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To think it's good England football team came second ...

73 replies

Dustyboots · 12/07/2021 23:22

It fine to come second. It's good for our kids to know that and to see how well the team did to get to the final and how well they played anyway. It's good for us all to know that coming first isn't the all important thing.

And this has shone a light on something far more important than winning - racist bullying - I feel like we're actually talking about it now. The racists and the idiots in government are having a proper light shone on them.

This feels an important moment that wouldn't have happened if we'd have won.

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HmmmmmmInteresting · 12/07/2021 23:25

I'm glad they didn't win because the fans don't deserve it. They certainly don't deserve these players.

WorraLiberty · 12/07/2021 23:25

YABU

Racist bullying happens all the time unfortunately, especially online.

And it will continue as long as the social media platforms are not held accountable in any meaningful way.

Twitter, Facebook and Instagram all far too much of it to stand, just as many other platforms do.

WorraLiberty · 12/07/2021 23:25

*all allow far too much of it to stand.

WorraLiberty · 12/07/2021 23:27

And actually if we had won, the racist bullying would still have happened.

Because racists are racists, first and foremost.

LifeinPieces21 · 12/07/2021 23:31

@HmmmmmmInteresting

I'm glad they didn't win because the fans don't deserve it. They certainly don't deserve these players.
Really? There are a lot of nice football supporters. There are some that are distgusting and let England down but that is not all of the supporters.

A lot of people are pissed off with the hooligans that always let us down.

ForensicFlossy · 12/07/2021 23:33

@HmmmmmmInteresting

I'm glad they didn't win because the fans don't deserve it. They certainly don't deserve these players.
The majority of fans are supportive, passionate and proud of the team. The fucking idiots who are violent and racist are a minority and an absolute disgrace.
HmmmmmmInteresting · 12/07/2021 23:35

I said what I said

nancy75 · 12/07/2021 23:39

@HmmmmmmInteresting

I'm glad they didn't win because the fans don't deserve it. They certainly don't deserve these players.
I hate the racist side of it, but to say our fans don’t deserve it is just silly.

If games took into account which fans behaved well enough to deserve a win nobody would ever win. Every country has these arseholes.

That said these particular arseholes are ours to deal with & I hope anyone that can be identified as making racist comments will suffer the consequences - be that losing their job, being banned from games or where possible being arrested.

LifeinPieces21 · 12/07/2021 23:39

@HmmmmmmInteresting

I said what I said
What does that even mean?
Moanranger · 12/07/2021 23:40

The better team won, more experienced, better footwork. England tried hard, but talent won.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 12/07/2021 23:42

Better thugs too the Italian squad.......

HmmmmmmInteresting · 12/07/2021 23:46

@LifeinPieces21 it means I stand by what I said 🤔

HmmmmmmInteresting · 12/07/2021 23:48

@nancy75 you're entitled to your opinion the same way I'm entitled to mine.

Honeybeebloom · 12/07/2021 23:48

Better thugs too the Italian squad.......

Bitter much? England were the more aggressive team in the first half, then the Italians came back at them hard in the second. Obviously Chiellini's move was out of line but there was nothing else any different to what the English players were doing the whole game.

FlaminEckVera · 12/07/2021 23:51

@Moanranger

The better team won, more experienced, better footwork. England tried hard, but talent won.

PMSL what a load of old cobblers.

Italy won on a penalty shoot out. Not much of a glorious win is it? It's a fucking lottery, and pure LUCK that they won. Fuck all to do with being more talented than England. Italy were aggressive and thuggish and at LEAST 3 or 4 of them should have been sent off. You're deluded if you think their players are more talented than England's players

@HmmmmmmInteresting

I'm glad they didn't win because the fans don't deserve it. They certainly don't deserve these players.

Also a load of old cobblers. Only a small minority of England fans are racist thugs. Saying we don't deserve to win is pathetic. Like a few others have said, some people on here act like no other country has racist thugs for football fans... The fans in many countries are WAY worse than England fans.

And @Dustyboots YABU!

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 12/07/2021 23:51

Did we stamp on someone's leg on purpose?

Dustyboots · 13/07/2021 00:00

And @Dustyboots YABU!

Why @FlaminEckVera?

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Honeybeebloom · 13/07/2021 00:00

Did we stamp on someone's leg on purpose?

It's very clear that Jorginho was running in for the ball and that he was not deliberately stamping on Grealish's leg. There's a reason why the English media are sharing pictures and not videos of the tackle. www.soccer-blogger.com/2021/07/11/jorginho-vs-grealish-tackle-incident-2021-jorginho-stamps-grealish/

HmmmmmmInteresting · 13/07/2021 00:01

The fans in many countries are WAY worse than England fans.
Oh that's ok then 🙄🤔

nancy75 · 13/07/2021 00:02

[quote HmmmmmmInteresting]@nancy75 you're entitled to your opinion the same way I'm entitled to mine.[/quote]
You’re entitled to your opinion, but if you think last nights win should have gone to the country that has the best behaved fans you might want to google the ultras…

gardeninggirl68 · 13/07/2021 00:03

How many yellow cards did England get?

And Italy?

MrsIsobelCrawley · 13/07/2021 00:04

Any poster who claims that racism in England fans is just a social media problem is either a complete fool or a liar.

FlaminEckVera · 13/07/2021 00:09

@MrsIsobelCrawley

Any poster who claims that racism in England fans is just a social media problem is either a complete fool or a liar.
And anyone who thinks only ENGLISH football fans are racist, is either a complete fool or a liar.
FlaminEckVera · 13/07/2021 00:09

@Dustyboots

And @Dustyboots YABU!

Why @FlaminEckVera?

Why are you only asking ME why I say YABU? Confused

Other posters have said YABU, and two thirds of posters on the poll said you are.

And that's because YABU.

crymeapuddle · 13/07/2021 00:10

@HmmmmmmInteresting

I'm glad they didn't win because the fans don't deserve it. They certainly don't deserve these players.
I can't say I'm glad we didn't win but basically this.