Issues with new guy

[Notanotherone89]

That’s just it. Thought I really like him and had a good few dates. Then when we’re we’re out for dinner he made some comment about eating out getting expensive ( it wasn’t an expensive place ) and he’s said before he has no money issues.
Then when sitting near him I noticed a bit of BO, sex was a disappointment and to top it off he’s decided he can’t speak to me on the phone in case my 16 year old daughter asks who it is!! I think that’s my decision who and when I speak to people. I’m feeling a bit cross at being told that. AIBU?

Well he doesn't sound great...

He doesn’t sound like a keeper, does he? Nothing wrong with saying that eating out is expensive - it does all add up. The rest of it, not worth sticking around to deal with. Tell him you’re not feeling the chemistry and and move on.

Chuck him back...

Hmmm, I'd run if I were you before feelings get any stronger. Doesn't sound great.

What’s your AIBU? He sounds awful - dump him.

You decide.

Ugh, I hope you're planning to get rid of him??

What? Why are you pursuing this?

Well isn't that what dating is about? Getting to know someone to see if you're compatible. Looks like your not, so count yourself lucky you haven't wasted much time on him.

Thanks for all the replies. It’s the phone thing that’s got me the most.

Seriously 🙄

Surely the BO and crap sex should have been enough to call it a day?

Most of that is reason to move on in a new relationship. But this… when we’re we’re out for dinner he made some comment about eating out getting expensive Is he paying every time / the majority? Eating out is expensive.

I noticed a bit of BO

He'd be binned the moment I smelt that not to mention being tight.

Put him in the bin. Next!

@JulesCobb we’ve taken turns to pay

Ugh. I’ve got the ick and I’ve never even met him. Ick-by-proxy, if you will.

So you had a date and he had BO. Oh my word. The dirty git didn't shower.

Bin it

BO - Yuk
are the expensive meals preventing him from buying soap?

I don't really get why you've made a thread about this. Just dump him and move on.

Rereading this I can’t actually believe it!! I really liked him so lowered my standards I guess..

I hope you didn’t have sex after you smelt the BO?

Voted YABU because you thought you liked him but he has BO, disappointing sex and already thinks he can tell you what to do with regards to phone calls.

BIN HIM and raise standards.

Fucking hell, the phone issue bothers you the most? 😐

He sounds gross and annoying. Raise your standards.

@SheilaWilcox definitely will!!