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Asking posters NOT to quote the OP's thread in their reply?

75 replies

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

OP posts:
OutDamnedSpot · 15/05/2022 23:12

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

What? Like this?

I’m sorry. I couldn’t resist, but it annoys me too.

Bunty55 · 15/05/2022 23:12

When posters do this it is because they are answering the OP directly and not the other posters. Nothing wrong with it IMHO

FieryPitOfMordor · 15/05/2022 23:13

OutDamnedSpot · 15/05/2022 23:12

What? Like this?

I’m sorry. I couldn’t resist, but it annoys me too.

Yes, it annoys me as well

LoveSpringDaffs · 15/05/2022 23:14

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

YANBU to find it annoying
YANBU to suggest it's not necessary

YABU to tell people to stop. It annoys me immensely, but your attitude just makes me want to do it!

Alliumpoppyrose · 15/05/2022 23:17

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

No thanks 😂

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 15/05/2022 23:18

FieryPitOfMordor · 15/05/2022 23:13

Yes, it annoys me as well

What annoys me more is people posting nested quotes .

PriamFarrl · 15/05/2022 23:19

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

But you don’t have to read it.
As soon as you realise it’s the op that’s been quoted you don’t read it.

Wafflesnsniffles · 15/05/2022 23:20

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

Completely pointless request. No amount of asking will stop people doing this. See this thread for proof!

Same with all sorts of "I wish people would......" online - you can wish endlessly, you can beg....... but they will carry on doing whatever it is.
Personal bugbear of mine - posting photos of something beautiful they have bought/made/cooked/knitted etc but not posting any details about how anyone else can recreate/purchase the awesome thing in the origonal photo.

DingDongBellPussysInTheWell · 15/05/2022 23:21

Bunty55 · 15/05/2022 23:12

When posters do this it is because they are answering the OP directly and not the other posters. Nothing wrong with it IMHO

I always take it that people are replying to OP, unless their post begins with a tag or a quote.

IstayedForTheFeminism · 15/05/2022 23:21

Bunty55 · 15/05/2022 23:12

When posters do this it is because they are answering the OP directly and not the other posters. Nothing wrong with it IMHO

Surely then you don't quote if you're directly answering the OP.
If you are directly answering someone else then quote them to make it obvious.

@HarryDresdensLeatherDuster YANBU. Nested quotes can get to fuck too.

XenoBitch · 15/05/2022 23:22

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 15/05/2022 23:18

What annoys me more is people posting nested quotes .

MN is just catching up with all other websites.

Hawkins001 · 15/05/2022 23:24

I usually quote the op, as then it's the reply direct to op.

SofiaSoFar · 15/05/2022 23:25

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

How come your posts aren't blue for me like other MN staff''s posts?

Testina · 15/05/2022 23:27

It doesn’t bother me. I just scroll on by - I suppose it slows me down by a split second, but MN is never something I’m speed reading like my life (or an under-revised exam result!) depends on 😀

I think it’s linked to my bugbear though… and a common one. People who don’t read all OP posts! I think that encourages quoting, as the quoter knows plenty of readers won’t have read the point they’re responding too!

Quoting OP’s OP is fairly unnecessary, but I don’t mind it.

Quoting subsequent OP posts often does make sense through, as the thread diverts along multiple paths!

Villagewaspbyke · 15/05/2022 23:29

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 15/05/2022 23:18

What annoys me more is people posting nested quotes .

Like that you mean?

Testina · 15/05/2022 23:30

SofiaSoFar · 15/05/2022 23:25

How come your posts aren't blue for me like other MN staff''s posts?

Now this I would quote, because I want to show @SofiaSoFar my appreciation for her very funny line 👏🏻 and draw attention to it, so more enjoy it.

If just put: 🤣
Or even: 🤣 @SofiaSoFar

then the next readers wouldn’t know why I was laughing.

If I’m the very next poster though, I wouldn’t quote this.

minuette1 · 15/05/2022 23:32

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

How does it slow a thread down though - do you find you are compelled to read each quoted OP every time? Why not just scroll past, it takes a fraction of a second to do so..

Kite22 · 15/05/2022 23:33

YANBU to find it annoying
YANBU to suggest it's not necessary
YABU to tell people to stop.

I agree with this.

I'm sure we all find different things slightly annoying like people dictating how others use MN but it's hardly worth starting a thread about.

prettytoes · 15/05/2022 23:34

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

Well you know you asked for this OP.
Public forum, you don't get to tell other posters what to do. You could tell
man to sort this quote problem out though!

PradaOnaBudget · 15/05/2022 23:36

At the moment, due to the other bug, their answer is often chopped off. So all we can see is the quote and a few words of the comment. Very annoying!

Rogue1001MNer · 15/05/2022 23:58

Funnily enough, I thought about starting a similar thread this weekend. Didn't because I realized the futility of it, but it's driving me nuts atm.

There seem to be a lot of looooong posts that are quoted as well, so it's especially annoying.

And particularly when the quoter then just writes something really inane like "all the best OP".

There's one particular poster who I've noticed does this a LOT and I just hate on them. They're probably perfectly nice, but I hate them!

Rogue1001MNer · 16/05/2022 00:00

I agree with @Testina about this:-
Quoting subsequent OP posts often does make sense through, as the thread diverts along multiple paths!
But I didn't need to quote the whole post to say it. Especially as I didn't agree with other points made

Alliswells · 16/05/2022 00:01

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

Totally agree with you OP

Staffy1 · 16/05/2022 00:02

HarryDresdensLeatherDuster · 15/05/2022 23:08

I am not the first to ask so please just stop it people!

It slows a thread down and I cannot understand why you would do it. It's not like nobody has read the original!

No one likes a bossy boots, sorry OP, another one here that can’t resist quoting it after being told to stop.

Staffy1 · 16/05/2022 00:07

Villagewaspbyke · 15/05/2022 23:29

Like that you mean?

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