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AIBU to ask your top 3 requirements in a relationship

79 replies

policeandthieves · 20/02/2020 23:09

Leading on from the new man small penis thread ( not a deal breaker for me BTW) and discussion with a friend.
What are you absolute requirements in a relationship ?
Mine are
Don't be stingy
Don't hem me in in
Don't irritate me

Everything else is a bonus

OP posts:
ComeBackPeterComeBackPaul · 20/02/2020 23:12

Kindness, humour, honesty. (in no particular order)

HeronLanyon · 20/02/2020 23:12

Be generous and open in nature.
Be up for fun - be able to be spontaneous.
Be reliable.

Illstartexercisingtomorrow · 20/02/2020 23:12

Commitment
Kindness
Industrious

Mrsmadevans · 20/02/2020 23:15

Trust , love , acceptance

PixieDustt · 20/02/2020 23:15

Loyalty
Humour/Nice person
Nice size penis.
I've said 4 but a tiny penis is a deal breaker for me! 🤦🏻‍♀️

RAOK · 20/02/2020 23:15

Be respectful of my time, have good manners, make me smile/laugh often

AmazingGreats · 20/02/2020 23:17

No beating no cheating
Haven't met one yet (shouldn't be too much to ask for though right?)

Spartonian · 20/02/2020 23:20

Trust
Respect
Love

MT2017 · 20/02/2020 23:20

Fidelity, sense of humour, generosity.

Qwerty543 · 20/02/2020 23:21

Good communicator
Caring
Sense of humour

Original poster
policeandthieves · 20/02/2020 23:21

@AmazingGreats

Definitely not too much to ask

OP posts:
Qwerty543 · 20/02/2020 23:21

Oh, forgot about trust and respect. Damn I can't have just 3. There are things that are too important to me now.

Qwerty543 · 20/02/2020 23:22

Good sex

PETRONELLAS · 20/02/2020 23:22

Trust
Intelligence in a practical/solution way not necessarily academics
Sparkle

Crinklesmile · 20/02/2020 23:24

Open
Honest
Adventurous

GlitteryUnicornSparkles · 20/02/2020 23:24

Honest
Reliable
Kind

RiftGibbon · 20/02/2020 23:25

Honesty
Respect
Compassion

SalmonOfKnowledge · 20/02/2020 23:25

I think values need to be the same

Personalities can be ying to the yang and what not but values, they need to be in near total alignment.

Silenceisnotgolden · 20/02/2020 23:41

Fidelity
Humour (as in same humour as mine)
Emotional Intelligence

EmmaC78 · 20/02/2020 23:43

Kind, funny and honest.

sawdustformypony · 20/02/2020 23:47

Witty
Pretty
Titty

In that order.

Fantasiaa · 20/02/2020 23:54

Financially well-off

Open minded

Honest

Streamside · 21/02/2020 00:23

Financial honesty
Respect
Perspective

marashino · 21/02/2020 00:32

don't be abusive
I don't have any more.

MrsToothyBitch · 21/02/2020 00:48

Solvent
Drives
Looks after me