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To think he is not giving her the eye!

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 21:55

Me and my cousin are having a girls night in! She recently went to a tribute acts concert and she is adamant the guitarist was giving her the eye, she was sitting front row and took this pic. What do you think?

To think he is not giving her the eye!
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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:26

@Sallyh87
my cousin loves you right now!! She says “see she can see what I see” haha

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thecatinthetwat · 24/06/2023 22:27

i think he is tbh

Ejismyf · 24/06/2023 22:28

Does look like he is looking in her direction but is that not what performers do at a smaller concert like that look at the crowd to engage them

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:28

@thecatinthetwat cousin is shaking now!!! (From excitement)
but seriously how can you tell!!!????

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BPDprincess · 24/06/2023 22:31

newjobnewstartihope · 24/06/2023 22:25

Tribute band for whom I'm more curious about

Bob Marley, obvs.

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:33

Ha

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groupery · 24/06/2023 22:35

😆

PattyDuckface · 24/06/2023 22:36

I think he is giving her the eye.

It wouldn't be so impossible to imagine, would it, that a man finds a woman attractive?

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:37

@PattyDuckface
but how can you tell from that one shot!?

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EbonyRaven · 24/06/2023 22:39

Oh for goodness sake. 🙄 He is clearly just glancing over in her direction. Of course he is not giving her the eye at all.

Probably didn't even notice her. Wink

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:40

@EbonyRaven ouchhaha

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:41

Ouch haah

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:44

@BPDprincess lmfao late reaction baha

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Lacucuracha · 24/06/2023 22:45

I had this at Harry Potter and The Cursed Child, we were in the middle of front row (Friday £40 seats), and I was convinced Luscious Malfoy was giving me the glad eye!

FourEyesGood · 24/06/2023 22:45

Every time I’ve been to see a band (including all-female bands), I’ve been absolutely convinced that a band member has been eyeing me up - because I’ve been drinking and my self-esteem is almost infinite when I’m drunk.

In reality, I know that this doesn’t actually happen because a) I’m decidedly average and b) they’re concentrating on doing the gig and if they do happen to glance my way, it’s about building a rapport with the paying audience.

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:46

@FourEyesGood only thing is my cousin is attractive and she was right next to him literally!

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Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:47

She also only decided this after looking through the pics a few days later whilst sober

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EbonyRaven · 24/06/2023 22:47

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:46

@FourEyesGood only thing is my cousin is attractive and she was right next to him literally!

You seem desperate for this band member to be coming onto your cousin. Confused Why? Why do you care so much? What a bizarre thread.

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:49

@EbonyRaven im not but trying to be neutral haha

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EbonyRaven · 24/06/2023 22:50

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:49

@EbonyRaven im not but trying to be neutral haha

You don't sound like you're trying to be neutral. You seem desperate for people to say this man is giving your 'cousin' the eye. He's not.

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:51

(She’s had a rough ride her ex cheated on her so I do feel bad or her I in all honesty I rhink he wasn’t)

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Lacucuracha · 24/06/2023 22:51

EbonyRaven · 24/06/2023 22:47

You seem desperate for this band member to be coming onto your cousin. Confused Why? Why do you care so much? What a bizarre thread.

Oh chill out, it’s a light hearted thread, just leave us to it.

ArcticSkewer · 24/06/2023 22:51

He looks like he has a bit of a squint/lazy eye, poor man. His eyes aren't quite lined up with each other.

Johannamyers · 24/06/2023 22:52

@ArcticSkewer literally cracking up hhahaha

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EbonyRaven · 24/06/2023 22:53

Lacucuracha · 24/06/2023 22:51

Oh chill out, it’s a light hearted thread, just leave us to it.

Who made YOU the thread police? Confused I will post as much as I like on here.

OP asked if this man is giving her cousin the eye, I gave my opinion. No he isn't. Quit trying to tell me what to do.