Boyfriend is a pig?

[ILikePaperHats]

Was having a nice meal out at a local restaurant with the boyfriend (BF). I said it would be nice to go to his house for a change of scene (he always comes to mine because he house shares). I work from home and I have 2 kittens (who have diarrhoea today) ! so sometimes I need to get out of the house. He said he hadn't changed the sheets on his bed for 2 weeks. I said that's ok, we'll make the bed together. Then he says he's only got one duvet and one sheet because 'he's a man', so he can't change the bed. He's 35 not 25 fgs. I called him a filthy pig and he should be ashamed. I've got 2 kids, 2 indoor kittens and a house and I manage to be clean and have clean bedding. AIBU?

I don't think he wanted you to go back to his.

That is pretty gross.

Yeah he likes being at yours and playing house. Or he is telling you the truth and he is a lazy man-child. Neither sounds appealing.

He just didn’t want you there.

Is this the same boyfriend that called you a dog a while back?
What is it with the animal name insults to each other?

Yes same guy. Sigh. Can't be arsed to name change.

Sounds like a lovely supportive relationship.

I think for both your sakes you need to go your separate ways really

Sounds as though you deserve better.
He doesn't want you there obvs .
Hope the kittens are better.

Omg hadnt advanced searched and didnt realise it was that jerk! Why do you stay with him?! Seriously, he is not a good role model for your children.

2 weeks my arse. 2 months more like.

Why would you stay away overnight when your kittens have diarrhoea and need your care?

I have one sheet and one duvet cover because I only have one bed. I also have a washing machine and a tumble drier so it has never been an issue.

Not sure mine gets changed every two weeks though. Pretty much just when it starts to really smell of sex

Housework is women's work so he doesn't do it.

You should be ashamed for dating a filthy sexist pig. Why are you dating a filthy sexist pig?

2 weeks is fuck all. Hes either exaggerating, or youre being a bit OTT.

Not sure mine gets changed every two weeks though. Pretty much just when it starts to really smell of sex

🙄. Grim.

Regardless of the sheet situation, I can't imagine calling someone a filty pig and expecting a positive result.

Hmm. I have joint problems so often delagate maing our kingsize bed to DH. A man, no less.

You did yourself a huge favour there.

I have one sheet and one duvet cover because I only have one bed. I also have a washing machine and a tumble drier so it has never been an issue

Me too.

I also think that if I hadn't changed my sheets for 2 weeks and someone asked to come back to my place, the only reason I'd say "oh er I haven't changed my sheets for 2 weeks" would be to avoid them coming back to my place!

What’s that film?
He’s just not that into you

And if he is, you should run

Why is your bar set so low a flea could limbo under it? FFS. He's a lazy, filthy, sexist manchild. He comes to yours to loaf around. What a shitty example to show your kids, that it's acceptable to put up with a twat like this coming over to mooch whilst you do 'women's work'? Buy a sex toy, it's less hassle and more fulfilling.

Mmmm bacon

I wonder what stains he didn't want you to see?

Bin him, the manky, abusive, lying piece of shit that he is.

Why have you set the bar so low?

2 weeks is pretty standard.

If it was left to my husband or son, the sheets would be crawling.

I have a pristine airing cupboard full of white, folded sheets and duvets and a ridiculous number of pillow cases. All uniformly folded so the fold faces forward.

They don't even notice.