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Caught neighbours using my garden

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Weird21 · 26/07/2021 23:58

I have a block of flats next to my house and I thought for a while things have been moved in my garden and it seemed a bit weird. I’ve got a lock on the gate and it’s always locked. So over the weekend I’ve installed a small out door camera under my guttering which records the whole back garden.

So I’ve come home tonight after work (I work the late shift) and found two cigarette butts on the path by my seating area. So I checked the camera and the neighbors have climbed my wall and been sitting in my garden from 2pm until 8pm using my seating and table. To say I’m annoyed is an understatement but how to I confront them as they aren’t the friendliest of people at the best of times. So I guess they’ve been doing this since the nice weather began.

Unfortunately it’s not difficult to see i’m out as I have to drive to work and so once my cars not there they obviously know I’m out.

I just don’t know how to approach this as I’m a single woman and just concerned it’ll escalate but I can’t allow this what would you all do? I thought maybe a note through their door asking them to not use it anymore. They haven’t seen the camera but now I wonder how long it’s been going on.

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ChocolateSundayGirl · 02/08/2021 09:30
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User112 · 02/08/2021 09:32

The sun even has a pic from your CCTV?? Did you post it here ??

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SoupDragon · 02/08/2021 09:33

@User112

The sun even has a pic from your CCTV?? Did you post it here ??

That's a "stock" photo.
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HaveringWavering · 02/08/2021 09:47

@User112

The sun even has a pic from your CCTV?? Did you post it here ??

You are joking? You think that is OP’s neighbour in a bikini waving at the camera?
Do you have no idea how newspapers work?
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SophieB100 · 02/08/2021 10:06

And the clue is the "Getty's images" caption Wink

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aleC4 · 02/08/2021 11:30

It's also on the Mail Online today.

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jajabanks · 02/08/2021 12:35

God just seen it on Liverpool echo website as well 🙄

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userxx · 02/08/2021 13:30

I was reading this on the MEN before thinking God, this is so familiar!! MEN don't usually grab stuff from here.

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IWannaGoToTheSpa · 02/08/2021 14:09

Was just about to post about The Sun’s article! Maybe your neighbours will take the hint now!

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peacelily3 · 02/08/2021 15:47

Just seen it on the Bristol Live/post also

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NowWeAreSuckingDieselFella · 02/08/2021 18:35

HullLive joins the club Hmm

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NavigatingAdolescence · 02/08/2021 18:58
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thelionqwueen · 02/08/2021 19:04
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iklboo · 02/08/2021 19:19

Birmingham Live has it as well.

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Zhampagne · 02/08/2021 20:02

The local ‘Live’ sites are all owned by Trinity Mirror so if it’s on one it will be on all of them.

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Greenrubber · 02/08/2021 20:12

"Woman 'annoyed and concerned' after catching neighbours 'climbing wall' to use her garden - Edinburgh Live" www.edinburghlive.co.uk/news/edinburgh-news/woman-annoyed-concerned-after-catching-21200338.amp

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Changemaname1 · 02/08/2021 20:23

You also made my local news 😂😂

Ah bless you OP

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VB86 · 03/08/2021 07:26

This just came up on dailymail, shocking! Would love to know if these trespassers have backed off - or if they’ve been stung by a holly bush 😆

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rslsys · 03/08/2021 07:35

They just ran this story on GB News!

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DGRossetti · 03/08/2021 08:02

@rslsys

They just ran this story on GB News!

Presumably they've mentioned the neighbours are immigrants and how it's affecting house prices ? That's the only spin I can see them taking.
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EastWestWhosBest · 03/08/2021 08:24

Not saying that this thread is made up but it shows that these news outlets will run a story with zero proof that any of it is even vaguely true.

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Confusedandshaken · 03/08/2021 09:06

@EastWestWhosBest

Not saying that this thread is made up but it shows that these news outlets will run a story with zero proof that any of it is even vaguely true.

It doesn't matter if the OP was true or not. The papers can correctly state 'a user on Mumsnet said X, Y and Z and got the responses A, B and C'. That's a truthful report of the thread. The paper is just repeating what was posted on the forum, not making a judgement about the veracity of the post. They get a sensational story for minimal effort and in this case it's one they can illustrate with a picture of a model in a bikini. Win-win for them.
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ToffeeNotCoffee · 03/08/2021 09:40

Saw it on my local news feed in The Potteries

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josbd · 03/08/2021 14:48

Total lack of respect!!

Rent a couple of Jaguars and stroll around with them on leads..... Lovely fantasy!

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