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Partner looking at other women on school run

111 replies

Minieggcookie · 18/03/2024 14:43

My partner comes with me on the school run sometimes and is always looking at other mums. One had tight gym leggings and was very obviously looking. I feel disrespected as he doesn’t even try and hide it. What would you do?

OP posts:
TheShellBeach · 18/03/2024 18:52

User135644 · 18/03/2024 18:43

At least he's not impotent. OP doesn't realise how lucky she is.

🤣🤣🤣

CookieCrumbles23 · 18/03/2024 18:53

User135644 · 18/03/2024 18:43

At least he's not impotent. OP doesn't realise how lucky she is.

Donna, is that you again?

MrsFionaCharnimg · 18/03/2024 18:55

DonnaBanana · 18/03/2024 15:03

Sometimes you have to balance these things. Tell him to stop being so obvious, it's embarrassing. At the same time you will miss it when he's got ED and not interested in sex at all.

Agreed. And if he cheats, this is the best test of virility. Even better if he gets her pregnant, then you know he's well fertile. Woo!

Anyway, back in the real world...

MrsFionaCharnimg · 18/03/2024 18:57

BigButtons · 18/03/2024 18:19

Thing is @DonnaBanana ED does not stop men leering at women- they just can’t do anything about it🧐

Cheeky 😂

LarkLane · 18/03/2024 19:24

OP, is your partner's name Derek?
Does he sometimes call himself Donna?

BigButtons · 18/03/2024 19:42

LarkLane · 18/03/2024 19:24

OP, is your partner's name Derek?
Does he sometimes call himself Donna?

😂😂

Latte97 · 18/03/2024 20:04

This thread has given me a laugh today 😂😂

Diamondcurtains · 18/03/2024 20:09

DonnaBanana · 18/03/2024 15:03

Sometimes you have to balance these things. Tell him to stop being so obvious, it's embarrassing. At the same time you will miss it when he's got ED and not interested in sex at all.

Please tell me this is a joke!

Serene135 · 18/03/2024 20:09

Was she attractive though? Some people do not look good in tight gym leggings and sometimes your eyes are just drawn to them.

redalex261 · 18/03/2024 20:09

Sounds like a right bampot. Tell him to pack it in, he’s being disrespectful to you and whoever is on the receiving end of his attentions. Consider making lascivious remarks about hot men when both of you in the car. Or just ditch him.

JWhipple · 18/03/2024 20:14

Is he the father of your kids?
If not he does not need to be present on school runs as he clearly has the brain of a 14 year old boy and the ability to manage his behaviour of a two year old.

Also dump him

If he is the father of your kids.... The above still applies. And don't be walking with him on school run. He can pick his own kids up and hopefully get a good talking to either from one of the mums he's perving at, or one of the dads can say something

Whilst you're walking with him people are probably less likely to confront his revolting behaviour.

canyouletthedogoutplease · 18/03/2024 20:19

User135644 · 18/03/2024 18:43

At least he's not impotent. OP doesn't realise how lucky she is.

Oh phew. Leering inappropriate men scientifically proven to not be impotent.

SabreIsMyFave · 18/03/2024 20:21

DonnaBanana · 18/03/2024 15:03

Sometimes you have to balance these things. Tell him to stop being so obvious, it's embarrassing. At the same time you will miss it when he's got ED and not interested in sex at all.

??? Shock

SabreIsMyFave · 18/03/2024 20:21

@User135644 · Today 18:43

At least he's not impotent. OP doesn't realise how lucky she is.

Again... ??? * *Confused

SpeedyDrama · 18/03/2024 20:24

Op, your man is a pig with no respect for any woman. He shouldn’t be let out in public until he’s learned to behave adequately. Or neutered.

As for the incels and/or pervert defenders on this thread. Get help, seriously.

Minieggcookie · 18/03/2024 20:26

Thanks everyone. Wasn’t expecting some of these comments 😂wow. Well She was definitely attractive. It just seemed like his eyes were popping out his head. Then I looked at him and he thought it was funny that he was so obviously staring. But it does it every time he comes and it’s always younger mums which makes me feel even worse. He is my child’s dad but we are not married.

OP posts:
ButterflyKu · 18/03/2024 20:26

ButterflyKu · 18/03/2024 15:12

I’m going through something similar however mine is more through social media than online. Ended things yesterday and we have children together. It’s disgusting and disrespectful, I’m sick of it. You don’t have to put up with nonsense

I was obviously meant to say *as opposed to in person!

OP, are you coming back?

Minieggcookie · 18/03/2024 20:30

Also I’m not the type to be jealous and I know it’s natural to look at attractive people but it’s the way he does it and how obvious he makes it, like his head will turn and he will just stare, like I’m not right next to him

OP posts:
CookieCrumbles23 · 18/03/2024 20:33

Minieggcookie · 18/03/2024 20:30

Also I’m not the type to be jealous and I know it’s natural to look at attractive people but it’s the way he does it and how obvious he makes it, like his head will turn and he will just stare, like I’m not right next to him

I’m sure my partner eyes up attractive women too, but I’ve never seen him to do it. Think I’d feel more embarrassed about others seeing me with a man who stares so obviously at other women. Do you think he’ll pack it in or does he think it’s a non-issue?

cornflower21 · 18/03/2024 20:50

User135644 · 18/03/2024 18:43

At least he's not impotent. OP doesn't realise how lucky she is.

Is that you Donna (Derek)?😂🙈

TigBitss · 18/03/2024 21:25

IT'S DEREK'S WORLD 🌎

We are just living in it.

StarDolphins · 18/03/2024 21:29

DonnaBanana · 18/03/2024 15:03

Sometimes you have to balance these things. Tell him to stop being so obvious, it's embarrassing. At the same time you will miss it when he's got ED and not interested in sex at all.

🤣 wtf. This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard about a sleaze bag.

Just be grateful ladies🤣🤣

Donna, raise your standards & don’t be a mug.

DreadPirateRobots · 18/03/2024 21:32

You actually chose this prince. Other women on the school run are just trying to go about their lives and deserve not to have it be a hostile environment because of this pervy dickhead staring.

IncompleteSenten · 18/03/2024 21:34

You should say FFS will you stop being so sleezy. These women are just trying to do the school run and they don't need some disrespectful bloke perving at them.

Alwaysgoingforit · 18/03/2024 21:40

DonnaBanana · 18/03/2024 15:19

No I said he should not be obviously gawping because it's inappropriate, but at the same time if he is going to look he at least has some blood running through his veins. I would tell him off for that but still secretly be glad he's still hot to trot as it were

FFS raise yourself respect bar love, it's nearly on the floor.