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Man on dating site asking for rude photos.

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patsy999 · 04/04/2024 08:21

Does anyone else get this.
Then because i wouldnt send him any, he told me i was flying too many red flags and said i was a prude.
Then he blocked me.

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Botanica · 05/04/2024 09:05

Be the one to block them first at the earliest sign.

DonnaBanana · 05/04/2024 09:11

cuckyplunt · 04/04/2024 08:33

Does anyone ever send the photos though? They must get a few hits or surely they’d stop asking?

There are plenty of wallys who send online romances money for “operations” or other reasons, romance scams.. so I imagine the odd nude photo which has no cost at all happens all the time.

Rudicoolcat · 05/04/2024 09:35

FillyourPothole · 04/04/2024 21:55

if it happens again send them a screenshot of their own face with a cock and balls drawn on their forehead

... and forward on to Grinder...🤣

SamW98 · 05/04/2024 09:38

DonnaBanana · 05/04/2024 09:11

There are plenty of wallys who send online romances money for “operations” or other reasons, romance scams.. so I imagine the odd nude photo which has no cost at all happens all the time.

There was a thread a few days ago where someone had been having a sexual video call with a man from a foreign OLD site and worries in case he had recorded or screenshot her so yes I’m sure it happens frequently

Isittimeformynapyet · 05/04/2024 09:41

NewNameHello · 04/04/2024 12:26

Is it just me but who wants to see a dick pic? Just why??!

Guess what - you are not the only woman who doesn't want to be sent dick pics.

SharpWriter · 05/04/2024 10:16

I've had this - a man stopped talking to me because I wouldn't send a pic of myself in a bikini. A lot of women are happy to send personal pics of themselves evidently - otherwise men wouldn't ask. I agree that a lot of men are likely married/spoken for and are just on the site for cheap thrills, but it's unfathomable to me why you'd send pics of your bits and bobs to a total stranger. The good guys definitely like and respect you more for not doing it - 100%.

ViciousCurrentBun · 05/04/2024 10:19

Is someone asked for a rude pic I would be tempted to send a shot of my middle finger.

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 05/04/2024 10:30

You get idiots on every site. You get people claiming to be X but are not

send a pic, and it could be seen by others you don't want it to be seen - so possibly if you really want to send a pic of that nature, don't inc face

dontcryformeargentina · 05/04/2024 10:39

FillyourPothole · 04/04/2024 21:55

if it happens again send them a screenshot of their own face with a cock and balls drawn on their forehead

Love it! That's hilarious Grin

paulfoel · 05/04/2024 10:47

patsy999 · 04/04/2024 08:21

Does anyone else get this.
Then because i wouldnt send him any, he told me i was flying too many red flags and said i was a prude.
Then he blocked me.

Im a bloke - thats just nobhead behaviour from him. Avoid people like him.

aramox1 · 05/04/2024 17:47

If only MPs had your sense

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