DSD - is this odd or AIBU

[Iseofskye123]

Am not sure what to think here...DSD is 13, I've been with her dad 18 years and married. Apparently she's always known she was conceived on valentines day (I find this very odd, I mean who tells their children when they had sex??) So for her 13th birthday her mother has changed her birthday certificate to valentine as her middle name. WTF???

If your step daughter is 13 Joe have you been with her dad 18 years?

My children k ow where they were conceived - don’t see that as a problem

Changing her name? Assume DSD agrees with the change?

18 years together and a 13 year old DSD??

She is 13 and you have been with her df for 18 years??

That’s indeed cringeworthy- to have your middle name changed to remember the day of your conception.

Speak of which, was she conceived during your marriage with her father?

Each to their own, wouldn’t worry me

Although I might be concerned that you have been with him 18 years and he has a 13 year old with another woman

She's changing her daughters name to reflect a day she slept with a married man?

Sorry typo, 10 years!!!!

I mean I have been married to DH for 10 years he was completely divorced from ex wife!

@HippeePrincess

If your step daughter is 13 Joe have you been with her dad 18 years?

It's 10 years! Fat fingers!

Isn’t Brooklyn Beckham so called as that’s where he was conceived? So although I wouldn’t do it myself it is not that odd in the sense that others have done similar.

It's weird and a bit tasteless but not any of your business really

@Allywill

Isn’t Brooklyn Beckham so called as that’s where he was conceived? So although I wouldn’t do it myself it is not that odd in the sense that others have done similar.

I guess so but I feel like after so long of being divorced, it's even odder!

I think it is a bit gross to discuss conception with your chuildren. Heston Blumenthall once told a journalist he was called Heston as he was conceived in a parking lot inHEston Services (untrue), but on publication his parents were livid.

I think it’s a rubbish present for a 13 year old, I hope she got other things too.

But many kids know where they were conceived so I don’t think it’s that odd, especially if it’s in a special place.
Some mums have a very close relationship with their DDs and share things like this.

Not really any of your business but I wouldn't do that to my child.

If this is real, then yes this is bizarre, but so identifying that it seems pretty mean to put online.

I'm not disagreeing that it's none of my business, I am just a bit baffled at why someone would share this information with a child

That’s just entirely bizarre.

I don’t know any teen who’s proudly declare my middle name is Valentines/October whatever because that’s when I was conceived!

I thought you'd need both parents permission to change her name. What does you DH say?

Bit weird. Dd knows where she was conceived because exh told her (has happy memories still) but dd is an adult

A friend of mine loved her name until she found out she was named after her Dads favourite porn star! 😳😵‍💫

@RoseGoldEagle

If this is real, then yes this is bizarre, but so identifying that it seems pretty mean to put online.

That's true hope mum isn't on here.

I find it weird but ultimately its no ones business. What a strange thing to tell your child though.

I just asked my child Daisy fireworksnight2016 Bucks and she agrees.

My friends DD has a middle name after a place where she was conceived but it’s not obvious - and I don’t know if she knows. But yeah not for me!

@Alicenwonderland

A friend of mine loved her name until she found out she was named after her Dads favourite porn star! 😳😵‍💫

Christ, that's revolting. What a dreadful thing to do to a child, especially a girl.