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Who is in the wrong?

59 replies

Astroscoach · 18/01/2021 15:54

I've named changed for this. Writing here as I need to take the emotion out if the situation.

Car A waiting at a junction to turn right, protruding over the give way lines.
Car B driving on main road, slows to see car A at the junction. Recognises that if car A had no where to go if they were to let them out due to traffic on the other side of the road so continues on driving around car A. Car A proceeds to turn right and hits the side of car B.

I'm not too sure I've explained it clearly but can clarify if you need it.

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Gingernaut · 18/01/2021 15:56

Car A.

maddening · 18/01/2021 15:57

A is in the wrong

2typesofjungle · 18/01/2021 15:58

Car A

Bargebill19 · 18/01/2021 15:58

I guess the question is who is in the wrong?
From what you’ve said - car A

Petitmum · 18/01/2021 15:58

Car A

Astroscoach · 18/01/2021 16:00

@Bargebill19 yes, I'm asking who is in the wrong. Thank you.

Thank you for your responses.

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HunterHearstHelmsley · 18/01/2021 16:01

Its one of my pet hates when people pull out when the other side of the road isn't clear.

Car A is at fault (assuming B was just driving along the road and hadn't pulled out of a side road after A started the maneuver)

Astroscoach · 18/01/2021 16:03

@HunterHearstHelmsley car B was driving along the main road.

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Londono · 18/01/2021 16:04

Car A

MaskingForIt · 18/01/2021 16:05

Car A is in the wrong. I assume you were Car B. Car A shouldn’t have turned just because Car B slowed down.

justaweeone · 18/01/2021 16:05

Car A

TerribleZebra · 18/01/2021 16:06

Car A - whoever is on the main road has right of way

Calmandmeasured1 · 18/01/2021 16:07

Car A is at fault. The give way markings mean they need to give way to traffic on the main road they wish to join.

BriocheForBreakfast · 18/01/2021 16:08

Car A

bloodywhitecat · 18/01/2021 16:08

Car A, they are crossing a Give Way marking on the road so they shouldn't proceed until they are certain the road they are entering is clear.

Astroscoach · 18/01/2021 16:11

@MaskingForIt yes I am car B. I slowed because he was over the line and I used that time to assess the situation. If I was to stop to let car A out then he would gave caused a build up of traffic until the other side was clear or someone let him out. Car A is adamant that someone on the other side flashed him to go.

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PistolKnight · 18/01/2021 16:12

Car A if it happened as per the description

RunnerDuck2020 · 18/01/2021 16:12

Car A definitely in the wrong - whoever is on the main road would have right of way. Hope you’re ok.

MythsandSparkles · 18/01/2021 16:12

Car A

Car B could have been flashing his lights with the driver performing semaphore to signal to Car A to pull out and it would still be Car As fault if they drove into Car B - they are crossing a line of traffic and the onus is on them to ensure their right of way is clear - not rely on other drivers instructions so the perceived slowing down of Car B is irrelevant.

Justforphoto · 18/01/2021 16:15

someone could have been flashing but it's irrelevant in this situation as you didn't stop. Friend had a similar situation a few years ago and he ended up with his insurance paying for the damage to all 3 cars that ended up being hit.

Winterwoollies · 18/01/2021 16:16

Whether someone flashed them or not is entirely irrelevant. Car A is in the wrong.

IthinkIm · 18/01/2021 16:17

I need a diagram.

AryaStarkWolf · 18/01/2021 16:18

Yeah agree with others, they can't use someone flashing them as a right to pull out on the main road

Imiss2019 · 18/01/2021 16:18

Irrelevant if another car was flashing him out and off topic but this is exactly why I don’t flash kids across the road either.

Bargebill19 · 18/01/2021 16:19

“Someone on the other side flashed” , that could have been someone driving over a pothole/drain....still doesn’t make it ok for car A to proceed without checking both lanes.

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