Man on dating site asking for rude photos.

[patsy999]

Does anyone else get this.
Then because i wouldnt send him any, he told me i was flying too many red flags and said i was a prude.
Then he blocked me.

you Get all sorts on the apps. Don’t engage. Just block when you feel someone is being inappropriate

Everyone gets this unfortunately. Block at the first sign.

Useful, he has the decency to let you know he’s a total arse before you waste time meeting him, getting to know him etc.

Be glad he blocked you. What an arse!

Yeah, there are so many of them.

Just ignore.

He is gaslighting you, disgusting man.

Don't engage, just report them, unmatch and move on.

100% block this person and move on. Incredible that anyone would ever consider sending to low lifes like this.

Its a shame, because they spoil it for the odd decent ones.

Does anyone ever send the photos though? They must get a few hits or surely they’d stop asking?

Never really had this issue. Where are you guys finding these men?
I wouldn't really dignify this request with an answer. I'd just block them myself immediately. Unless we've been on multiple dates already and both feel in the mood for this sort of thing.

Sadly I think some women do, for the attention and also hoping that it will impress the man enough to want her.

Be thankful he blocked you OP - he showed his true colours early on!

Aren't you suppose to report it to the admins? Creeps exist everywhere.

If he’s asking for rude photos, just send him a selfie of you giving him the finger

I told him he was a pervert.

Ask for his first, then send back lots of scathing feedback :)

Pornsick pervert, no loss.

"Red flag" haha, don't you love it when they learn a bit of therapy speak and completely misapply it?

Good on you, OP, that's exactly what he is. Filthy creep.

"Woman who doesn't want to pander to my perversions! Red flag! Red flag!"

I've deleted my accounts on the 2 dating sites now.

From speaking to a few men on the apps it would seem they get their versions of this too. A lot of "only fans" girls and prostitutes advertised on there, it seems to be worse for them in terms of quantities.

God, yes. One of my friends did.

She did it because -

It's a nice thing to do

It makes me feel sexy

It's nice to know someone finds you attractive enough to ask.

I've got great tits so why not show them off?

We had many conversations about it. She thought it was funny/sweet that I was so uptight.

Utterly clueless she was!

Friend had this sort of request after a few chat sessions. She did a copy and paste from a porn site. He was happy and they carried on chatting for a month or two. She said it was good craic.
They were never going to meet, 300 miles apart.
It takes all sorts! Her included!!

There will always be men who ask this, clearly. Don't reply to them - just block them without saying anything.