To be furious with my manager

[WearingMyCloakOfInvisibility]

I'm NHS and like most hospitals our department is struggling with staffing levels and recruitment.
Yesterday during a procedure, patient on the table, all of us standing within three feet of each other, the Consultant, who has been taking an active part in the future planning, asked my manager how things were going.

The conversation went like this:

"So when's T starting?"
"Not...problems..."
"Well you've got X doing bank?"
Nod
"And Y doing more hours?"
Nod
"And you'll be training up 'keen new person' and 'Invisible person'?"
"Yes"

I'm fuming. I know full well what extra training is planned and I'm not happy for good reasons. But I'm really furious because clearly this discussion has been going on for a little while with no mention to me, and then they had this conversation right there as if I didn't exist.

(Or the patient, whose hand I was holding whilst offering reassurance).

But this is about ME. And I'm bloody cross and offended. AIBU?

I’m sorry, i’m confused. Which one is you?

And I'm bloody cross and offended

About what? Have you missed a part in the story? Who are you in the dialogue with your manager?

Eh?

Are you X, Y or Keen or Invisible? Are there 4 people here or 2?

Are you saying that your two managers were talking about you as if you weren't there? Or that you knew that something (training?) was in the offing and you don't want it?

Glad it's not just me

Oops I forgot T.

Wtf

I assume you're invisible person?

Apologies for lack of clarity.
The conversation was between my immediate manager and the consultant with me standing there silently fuming.

I know my brain seriously struggles at this time on a Friday (I just referred to a bollard as roadside furniture to my DH) but I simply could not follow that at all, OP.

Hope you're enjoying that wine 🍷

Look at OP’s username. I understood it.

So you’re having to do extra training for something and they discussed it in front of you without discussing it with you.

I am enjoying the
An extra glass because I'm sulking.

@WearingMyCloakOfInvisibility

Apologies for lack of clarity. The conversation was between my immediate manager and the consultant with me standing there silently fuming.

Which still doesn't clarify which one you think refers to you in the conversation

Have another from me. Now tell me, what actually happened?

T is someone who was offered a job but for various reasons hasn't materialised.
X and Y are other staff members.

I'm invisible. The work just magically gets done without anyone noticing.

I would assume OP is 'invisible person' in this story

The consultant was saying about the OP needing extra training in front of her and the patient.

Sorry OP that's really shit

It sounds a bit crass but I’m not sure I’d be that bothered by it. However, it may have lost a bit of the punch in the telling.

Who are you in this? T, x, y, new person, invisible person, who?

This is an anonymous forum, we don’t know you so can’t guess.

So you’re having to do extra training for something and they discussed it in front of you without discussing it with you.

@DukkaTheHallsWithBoughsOfHolly has it.

Apologies for my lack of clarity.

It's not all down to the wine. Trying not to be identifiable and give too much detail for obvious reasons. Plus that extra glass.

I just want to know was the patient conscious?😀

What are you pissed off about?

Gosh I'm confused and I haven't even had a drink.

Oh cross posted. So basically they said they’d be training you up in front of you, and you’re offended as, well you feel you don’t need the training, or they can’t discuss it?