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It shouldn’t be said that “only women have a cervix”.

626 replies

Paddingtonsmarmaladesandwiches · 26/09/2021 11:32

Watching Keir Stammer on Marr this morning scrambling to answer whether or not it is transphobic to say “only women have a cervix” was the final nail in the coffin for me this morning with Labour. In the aftermath of The Lancet calling women, “bodies with vaginas”, I think I’ve finally figured out that the current belief system is that transwomen are women, but women who were observed female at birth are “bodies with vaginas”. Clearly Labour aren’t in need of the votes of bodies with vaginas, brains and a spine.

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Ninjawannabe · 26/09/2021 19:54

I can't disagree with any of you who've quoted my posted about hard hat, privilege etc. I really can't.

I hate the current situation, hate the word 'woman' being erased, hate compelled speech, hate many intelligent left leaning feminists somehow falling for this bullshit which centres men. As always

However for me voting is always a case of lesser of two evils, and for me I hate the fucking tories and their hatred and awful policies which harm everyone except their mates

To me the most important thing is always keeping those blood sucking scumbags out of power.

And I note no-one criticising my post has answered my point about how we're all blaming Labour for something which has been happening during the last 11 years of Tory rule.

NettleTea · 26/09/2021 19:55

you know I think a huge HUGE number of people are truly ignorant about biology. They actually do believe you can change sex. They dont know how, if you properly hard questioned them about it, as they havent thought about it that deeply, nor do they understand the science of it. And the young, well theyve had junk science thrown at them, by schools and by the internet, and by the media.

So Im not surprised to see idiots believing that transmen are actually men. Or thats transwomen, whove had surgery, really do have a cervix. And the transwomen, well they really dont know sweet FA about womens bodies and what womens bodies can do and are designed to do - they see 'vagina = tube for men to have sex with' and 'cervix' the end bit of that tube.
And women are pretty ignorant too.

so although this saddens me, the whole questioning of it amongst the public doesnt surprise me

But in regards the Labour party. And on the back of the lancet. I dont know whether to cry or be angry

GettingUntrapped · 26/09/2021 19:57

The question is, why do men want to be women? It's very strange.
I was at a seminar once where a male psychologist said that maybe part of the problem between the sexes is that men have nothing else going for them except that they aren't women.

Waitwhat23 · 26/09/2021 20:00

There has been a recent rush by TRA's to change the narrative to 'both sides are as bad as each other'. It's nonsense. It's an attempt to justify some of the horrific behaviour aimed at women for the horrific crime of saying sex is immutable.

There is no GC equivalent to this - www.terfisaslur.com

The person who aggressively screamed 'witch' repeatedly in the face of a woman peacefully protesting in front of the Scottish Parliament has no female equivalent.

There are no women making gun threats towards a whole nation of women online (while being supported by their University for doing do).

Women are not deplatforming, disrupting meetings, doxxing, getting people fired from employment and sending death and rape threats.

Women are ribboning, chalking slates, leafleting, signing petitions, writing to their elected representatives, fundraising and discussing issues on a heavily moderated board.

LakieLady · 26/09/2021 20:03

@Runningupthecurtains

Screw the women who don't recognize themselves as "cervix havers" because English isn't their first language, or because they haven't be educated about their own bodies or they don't have a cervix anymore ehh.
A friend has started referring to "XX people" and "XY people". She reckons that now that the XY people can insist they're female, even if still attached to a penis and testicles, we have to go to a more fundamental level to preserve the female identity.

And she wants to start a campaign of relabelling toilets, changing rooms etc XX and XY.

I'm getting heartily sick of it and am tempted to join her.

SilverGlitterBaubles · 26/09/2021 20:04

@Pumperthepumper

I long for the day he replies ‘what sort of fucking question is that when the country’s on its knees Andrew? Ask me what I’m doing to stop the Tories fucking everything over’
This 100%
tiddlysquat · 26/09/2021 20:06

So angry and disappointed. I will never support him.

DevonTF · 26/09/2021 20:09

We need to change the question.
“Do only men have a penis”
“No, trans women have a penis”
“So these are bodies with a penis. And it is these bodies that should have access to every single sex safe pace for women.

PronounssheRa · 26/09/2021 20:10

Pumperthepumper

I long for the day he replies ‘what sort of fucking question is that when the country’s on its knees Andrew? Ask me what I’m doing to stop the Tories fucking everything over’

I long for the day when the question doesn't need to be asked.

Violinist64 · 26/09/2021 20:12

Presumably the traditional Ladies and Gentlemen is now going to be changed to People With Vaginas and Gentlemen. If we carry this to its logical conclusion, public toilets will be labelled People With Vaginas and Gents. It’s ridiculous and misogynistic. I am a woman or lady not a Person With a Vagina.

