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AIBU to shower twice a day

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Bearpawk · 06/08/2024 19:34

Just chatted to a friend and she was quite astonished that I often shower 2x per day in summer.
She said she only showers every second day at the most since lockdown. Each to their own.
My reasoning:
I exercise in the morning a few days a week and get very sweaty - showering after that is a non negotiable. That's usually when I wash and dry my hair as it gets pretty wet with sweat.
Usually have a bowel movement in the mornings and don't feel clean with just paper (sorry tmi not a poo troll) so tend to shower most mornings regardless of exercise.
I walk to work every day and get a bit of a sweat on up the hill, my office has no ac so even though I wear natural fabrics, by the time I get home I can feel a bit 'clammy'.

I HATE getting in to bed dirty so I'll usually have a quick shower before getting into my pj's and settling down tor the night.
Showers are usually very quick - a rinse with a rub of the pits and bits. and I use natural soaps etc. so not too harsh on my skin.
Am I bonkers ?

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Lilliesandjasmine · 07/08/2024 08:40

What an odd thread. Why would anyone require validation on how often they wash.

Startingagainandagain · 07/08/2024 08:43

I usually shower twice a day as well.

I do a lot of sport and also gardening/DIY at the moment and I really need it to get rid of the sweat and mud!

I might shower only once a day if I just have a quiet day at home.

DirectionToPerfection · 07/08/2024 08:57

I'm not sure how a regular shower would take 20 mins unless you're spending ages just standing under the water. It should only take a couple of minutes to shampoo and rinse your hair, same for conditioning. While leaving the conditioner on your hair you wash your body, which again only takes a couple of minutes.

I also don't know how it's possible to lather up and rinse in 20 seconds, it would take that long for my shower to get to a normal temperature.

Takes me about 3 or 4 minutes if not washing my hair, and double that if I am.

KnittedCardi · 07/08/2024 09:14

A bidet will solve all. Bloody love a bidet.

Bearpawk · 07/08/2024 09:31

I'd absolutely love a bidet. I've seen a 'hack' where you can attach a hose tap thing to the outside of your loo for the same purposes but can't for the life of me find it again.

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KimberleyClark · 07/08/2024 09:37

Hucklemuckle · 07/08/2024 01:39

Most people don't wash their hair twice every day it generally doesn't need a double wash when you wash it daily.

And no one I know exfoliates their face and body DAILY???? don't even shave daily. Usually a couple of times a week.

I never exfoliate my face. It’s something I find completely unnecessary. Use a gentle foaming cleanser in the morning and that’s it. And only exfoliate my body in the summer if I’m using gradual tanning lotion.

IsometimeswonderwhoIam · 07/08/2024 09:56

@Bearpawk we have a handheld bidet sprayer that is fed by the same cold water supply as the toilet. Less than £100 and brilliant!

Mercedes45 · 07/08/2024 21:41

Hucklemuckle · 07/08/2024 01:33

I have a shallow bath (like really shallow in the morning to wash my face bum and pits.

A shower and hair wash after my workout and then in summer if I'm sticky, a quick 2 min shower before bed.

In terms of the environment it's less about how often and more about how long.

People being all judgemental whilst taking a 45 min shower every two days are using far more water

Do you wash your bum before you wash your face in your shallow bath?

Hucklemuckle · 08/08/2024 10:18

@Mercedes45

Do you wash your bum before you wash your face in your shallow bath?
Because I wash my bum twice a day it's not really too bummy.

But yes, I get in and sort of kneel in the shallow bath. Wash my face then my pits then my bum and vulva then jump out. It's a super fast wash as I have a proper all over clean after my workout

GreenIvyy · 08/08/2024 10:32

Fullyflavoured · 06/08/2024 20:05

I shower 15 times a day.

You dirtbag 😏

Mercedes45 · 08/08/2024 15:39

Hucklemuckle · 08/08/2024 10:18

@Mercedes45

Do you wash your bum before you wash your face in your shallow bath?
Because I wash my bum twice a day it's not really too bummy.

But yes, I get in and sort of kneel in the shallow bath. Wash my face then my pits then my bum and vulva then jump out. It's a super fast wash as I have a proper all over clean after my workout

FFS 🤣🤣

JoBoJoBo · 08/08/2024 19:03

kittybiscuits · 07/08/2024 07:39

It's minging to shower every other day, especially in this recent hot weather. Why did she change the frequency since covid? Did she lose her sense of smell?

Agree people who do not wash enough cannot smell their own bad body odour.

Bearpawk · 09/08/2024 23:30

I don't think she lost her smell, I think she got into a less frequent habit because she wasn't going out much. Then started getting out into the world again and couldn't be arsed with the same level of grooming. She's been having a rough time in her personal life tbh and probably has just been doing the bare minimum.

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