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Car accident.. who is at fault here?

208 replies

Greenleafants · 24/04/2024 13:53

I am so stressed so bare with me. Going down the A1 but it’s a single carriageway and turning right into a little side road because I live there. I stop and start Indicating right as there is approaching traffic on other side of the road. I can see a white van approaching my rear at high speed but I still don’t want to turn as there is traffic coming very quickly on other side of road. Then I see a gap but I am really stressed at this point and I stall my car like an absolute fool. So embarrassed. Crash. He goes into the back of me and he was absolutely raging. His van is damaged worse than my car, I have some damage to my bumper but managed to drive home.. I’ll be found at fault for, won't I?

OP posts:
Lanawashington · 24/04/2024 13:55

Why do you think you will be at fault for someone driving into the back of you?

IvorTheEngineDriver · 24/04/2024 13:55

No. He should have adjusted his speed to take account of an obstruction (you) and factored in that you might not have moved off (for whatever reason) by the time he reached you.

His fault.

vivainsomnia · 24/04/2024 13:56

No, they will be. You did nothing wrong. Stalling can happen.

Alloveragain3 · 24/04/2024 13:56

It will be put down as his fault as he drove into the back of you. Doesn't matter what you did (broke sharply, stalled, whatever).

MrsKwazi · 24/04/2024 13:56

Not your fault.

Colinthedaxi · 24/04/2024 13:56

Totally his fault

AnnieSF · 24/04/2024 13:56

No he is at fault. He was behind you.

HolyMilkBoobiesBatman · 24/04/2024 13:57

No, he’s at fault for being too close. You should always leave enough of a gap to stop!

Travis1 · 24/04/2024 13:57

Nope not your fault at all and don’t you dare take responsibility. He should have been slowing and preparing to stop. If you could see him he could see you

Greenleafants · 24/04/2024 13:57

Lanawashington · 24/04/2024 13:55

Why do you think you will be at fault for someone driving into the back of you?

He expected me to move off and I stalled. He said I shouldn’t be on the main roads. I passed my test in January so I’m a new driver.

OP posts:
VolvoFan · 24/04/2024 13:57

He rear-ended you. That's his fault.

MrsKwazi · 24/04/2024 13:57

He is raging because it’s his fault and he knows it

DilemmaDelilah · 24/04/2024 13:58

It is ALWAYS the fault of the person crashing into you from behind.

InTheRainOnATrain · 24/04/2024 13:58

100% his fault.

Madmoomoo · 24/04/2024 13:58

100% his fault. The fact you stalled is irrelevant.

MrsBeesBakedBeans · 24/04/2024 13:58

Absolutely not your fault and I can't imagine any insurer siding with him when you're the one that got hit. He was so angry because he knew it was on him.

HaventGotAScoob · 24/04/2024 13:58

Oh my days why do you think at all this is your fault?? Call you insurance now and get the claim started against him! It doesn't go against you, it goes against his insurance. No need to talk about the stalling etc thats irrelevant, you were stopped, indicating and ready to turn, noticed a van coming up really fast behind you, weren't able to turn and then he crashed into you. End of!

NImumconfused · 24/04/2024 13:59

That's probably why he was so annoyed because he knows it's going to be classed as his fault. He should have been slowing down if the traffic in the other lane was continuous, not assuming you'd go for a tiny gap. Totally his fault, anyone can stall!

Caroparo52 · 24/04/2024 13:59

100%not your fault

0verandoveragain · 24/04/2024 13:59

It's his fault but you don't sound confident at all.

TruthorDie · 24/04/2024 13:59

It’s him. It’s not even a debate

IdontlikePinaColada · 24/04/2024 14:00

I presume you mean you indicated and then stopped?

Nothingandnobody · 24/04/2024 14:00

100% his fault. However, you shouldn't be stalling on really busy roads like the A1. It's massively dangerous so I can understand why he said what he did.

Greenleafants · 24/04/2024 14:01

Thank you. Feeling better already. I didn’t argue. Just wanted to get out of there asap.

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Grendacious · 24/04/2024 14:01

He made a huge assumption that you would move by the time he reached you and therefore didn't brake - that makes his a bad driver, not you. There could have been a child or animal road in front of you, the car could have broken down etc. Sometimes car are just in the way and that doesn't mean you can drive into them - please don't stress.

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