Told a guy I really liked him after 5 dates, said it was full on

[Moonpigdotcom1]

We'd spent several hours together on each date and talked a lot in between. We'd been intimate on the 4th date. Initially I hadn't seen him in that way but after 2 dates I decided to give it a chance.
Anyway, me telling him I 'liked him a lot ' was full on? It's not like I said I was in love or something.
It made me feel humiliated. He also said "how would I know if I liked you or not if I didn't sleep with you?" Which I think is vile.
Anyway, does it sound like I was too full on and scared him off?

Every cloud @Moonpigdotcom1

You definitely weren't too full on! He sounds awful.

It's definitely him and not you.

He sounds really avoidant. So, four times, he decided to see you again. How is he explaining that? Nothing better to do? Wants to have sex? You're OK and he doesn't dislike you? Huh!?

You comunicated something normal in a direct way. That's quite straightforward I'd say.

No, it sounds like he’s a twat. Chuck him back in the sea.

Don't sleep with him. He will discover after he's slept with you that um he doesn't like you.

Thank you for making me feel less humiliated. Initially as I say I wasn't sure if I liked him and now suddenly he doesn't just because I do :/

He’s vile and the type to lose interest as soon as he ‘wins’ the challenge of sex.

No loss!

Another one here who thinks he sounds like a complete twat.

So why has he seen you 5 times and slept with you if he doesn't like you too?

Surely to spend 20+ hours and have sex with someone you must really like them??

But you're not allowed to say it?

Having sex isn't a step too far/too fast, but saying you're fond of him is??

What a weirdo.

He sounds utterly awful. Just after sex. You can do a LOT better.

Sounds like he's a real arsehole OP, if you haven't already get rid!

I can't understand why you'd have sex with him BEFORE telling him you really liked him.

He came out with he sees me more as a friend but thinks I'm 'really attractive ' 🤢

As a man if I met a lady and we had a few dates and talked a lot and had sex and she said that she liked me a lot I'd be pleased.
It is nice to be liked.
He sounds like a prat.

So he wants a fuck buddy.

Block him.

100% I'd never contact him again...

Eh? I don’t shag my friends?! What a dickhead.

'... And I see you more as a user. Not nice knowing you, tiny'.

How can he have sex with you after a couple
of dates and then turn round and say you're the one that's being full on by saying how much you like him?!

In future, hold off from having sex until you have ascertained his character.

I'm sorry OP. Throw this one back, he sounds like a prick.

If he felt the same he would not think it was full on

Just saw bit about sees u as a friend. What an arsehole

Oh my goodness, THIS.

Lucky escape 💐💐💐💐