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To think he is not giving her the eye!

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 21:55

Me and my cousin are having a girls night in! She recently went to a tribute acts concert and she is adamant the guitarist was giving her the eye, she was sitting front row and took this pic. What do you think?

To think he is not giving her the eye!
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TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 24/06/2023 21:56

She’s delusional

AnObserverInThisDarkWorld · 24/06/2023 21:57

Eh he's probably not but does it hurt anyone for her to have a little bit of a fantasy?

So long as she doesn't then start being a creepy stalker, finding them online to message, finding more of their shows etc

It's fine. Let her enjoy her moment

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 21:58

She’s like “he’s looking at me with fuck me eyes, straight at me”. I’m cracking up her but I feel bad

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Aposterhasnoname · 24/06/2023 22:01

Hahaha, are her initials MM by any chance? I have a friend who insisted that the singer in a band we were watching at a wedding was giving her the eye. We were sat at a table with 6, scantily clad, gorgeous, 20 odd year olds. We’re in our late 50s 😀 got to admire her confidence though.

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:04

Aposterhasnoname · 24/06/2023 22:01

Hahaha, are her initials MM by any chance? I have a friend who insisted that the singer in a band we were watching at a wedding was giving her the eye. We were sat at a table with 6, scantily clad, gorgeous, 20 odd year olds. We’re in our late 50s 😀 got to admire her confidence though.

To be fair my cousin is quite a sexy woman! And she’s in late 30’s so that’s the only reason it could maybe be true as he does look quite ancient haha oops

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:05

Sorry not meaning to be ageist

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teaandtoastwithmarmite · 24/06/2023 22:06

Is she aware you're posting this on the internet and laughing at her?

BostonTime · 24/06/2023 22:08

It was probably one of those blanket sweeping glance you do when you are in front of a crowd, I don't think it looks like he was looking at her personally let alone meaningfully

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:08

Yes we’re together now! She knows and basically wanted to get a 2nd opinion

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LawksaMercyMissus · 24/06/2023 22:09

Let's hope his partner isn't on here!

groupery · 24/06/2023 22:10

Thing is for people on stage the crowd all blurs a bit into one.

Mummy2mybear · 24/06/2023 22:11

Well he has got to look somewhere hasn't he 😆

Mummy2mybear · 24/06/2023 22:14

This post has really cheered me up OP, I have not laughed this much all week.

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:15

But he’s looking at her!!!!

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vipersnest1 · 24/06/2023 22:17

I had this with a friend many, many years ago when we went to an Ultravox concert. She wouldn't be told, so we left her to her dream... Grin

continentallentil · 24/06/2023 22:17

I mean it’s unlikely - he’s hardly be able to see the audience.

continentallentil · 24/06/2023 22:18

But your friend is very sweet - let her dream.

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:20

@continentallentil she was right nextnto
him at the front

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SleepingStandingUp · 24/06/2023 22:20

Yes he is, and what she didn't tell you is what she did in his trailer afterwards. Because you're dismissive so don't deserve to know 😂

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:20

@SleepingStandingUp shhhh

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Sallyh87 · 24/06/2023 22:21

It kind of looks like he is to me. Clearly im an outlier here. Hope you both had fun at the concert anyway!

BreviloquentBastard · 24/06/2023 22:23

It always looks like they are from the front

groupery · 24/06/2023 22:23

Off topic but is he wearing a wig?

newjobnewstartihope · 24/06/2023 22:25

Tribute band for whom I'm more curious about

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:25

@groupery I have no idea if it’s a wig or his own hair haha

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