Daddy's Valentine

[Justkeeppedaling]

Surely this is wrong?

Horrible, tacky and twee. I hate the conflation of familial love and romantic love.

Yep - that’s a bit yucky.

Nothing wrong with that. St Valentine's Day is about love. I give a Valentine's gift to my husband because I love him and to my daughter cause I love her. The 'gift' by the way is usually something like heart shaped chocolates from Poundland.

The valentines cards I got from
My dad are some of the most precious memories I have.

My dad used to leave me a valentines card and small gift every year and I agree with another poster - they are things that I treasure now. I also buy for my daughter and she sends her dad a card too.

It is super tacky, ugly and awful.

But I wouldn’t say “wrong” in the sense of inappropriate — I mean, I doubt it was made with sinister intent. You’d have to be reading the worst possible motives into it to view it that way.

It isn't inappropriate assuming you're thinking about romantic love.
More a fad waste of money for SM likes and consumerism.

I think this gets done every year. Some people see valentines as a romantic thing between adults and some people see it as just a general fun lighthearted type of thing for the people they love whether that be a partner or child. Neither are icky, it is what it is. People who buy those are just doing it out of love/fun, there's nobody doing it with gross or inappropriate thoughts, it's harmless fun. Don't read anymore into than needs be

I love my little valentines gifts from ds I've kept them all and the cards

I found my cards I made for my grandad he had kept I have them now

The day is about love

I hate these. My patents and in laws buy shit like this all the time. I HATE them!!! Maybe it's a generational thing??

I don’t think it’s ‘wrong.’ I worked in childcare for years and every year we make Valentine’s gifts/cards for kids to give to their parents. We’re all aware it’s not intended to be romantic, just celebrating a social holiday and talking about it etc.

So not my style but I wouldn’t say it’s ‘wrong.’

To be honest it's only "wrong" if you've got a slightly warped mind. And if you're looking for paedophiles they don't tend to advertise the fact by emblazoning on their daughters' clothing.

More tat while the planet burns. Excellent.

They’re babygrows. They might not be to your taste but it’s hardly a cause for ‘more tat’ because most people buy these. Most people have babysuits/babygrows/vests for their child.

These are much like the ‘born in x year’ ones and presumably are intended to be kept as keepsakes of the child’s first year.

I hate valentine's. So much tat

I think it’s a bit chavvy but nothing sinister about it if that’s what you’re thinking

Urgh, people are so miserable

If it is just about familial love, a/ would you put a boy baby in that? And b/ why is is daddy not mummy?

@TheSpiral

If it is just about familial love, a/ would you put a boy baby in that? And b/ why is is daddy not mummy?

Interesting questions.

I agree Valentines Day is about romantic love not familial love.

I don’t think it’s ‘wrong.’ I worked in childcare for years and every year we make Valentine’s gifts/cards for kids to give to their parents. We’re all aware it’s not intended to be romantic, just celebrating a social holiday and talking about it etc.
My most treasured valentine was off my eldest when I was going through a really tough time - a simple card made at primary school, it meant so much to me.

I can’t believe how much time people must spend searching for stuff to be offended by.

Can't get worked up about it tbh.

Still have memories of my late mum sending me a homemade card for my first valentines away at university 💖💖💖💖

@TheSpiral

If it is just about familial love, a/ would you put a boy baby in that? And b/ why is is daddy not mummy?

Well I wouldn’t personally put any baby in it, but I’ve seen things like this in “boy” and “girl” variants. People do seem to buy both.

I’m not sure I understand your second question? It just seems like the flip side of the first question.

Are you trying to make a case for these baby clothes actually being sinister grooming tools, hiding in plain sight as it were? Seems unlikely.

Only inappropriate if yo u think its actual promoting or encouraging sexual love. Otherwise its just not to your tasre

Yes it's wrong

should be 2022

These threads have started early this year ......🙄