he works away why isn’t he wanting SPICY 🌶️ content from you and looking for it from random strangers on the internet?

Girl I would be confronting him even though you snooped your instincts where clearly right.

I think that's where my jealousy comes from, I send him "spicy" bits while he's away. Not all the time cos let's be honest who can be arsed but now I don't even want to.
I feel like he'd rather look at these extra sexy girls off Twitter who do this for a living so have great angles and set ups 😂

I do agree I shouldn't have looked, ignorance is bliss. But I'm nosey and it stung me right in the arse didn't it.

I think there is a difference from being horny and putting on a random porn video off a porn website just to get off than actually searching a specific porn star/onlyfans creator/sex worker however you want to describe it. That's what I'm struggling to understand, watch porn, take it for what it is, but don't "like" the "creators" enough to search specifically for them. Is that unreasonable?

@namechangetheworld You've said exactly that. Not worth getting upset about because he isn't cheating. Gross. You have a low bar... or you are a man.

I have a close male friend who spends a large amount of his day looking at Twitter porn.
It’s just the tip of the ice berg for him. He speaks to women who aren’t his girlfriend and has hidden folders on his phone.

I have no problem with porn but when they can contact them it becomes a different game.

That’s not what the comment said 😆

I really didn't. I said it pales in comparison to what some men get up to. Which is true.

I don't have to be a man (eyeroll) to know that a man having a quick wank over a photo of a random stranger has no bearing on his attitude towards his wife or their marriage.

@namechangetheworld Yes you said it pales in comparison. What does that have to do with anything? It's still fucking grim and she doesn't have to accept it, even if it isn't as bad as cheating.
Think you've been dropped on your head.

Why are people so strung up about fantasy and porn.
So what? He isn't doing any harm b

What an utterly ridiculous thing to say. The platform has always had pornbots. You can’t blame that on the owner. I bet you can’t name one improvement either? Because you don’t want to acknowledge any or you’re blissfully unaware.

Elon has done more to help humanity than most. I guess he’s an easy target for jealous haters.

Did you find it a cesspit when women were stifled from speaking for wrongthink?

All the posts saying “I have no issue with porn but..” “innocent porn use”.

of course it’s causing you problems and in wider society too. It’s never innocent, people are being abused.