DP and I moved into our new home in March after a few months of renovations, we still don't have the utility room built and thus no washing machine / tumble dryer / freezer.
We just got engaged! AIBU to want to use the savings for a quick wedding abroad? The reason I want this is I really want to be married before having children, and I currently have a 2 year gap after finishing a round of treatment where conception isn't advised before potentially starting another which would delay TTC.
Currently we have a laundrette 5 min walk away, and my DM LOVES doing laundry (just not putting it away). Just myself & DP 100% of the time and DSD 25% of the time so not loads of laundry... and we have plenty of clothes and WFH so no rush for quick turnarounds of uniforms etc.
Wedding would push back utility by approx 12m and would be complete hopefully before baby comes.
I have always been very practical and I feel living without basic white goods could become challenging once we're settled in a bit more.
AIBU - not having a washing machine and having to use external facilities will get old very quick.
YANBU - get married and deal with the socks later...