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Does anyone genuinely walk into a room of strangers and feel no fear?

158 replies

elprup · 25/10/2022 18:18

Anyone? I wouldn’t say I have social anxiety, but the thought of walking into a room full of strangers and having to make small talk would make me nervous. Curious to know whether this is normal or if it does mean I have some sort of anxiety around people?

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Cherryblossoms85 · 17/04/2023 12:05

Depends. I'm much happier doing that in social settings than at work. Too much at stake in a work setting. They did an event after lockdown where they books out a basement bar and filled it with lockdown joiners. I took one look at people wedged so close together there's be no way of moving between groups and handed my badge back in and went home.

Fortheages · 17/04/2023 13:55

I’m comfortable in a room of strangers. Although I’m getting fussier with how I spend my time as I get older.

I have enough friends, but don’t have enough free time to spend it on chit chat without a purpose.

Work gatherings have a political upside. School gatherings are fine, as that’s a particular social circle to benefit my DC. Weddings where I don’t know most of the attendees are mildly irritating, as it’s mindless chit chat 😂

fruitbrewhaha · 17/04/2023 13:57

Nope doesn’t bother me.

I travelled the world in my 20s on my own and met all sorts of people.

Floralnomad · 17/04/2023 13:57

I used to be a nurse and I’m totally one of those people that will talk to anyone so I’d happily walk into a room of strangers

dephlogisticated · 17/04/2023 20:40

It wouldn't worry me at all!

I'm much more terrified of walking into rooms full of people I already know but have almost nothing in common with! Exhausting Grin

CheriseNuland · 17/04/2023 20:47

Dogsgottabone · 25/10/2022 18:23

I prefer strangers than people I know.

I can give off the right friendly chatty vibes with strangers. People I know have already formed opinions of me which worries me more.

Oh. Perhaps you’d rather be someone else?

LindorDoubleChoc · 17/04/2023 20:49

Feeling nervous is different to feeling fear.

Kennykenkencat · 17/04/2023 20:49

Wouldn’t bother me. Most of the people I talk to each day are strangers

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