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FKN HOBBIES “ifs outing”

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Toothbrushh · 27/03/2024 22:08

For God sake, say what the fucking hobby is, or I will go mental

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Soubriquet · 27/03/2024 22:09

Oh I can’t I’m sorry. It’s really niche. Like only 10 million people do my hobby and it’s so outing

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GettingStuffed · 27/03/2024 22:09

It's cycling

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wizzywig · 27/03/2024 22:10

It'll only ever be cycling, brewing beer, bee keeping, running, fishing.

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Toothbrushh · 27/03/2024 22:11

Definitely go for cycling or paragliding

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Toothbrushh · 27/03/2024 22:11

Soubriquet · 27/03/2024 22:09

Oh I can’t I’m sorry. It’s really niche. Like only 10 million people do my hobby and it’s so outing

This

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NotAgainWilson · 27/03/2024 22:16

I don’t understand either, half of the population runs or cycles. If it is a obscure hobby, who would know or talk about it?

If I had collecting fingernails cuttings as a hobby NOBODY would know about it.

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Swoopy · 27/03/2024 22:18

Golf

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Redshoeblueshoe · 27/03/2024 22:25

Football - because no one ever watches/plays/goes to football

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SisterAgatha · 27/03/2024 22:28

Sometimes they actually are outing. I went to a nightclub 300 miles from my home, in a piece of jewellery / kit made by my partner within his hobby. Someone recognised it on me and FaceTimed my partner saying we have your missus here and we will look after her for you mate.

I’d never met these people (but they were lovely!)

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BunniesRUs · 27/03/2024 22:30

Whats the hobby @SisterAgatha ??

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FoxyLoxyLoo · 27/03/2024 22:30

There was a taxidermy one ages ago.

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SisterAgatha · 27/03/2024 22:30

FoxyLoxyLoo · 27/03/2024 22:30

There was a taxidermy one ages ago.

I also know people that do this, they share in large online groups so people know people 👀

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SisterAgatha · 27/03/2024 22:33

BunniesRUs · 27/03/2024 22:30

Whats the hobby @SisterAgatha ??

Haha the fact I’ve said I wore something he made, says enough. The people who do it will know from that. I don’t do it btw, I’m too cool. 🤣

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RussellJack · 27/03/2024 22:34

I had believed there was some mumsnet rule whereby hobbies could not be identified! So you’re telling me that it’s just people choosing to be deeply mysterious about their hobby, their DH’s hobby, their DM’s hobby etc etc?

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FoxyLoxyLoo · 27/03/2024 22:36

SisterAgatha · 27/03/2024 22:30

I also know people that do this, they share in large online groups so people know people 👀

Taxidermy as an “outing” hobby made me laugh, probably because one of our sheds is filled with animals in various conditions. That poster said something that made me wonder if I knew her DH online.

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Catsbreakfast · 27/03/2024 22:38

Toothbrushh · 27/03/2024 22:08

For God sake, say what the fucking hobby is, or I will go mental

If it was Tasmanian clog dance, fine. But it never is, is it?

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SisterAgatha · 27/03/2024 22:43

Catsbreakfast · 27/03/2024 22:38

If it was Tasmanian clog dance, fine. But it never is, is it?

the uninitiated will be thinking wtf are they on about. Golf isn’t identifying!

The ones that know will be looking through the WhatsApp groups and 2.4K private Facebook group members to see who was recently selling a well preserved hamster 🤣

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Cottoncandyflavaflav · 27/03/2024 22:43

I think hobbies are outing. Maybe not by themselves but if you have said you are a nurse, have 2 boys who are be 7 and 8, live in Liverpool, have a German shepherd and your DH is into Dungeons and Dragons or being the dame in pantomimes it may be the last piece of the jigsaw that makes someone suspect and search your posts to see if it is you.

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SisterAgatha · 27/03/2024 22:44

Oh I quoted the wrong one 🤣 but yeah there are some niche hobbies that aren’t always golf or darts!

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Kta7 · 27/03/2024 22:45

I honestly think I see more posts complaining about outing hobbies than I do posts about outing hobbies

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HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 27/03/2024 23:18

It's always cycling. Always.

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Toothbrushh · 28/03/2024 01:57

Were the German shepherd - all the rest of the detail is more outing than the fact that your husband likes paragliding

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JaneJeffer · 28/03/2024 02:30

Morris dancing

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ShalommJackie · 28/03/2024 02:36

Love action role playing including jousting..

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stormywhethers321 · 28/03/2024 02:40

I collect perfume.

I assume everyone now has my address and other assorted details.

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