Jasmine11 · 26/09/2021 20:12

I just don't understand why he is pandering to the tiny tiny tiny percentage of the population who are TRAs while actual women are being brutalised and murdered everyday by (usually) men - surely that should be a more pressing issue. It's so completely baffling why the Labour Party are purposefully trying to lose women's votes to appease a small minority. Is Keir Starmer just a Tory plant who is destroying the credibility of Labour from within?

Fr0thandBubble · 26/09/2021 20:16

@GCmiddle

It is the inevitable consequence of saying trans women are women, trans men are men, etc. Once you profess to believing that, you have to follow through and that means that you have to say you believe some men have a cervix and men can get pregnant, etc. Politicians need to think through the consequences of these things at the outset to avoid making themselves look foolish later, but it's too late for most of them now. They can't backtrack now for fear of being labelled transphobic, so they are going to have to find another way out of the mess they have got themselves into and could easily have avoided.
Spot on.
NewMutiny · 26/09/2021 20:16

@CreepingDeath

TWAW is their stance. They expelled their spokeswoman, Dr Heather Brunskell- Evans, for believing in biological reality:

www.heather-brunskell-evans.co.uk/body-politics/open-letter/

This is crazy, so even the Women's Equality Party believe that men can become women? I despair.

IKR?

It's like the phrase 'you had one job' was invented for just this situation Hmm

And if the Labour front bench's stance on this isn't the dictionary definition of luxury belief then I don't know what is. Privilege my arse. If you're so stupid you pretend you can't see the difference between men and women how can you possibly expect people to vote for you?

BlackAlys · 26/09/2021 20:17

@AnyFucker

I had high hopes for Keir Starmer.

Past tense

I also had a glimmer of hope following his last statement but this morning that was snuffed out in true spectacular style.

BJ must be rubbing his hands in absolute glee.

NewMutiny · 26/09/2021 20:28

I just wonder whether they actually do any proper polling anymore? This AIBU is running at 95%/5%

And it's not ideological - Starmer knows fine well that TWAM. I just don't get why you would shoot yourself in the foot like this?

CreepingDeath · 26/09/2021 20:30

@GettingUntrapped

The question is, why do men want to be women? It's very strange. I was at a seminar once where a male psychologist said that maybe part of the problem between the sexes is that men have nothing else going for them except that they aren't women.
Google autogynephilia.
BlackAlys · 26/09/2021 20:34

@sloanerangerpandora

Yawn...more transphobia from mumsnet.
But this isn't transphobia in the slightest. How can stating a woman's biological reality be such a dent to trans people? You can't deny a woman's existence just to appease a few.
CreepingDeath · 26/09/2021 20:34

It is the inevitable consequence of saying trans women are women, trans men are men, etc. Once you profess to believing that, you have to follow through and that means that you have to say you believe some men have a cervix and men can get pregnant, etc.

Yes, it all starts with one lie. The lie that human beings can somehow change sex.
If you accept that, then all sort of other ridiculousness follows on, like men in women's prisons, men in women's sports etc. All of which would have been unthinkable 20 years ago. Now it's somehow 'progressive'.

It bugs me when people say that yes it's terrible that there are men in women's prisons...but also #bekind and TWAW. They don't seem to understand that one is a natural consequence of the other. That men wouldn't be in these places without the lie to support it.

VanGoSunflowers · 26/09/2021 20:38

Fucking arsehole, practically falling over himself not to offend a tiny proportion of the population and instead offends almost half of it.
Moron.

Yours, an ex Labour voter.

VanGoSunflowers · 26/09/2021 20:42

@Violinist64

Presumably the traditional Ladies and Gentlemen is now going to be changed to People With Vaginas and Gentlemen. If we carry this to its logical conclusion, public toilets will be labelled People With Vaginas and Gents. It’s ridiculous and misogynistic. I am a woman or lady not a Person With a Vagina.
Nope, it’ll be ‘ladies, gentleman and people with vaginas’

The term ‘ladies’ being reserved for men who want to be women.

CatsArePeople · 26/09/2021 20:42

This is beyond insanity. Is he for real?

FOJN · 26/09/2021 20:46

There is no GC equivalent to this - www.terfisaslur.com

Quite, you can bet if they had equivalent receipts we'd never hear the end of it, as it is stating facts is hateful and "literal violence". It's the only way to paint yourself as the victim when in reality you are the aggressor. It's DARVO on steroids.

dearfanny · 26/09/2021 20:46

The only way they get my vote again is to elect a female leader. One with a cervix i mean

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 26/09/2021 20:53

@dearfanny

The only way they get my vote again is to elect a female leader. One with a cervix i mean
Cervix haver would not garner my vote if they had also been on the Kool Aid
Gagagardener · 26/09/2021 20:54

He did say it is WRONG to say only women have cervices. Men can, of course, be both pricks and cunts.