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To think women aren’t really going to subscribe to only fans account

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Bitchesbelike · 26/06/2023 15:42

A male friend has an only fans account.

this just got me thinking: as a straight woman, I have practically no interest in looking at naked or half naked men. It just doesn’t do anything for me at all.

is this the case for most straight women? Is it really only gay men who as interested in looking at naked men.

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IAmAnIdiot123 · 26/06/2023 15:47

I don't think I would unless I was being nosey, then it would only be for the shortest allowed time period.

BathoryCastle · 26/06/2023 15:48

Have you ever heard women talking about hot guys on tv etc. 😁
Yes, there will be lots who would happily subscribe.
I wouldn't but am pretty confident he can make aome change. Probs not buying house cash though.

BathoryCastle · 26/06/2023 15:49

Is he planning to do that half naked cooking loads do on insta? That could be fun

Luxell934 · 26/06/2023 15:50

No I wouldn't pay to look at naked men. I'm heterosexual, I might think that someone is good looking or think they are funny or whatever but I wouldn't be paying to see them.

CoreyTaylorsSoggyTshirt · 26/06/2023 15:56

The only straight women I know who subscribe to OF follow and subscribe to women's accounts.

I wouldn't pay to look at a naked man at all, if I did ever wish to see a penis I would just have to ask literally anywhere online, men are very oddly proud of their little mushrooms and love sending photos.

Bitchesbelike · 27/06/2023 07:32

BathoryCastle · 26/06/2023 15:49

Is he planning to do that half naked cooking loads do on insta? That could be fun

I don’t think so.. but I’ll suggest that 😂

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GrinAndVomit · 27/06/2023 07:35

I think you’re safely in the majority OP.

DonnaBanana · 27/06/2023 08:25

as a straight woman, I have practically no interest in looking at naked or half naked men. It just doesn’t do anything for me at all.

Maybe not paying or actively selling it out but if you get nothing out of seeing a naked man at all I’d begin to think you’re asexual perhaps. Nothing to do with orientation.

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Thesearmsofmine · 27/06/2023 08:57

YANBU op, I wouldn’t subscribe either. I don’t dislike Mens bodies but not would I pay to see one and looking at one doesn’t particularly do much for me, I need interaction and touch too.

thecatsthecats · 27/06/2023 08:57

Blimey, I open a thread for a casual browse, and find the thread thinks I'm asexual or a lesbian.

I'm straight, and naked men don't do it for me. But men generally VERY MUCH do it for me. I'm exclusively heterosexual. I like a shirtless pic, boxers even. The genital area lets both sexes down, IMO.

And I've never fancied a still image of a man - I have to at a minimum see a TV show or interview for it to kick in, and then there's something about pheromones too.

WilkinsonM · 27/06/2023 08:57

Im straight, definitely not asexual but looking at images of Random hot men or watching them wank is not a turn on. I just don't think female sexuality generally works like that. It's different if it's someone you are involved with, but a stranger? Nope

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WilkinsonM · 27/06/2023 08:59

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Pahahahaha
what a stupid post!

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Laiste · 27/06/2023 09:04

Aren't the women here saying that looking at men naked doesn't do much for them referring to images which are specifically porny? I thought it was common knowledge that as a general rule men are much more readily turned on by visual stimulation than women.

Women are less likely to actively seek out images of men for stimulation. The whole idea of looking for and viewing images of naked men produced specifically to 'turn them on' just doesn't attract them as much as it would a man. It doesn't mean they're all lesbians 🙄

The sight of my (male) lover/DH naked in front of me turns me on easily. Even if he's just strolling about after a shower. But I've never bothered seeking images of naked men in my life. It would no nothing for me.

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Laiste · 27/06/2023 09:06

@User59393 - no, personally i don't look at images of naked women either. Can't speak for the other posters who aren't into male porn obvs.

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Who here has said they are?

musixa · 27/06/2023 09:07

I can't see myself going looking for pictures of random sexy men online. I might be interested in a naked picture of a man I already fancied but not interested enough to pay to see it!

AnObserverInThisDarkWorld · 27/06/2023 09:09

Well this thread took a turn! I'm bisexual and don't like looking at men's penises but do like looking at the rest (if it's attractive to me)

FWIW you only have to look at the high audience numbers for Magic Mike XXL or any other male strip show to see that plenty of women do like to look at naked men's bodies.

WilkinsonM · 27/06/2023 09:11

AnObserverInThisDarkWorld · 27/06/2023 09:09

Well this thread took a turn! I'm bisexual and don't like looking at men's penises but do like looking at the rest (if it's attractive to me)

FWIW you only have to look at the high audience numbers for Magic Mike XXL or any other male strip show to see that plenty of women do like to look at naked men's bodies.

Do you think most women in those audiences are actively sexually aroused? The way men usually are at a strip club? I doubt it. They are enjoying it visually and having a laugh but that's not the same thing.