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To be sick of my husband always being nude

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 19:57

My DH is very comfortable in is skin so is always walking around naked, outside on the balcony, in the garden etc. I am not comfortable with nudity, and personally I don't think it's fair to the neighbours (I would be annoyed if a neighbour was doing this). Today he was stretching bent over and well you could basically see everything, not very attractive! He was facing the neighbours window (who he doesn't think is home). It's really annoying me as I think it's disrespectful and rude. AIBU?

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tillyoumakeit · 20/02/2023 20:08

I think we all like seeing our partners naked

Do we?!? 🤣

tillyoumakeit · 20/02/2023 20:08

Theunamedcat · 20/02/2023 20:06

Is this your husband?

🤣🤣

DancingDaughter50 · 20/02/2023 20:09

Well I can now think of iyls my elderly neighbour doing this.

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 20:10

OK wasn't expecting so many responses! If anyone watched that SATC episode with Harry, it's a bit like that. In saying that it's not all day, as I think about it more leading up to and after a shower. No, not in the UK. Yes it's my husband and he's always been like this. He's been annoying me quite a lot lately so today this has really annoyed me, and no it wasn't a particularly pleasant view 😒

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MrsTerryPratchett · 20/02/2023 20:10

I'd make an exception for Tom Hardy!

It's never Tom Hardy. Never. It's always anti-Tom Hardy.

Xrays · 20/02/2023 20:10

tillyoumakeit · 20/02/2023 20:08

I think we all like seeing our partners naked

Do we?!? 🤣

I like seeing dh naked in certain situations, not prancing about with his tackle out bending over in the garden. Bit weird.

Diverging · 20/02/2023 20:11

I can clearly see someone’s nuts.

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 20:11

Theunamedcat · 20/02/2023 20:06

Is this your husband?

🤣🤣🤣 omg! Ha ha, thanks for the perspective, it could be worse. He was standing up bending over 🙈

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ssd · 20/02/2023 20:11

Hes a weirdo

Newwardrobe · 20/02/2023 20:12

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Eastereggsboxedupready · 20/02/2023 20:13

Send him to trim the hedges.
No euphemism intended
.
The risk of a severed penis should get him dressed...

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 20:14

Eastereggsboxedupready · 20/02/2023 20:13

Send him to trim the hedges.
No euphemism intended
.
The risk of a severed penis should get him dressed...

Maybe I'll get some cacti

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 20:15

itswednesdayy · 20/02/2023 20:06

I think we all like seeing our partners naked but there is a time and place. I don’t think I’d want anyone’s bits all over my fabric furniture all of the time. Things would start to smell and have suspicious stains surely. You know when you visit someone and the odour is just really intense or their clothes just smell odd? At least bedding can be easily washed and removed, the same can’t be said for dining room chairs etc

He doesn't smell and there are no stains. Ew. But thanks for this comment, it could be worse!

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LaughingCat · 20/02/2023 20:18

Wouldn’t bother me that much - you said there’s a tall hedge in the garden and he’s only nipping out. It’s before and after showers. Occasionally past windows. Seems pretty normal, really.

NellietheElephantpackedhertrunks · 20/02/2023 20:19

I really think we need a photo to judge here. If he’s a fit, twenty-something Adonis, this may be less objectionable than a fat, balding seventy-something.

IsThereAnEchoInHere · 20/02/2023 20:19

I mean nobody wants to see that shit, right?
🤢

I don’t understand the inside the house comments, I would be, I am reading this, grossed out.

Woopzies · 20/02/2023 20:21

Sorry, just to clarify - where are the hedges? In the garden or on him?

NotAnotherBathBomb · 20/02/2023 20:25

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 20:25

NellietheElephantpackedhertrunks · 20/02/2023 20:19

I really think we need a photo to judge here. If he’s a fit, twenty-something Adonis, this may be less objectionable than a fat, balding seventy-something.

Not an Adonis, but not too bad. Even if he was though I just don't like it. Maybe I need to chill out. It just really annoyed me today (more than usual). I feel it's just not necessary, well the stretching anyway in my line of sight

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Passtheduchyonthelefthandside · 20/02/2023 20:26

Ha ha when I was growing up in the 80's, our 2 doors down neighbour did this, he was loudly referred to as Bollocky Bill.

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 20:27

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Not getting these comments, is this so weird it's not even plausible? I've only had one previous live-in partner so not alot to compare!

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Emptycrackedcup · 20/02/2023 20:29

I guess I'm just wanting to know am I right to be annoyed? I find it disrespectful for some reason. I have told him ages ago, but then he acts like I'm the one with the problem and like I don't find him attractive (which I actually don't like that!)

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Ludo19 · 20/02/2023 20:32

QueefQueen80s · 20/02/2023 20:03

I'd hate this indoors too, I don't wanna see someone naked all the time! Walking round with their arse out sitting on furniture, leaving nothing to the imagination 🤢

Cackling 🤣🤣🤣

Dymaxion · 20/02/2023 20:36

Next time he does it, just ask loudly if he has had his prostate checked recently ?

Ludo19 · 20/02/2023 20:36

Passtheduchyonthelefthandside · 20/02/2023 20:26

Ha ha when I was growing up in the 80's, our 2 doors down neighbour did this, he was loudly referred to as Bollocky Bill.

Was Bollicky Bill perhaps a good old flasher? One stayed in my mums street when she was small. He cleaned his windows bollock naked when the schools were out and his wife was off to the shops.

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