Told a guy I really liked him after 5 dates, said it was full on

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We'd spent several hours together on each date and talked a lot in between. We'd been intimate on the 4th date. Initially I hadn't seen him in that way but after 2 dates I decided to give it a chance.
Anyway, me telling him I 'liked him a lot ' was full on? It's not like I said I was in love or something.
It made me feel humiliated. He also said "how would I know if I liked you or not if I didn't sleep with you?" Which I think is vile.
Anyway, does it sound like I was too full on and scared him off?

‘Yeah, I made a mistake- it seems I don’t like you that much after all.’

Then move on.

What a twat.

Wow, what a complete and utter man child that guy is. I can't believe he had the nerve to go on 4 dates, sleep with you and then say you were the one that was too full on!!! This guy has no respect for you, or women in general... you can do so much better! A good guy would never use sex as a metric for whether he liked a girl or not. You've had a 'lucky' escape - please don't let this prize moron dent your confidence or stop you finding someone.

On Thursday you could make a Leap year proposal!

now that is “full on”!!

The problem isn't whether you're too full on or not (you're not). It's that he clearly thought you might sleep with him so he could deign to decide if he likes you or not.

Such a no brainer for you. What a knob.

Hope the next chap is much kinder to you!

Bullet dodged. Lucky this came out into the open so soon and you can ditch this twat before he wastes any more of your time.

No but it does sound like he's an arse. Better that you've found that out now before investing any more time into this!

How can someone be intimate with someone they even don't know they like each other? Have some respect ladies .Your bodies is your temple , it houses your mind and soul ..

This isnt full on at all. He was okay to have sex with you tho. I think you dodged a bullet sounds like a man child