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To think I’m too old at 28 to wear crop tops and short dresses

94 replies

Blameit500 · 23/07/2023 14:05

Nothing against anyone the same age that does.

OP posts:
Thepeopleversuswork · 23/07/2023 14:58

You can wear whatever you want. But you don’t get to age shame other women who choose to wear short dresses and crop tops because you have some regressive ideas.

I’m 51 and I still wear short dresses (not crop tops but nothing to do with age). I’m pretty fit and have good legs if I say so myself.

If anyone is small minded enough to judge me for this because of my age it’s not my fucking problem it’s theirs.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 23/07/2023 14:58

I’m 37 and still wear these things. I work hard for my figure so why shouldn’t I show it off?

CountTo10BeforeExploding · 23/07/2023 15:00

Don’t be daft. I’m 30 and still wear both. If you have a cracking figure it helps.

DontBeBitterGlitter2023 · 23/07/2023 15:01

I'm almost 38 and this is what I wore last night... you've got years and years ahead of you yet!

I also regularly wear crop tops for day to day shopping, errands, etc. always with a high waist bottom though. I work damn hard for my abs and will always live by the mantra that I will never again be this young or this thin!

To think I’m too old at 28 to wear crop tops and short dresses
Hereforarant90 · 23/07/2023 15:02

DontBeBitterGlitter2023 · 23/07/2023 15:01

I'm almost 38 and this is what I wore last night... you've got years and years ahead of you yet!

I also regularly wear crop tops for day to day shopping, errands, etc. always with a high waist bottom though. I work damn hard for my abs and will always live by the mantra that I will never again be this young or this thin!

Absolutely love that outfit 😁

CountTo10BeforeExploding · 23/07/2023 15:02

@DontBeBitterGlitter2023 you look amazing! Love the outfit! Would have taken 30 seconds to clear the mess in the background however.

continentallentil · 23/07/2023 15:04

Unless you mean total fanny skimmers (which do look very young) there’s nothing wrong with a short dress.

Crop tops I think should be limited to the gym at any age, I don’t want to see anyones midriff - it’s like butt cheeks and excessive cleavage - however lovely you are, it’s not for public display.

Foxblue · 23/07/2023 15:04

@DontBeBitterGlitter2023 that outfit is SO gorgeous!!
Also @CountTo10BeforeExploding the 'mess' doesn't obscure the view of the outfit so not sure what your problem is tbh, don't you think that was a bit rude??

continentallentil · 23/07/2023 15:05

CountTo10BeforeExploding · 23/07/2023 15:02

@DontBeBitterGlitter2023 you look amazing! Love the outfit! Would have taken 30 seconds to clear the mess in the background however.

SHADE!!

You win most hilarious comment of the day

Pkhsvd · 23/07/2023 15:07

That view depresses me to be honest! I’m older and I wear short stuff. I also see people my age (30s) wearing high waisted trousers/jeans and crop tops and it looks good, I’ve not quite worked out that look but I don’t think I’m too old

Indigotree · 23/07/2023 15:09

There's no age limit, nor is it relevant what you or anyone else thinks your legs or abs or any other part of your body looks like. What's relevant is how comfortable and appropriate for the occasion the clothing is (e.g. short skirts aren't sensible if you're walking through brambles).

YeahIsaidit · 23/07/2023 15:10

No you're not too old. I'm mid 30s and wear crop tops, occasionally short skirts and dresses but would more often if I was nicer to myself about my legs. I've never seen a section in clothes shops saying "only for under 30" etc etc, wear whatever you like and feel comfortable in

Sugarfish · 23/07/2023 15:15

Love seeing these pictures! I think some people still hold onto the view that when a women hits 30 she should suddenly dress boring or “frumpy” why? It’s 2023 ffs!

Deargodletitgo · 23/07/2023 15:16

So plus sized women shouldn't wear any of these things then? 😂

WunWun · 23/07/2023 15:18

You're being fucking ridiculous

fussychica · 23/07/2023 15:18

Definitely not. My DSs partner is your age and is always wearing crop top shorts and playsuit. She looks great in them.
I'm fairly slim and 66 and whilst I wouldn't wear a crop top anymore I do still wear above the knee skirts and shorts. These days shorts only on holiday. I also wear strappy tops and vests on holiday.
I'm lucky in that I'm old enough not to worry about what others think.

Cas112 · 23/07/2023 15:21

Are you age baiting older people who might? Get a grip

If you choose not to then fine but it doesn't warrant a thread

aurorauk · 23/07/2023 15:23

28? 8 years out of your teens? LOL. No. You can wear that. If you cant wear that stuff at 28 and live a bit, when the heck can you wear it

DontBeBitterGlitter2023 · 23/07/2023 15:28

CountTo10BeforeExploding · 23/07/2023 15:02

@DontBeBitterGlitter2023 you look amazing! Love the outfit! Would have taken 30 seconds to clear the mess in the background however.

I mean it's literally the dressing gown and socks I just changed out of and were picked up immediately afterwards but, you know, focus on that instead of the fabulous outfit ✨

Incognito2023 · 23/07/2023 15:28

Definitely not too old!!
as long as you feel comfortable then go for it (but a good figure would be preferable, and reduce judgey comments)

Sugargliderwombat · 23/07/2023 15:31

YabbaDabbaDooooo · 23/07/2023 14:46

Stealth bitch plop by the look of it.

Designed to get people worrying about how they might look to others.

Yep, typical mean girl.

DontBeBitterGlitter2023 · 23/07/2023 15:35

And here's my version of casual...

FYI yes that's a basket of washing in the background and some clothes I had been trying on

To think I’m too old at 28 to wear crop tops and short dresses
BrightLightsCalling · 23/07/2023 15:37

Just wear what you like. I do find it unnecessary that you put restrictions on what you wear but it’s up to you.

Im early 40s, I wear leggings and a crop top to run in. I wear short dresses in summer or for a night out sometimes.

YeahIsaidit · 23/07/2023 15:45

DontBeBitterGlitter2023 · 23/07/2023 15:35

And here's my version of casual...

FYI yes that's a basket of washing in the background and some clothes I had been trying on

Your casual is similar to mine :) I wish I'd the confidence to wear your going out outfit too.

JamSandle · 23/07/2023 15:50

Honestly...wear what you like :)