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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think that she should just stop commenting on my name?

412 replies

madbrews · 11/01/2021 18:39

I've been part of this local tight-knit volunteering group for about a year now. Recently, there was a change in 'leadership' which is fine. I have, however, been told by her (twice!) to change my email address (it's listed in the private group listing) as it looks 'rude'!

My email address is simply firstnamelastname, with my first name being probably the most popular shortened variant of a fairly popular name. In her eyes, it contains nothing but 2 bad words which 'gives the wrong impression'. Surely people aren't that daft to not realise that it's just my name, and a well-known one at that?

I'm gobsmacked by the ridiculousness of it all. AIBU?

OP posts:
Santaiscovidfree · 11/01/2021 18:41

Is it Fancraddock?
Full name Fanny?

ProfMcGonigle · 11/01/2021 18:41

It's difficult to say if YABU without knowing what the email is (although I get that you wouldn't want to share it here)

SchrodingersImmigrant · 11/01/2021 18:42

I really want to see that email address 😂

Yanbu. Though sometimes shortened names and surnames can create some rude combos

Sciurus83 · 11/01/2021 18:43

Richard Head?

Stinkyjellycat · 11/01/2021 18:43

How can we possibly comment without seeing the email address? It’s like a parking thread with no diagram.

TheChineseChicken · 11/01/2021 18:43

Is your name Richard Head?

ILoveShula · 11/01/2021 18:43

I know someone whose email address is [initial][surname]@provider.com and [initial][surname] is a real word. Maybe your [nn][surname] is a rude word.

IndecentFeminist · 11/01/2021 18:44

Ana Lee?

fishonabicycle · 11/01/2021 18:46

[email protected] - is that you?

1Morewineplease · 11/01/2021 18:46

Obviously you can't give us your email address but maybe she thinks that you're trying to be funny or deliberately rude, given your name? Have you tried talking to her about it?

SoupDragon · 11/01/2021 18:46

2 bad words though... 🤔 intriguing...

Workyticket · 11/01/2021 18:47

Richard Head?

Trisolaris · 11/01/2021 18:47

I’m guessing your name is shorted to Ana and your surname starts with L. . .

EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 11/01/2021 18:48

I dare you to set up a new gmail account called "Twatty McFuckSticks" and tell her to use that from now on :D

HikeForward · 11/01/2021 18:48

What’s the name? If the shortened version is considered rude or offensive can you not change your email to the full version of your name?

Terracottasaur · 11/01/2021 18:48

Penelope Island?

Reinventinganna · 11/01/2021 18:49

Mike Hunt?

merryhouse · 11/01/2021 18:49

Is your name Richard Cockburn?

Finfintytint · 11/01/2021 18:50

Titiana Wankovsky?
[email protected]?

Stinkyjellycat · 11/01/2021 18:50

@Terracottasaur

Penelope Island?
😂😂😂
PawPawNoodle · 11/01/2021 18:50

Your name's not Ann Albead is it?

DuzzyFuck · 11/01/2021 18:50

Oh my god now I'm going to spend all night trying to imagine what your email might be 😂

I came across a funny email address at work today. First name begins with S, surname is Hart. Email was [email protected]. It brought on a childish giggle.

Reinventinganna · 11/01/2021 18:50

Ben Dover?

Stinkyjellycat · 11/01/2021 18:51

We all need a thread like this at the moment. Thanks everyone!