To not wear my boobs to work? (dmx)

[Stressedgiraffe]

I have to go into the office for a week in January. I had a mastectomy 10 years ago and another one last summer. I always wore a prosthesis but as I'm now flat I don't bother. I haven't been into the office since my operation and wfh.
I've been trying on work outfits and I look fine flat but mentioned it to my mum who thought I should wear my fake boobs to make it more comfortable for others. It's made me think.
Aibu to not wear them?

Please do what you want to do and put your own comfort above everyone else’s. x

Even if I were to notice, it wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. Do whatever makes you comfortable, not others.

Do what you feel comfortable with.

I don't think anyone would notice as it's symmetrical.

Do what feels right for you . Others will just get over it .

BOLLOCKS to "others"

Wear what you like. I strongly suspect no one will notice anyway

Your comfort matters more than anyone else's. People may notice, most probably won't. Most will forget after they've seen you a few times.

Don't get your mom's reasoning tbh. Do what makes you comfortable 😊

I doubt most people would notice one way or the other, if that helps? Definitely prioritise what makes you feel the most comfortable.

Lots of women are very flat chested. It is a bit weird your mum thinks they would make people uncomfortable.

Well, generally, I don't tend to stare at someone's boob area. Male or female. But, Since I presume you will be wearing clothes, I don't see how you would make anyone uncomfortable even if they were weird enough to be staring at your chest

Naaaah babes, you do you. If anyone feels "uncomfortable" at how you look after a heroic survival that's their problem.

Also I have massive tits and would absolutely love to be able to wear slinky tops and backless dresses like you can. I bet you look lovely

As long as you're comfortable and happy with how you look, no-one else's opinion is relevant here. You are not responsible for how other people feel.

Do whatever you like. My flat colleague sometimes wears boobs if she feels like it, sometimes not, and she says no one notices anyway

Sod everyone else. Do what makes you happy
And comfortable. It's about you not anybody else.

Nobody will notice x

If my colleague was worried about my boobs or lack of them I would be straight to HR.

The comfort of the person who’s had a mastectomy trumps the irrational feelings of other people.

I do worry about some women’s ingrained sexism (your mother’s). Why on earth would you not wearing boobs make someone else uncomfortable?

And if it did make them uncomfortable, that’s very much a “them” problem, not a “you” problem.

Who are these 'others' and what is there to 'get over' ?
We all owe it to ourselves to dress however we feel most comfortable , not for the benefit of our colleagues.

Most definitely dress as you feel comfortable.

This! I am sure your mum is speaking with the best of intentions but I have absolutely no idea what she is talking about.

I used to be a 38ff so my boobs were

noticeable. Now my stomach is !
😂

Unless you work as a professional bikini model, surely nobody would even notice?

Opt for comfort, OP!

Well they might notice but as it's irrelevant you your work (you don't model lingerie and you're not a stripper?) then do whatever you want.

If it were reversed, would you want a female colleague to wear (not particularly comfortable prosthetics all day) in case you were uncomfortable?