To want to say SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP

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At a local cafe with DS, who is asleep. Actually irrelevant really because this would be annoying even without him. There are THE MOST OBNOXIOUS adults on the next table. Sitting with their trainers on the seat, talking about wanting to “bang their students” (they are teachers). 2 women 1 man - laughing SO SO SO LOUDLY, practically yelling. Showing eAch other photos they take of members of the unsuspecting public. It is literally so unpleasant and I can’t not hear because they are YELLING. This is my local cafe, I know the owner very well but it’s his day off, and even just seeing her with her shoes on the bloody cushions is making me so annoyed. Why can’t adurls behave?! It’s like a bunch of teenagers! WIBU to say something?! (Probably yes)

I would just say something as I left ( or if they leave first) along the lines of I and everyone else has heard their conversation, they are not role models for their students and you will be reporting them

He is just talking about his sexual conquests this is so, so so so deeply unpleasant. Honestly I am not usually a prude but there is a time and place! He just acted out a sexual liaison where the woman hit her head in the car I am just 😱 “she was a nail technician - need I say more??”

you will be reporting them

I would 100% if I knew the school they worked at.

I’d be tempted to say to the man, “I know you, don’t I? My younger sister is at your school.” While looking at them I can guarantee they wouldn’t be long shutting up.

Good idea S1

advice from pp is a good one but I'd change it to you teach my younger sister don't you. incase they are college teachers rather than school. what arseholes

What S1 said . Have they got any lanyards / logos with Id on?

Frankly given their behaviour I’d take a photo or better yet a video and stick it on your local FB group. Disgusting behaviour and surely safeguarding concerns if they’re talking about banging students?!

I'd overhear until one accidentally said school name then I'd report them

Good point NoFucksImAQueen.

I don’t see how teachers would be in a cafe at this time.

Sitting with their trainers on the seat, talking about wanting to “bang their students” (they are teachers).

No teacher would be stupid enough to talk like that about their students in a public place and highly unlikely in private

Take a photo and shame them on social media

I am also wondering how three teachers manage to escape together to go to a cafe?

Students come in many forms, I wouldn’t necessarily assume they were talking about underage children.

Its half term

could be college or Uni teachers...would totally go with the suggestion to say your younger sister is taught be them and you're appalled.

I know a LOT of staff who could use helpful wake up call about what they say in public places (though a full personality reboot would be better!)

I doubt very much that they're teachers, OP. But in any case you could always take a photo of them (given they're happy to take photos of unsuspecting people) and ask around.

Georgie - even if they're not talking about underage children, they're still in a position of responsibility to their students, so it's more than inappropriate to talk about them like that.

Could still be on Easter break. However they sound ghastly and, even if there isn't any truth in their stories, even the fact that they are talking about students in this way suggests that they have attitudes which make them totally unsuitable to be teachers.

@desparate4sleep not Easter hols here any more

My kids are on Easter break right now, so it is feasible.

Does the café have CCTV? Is it worth reporting them via their images to the LA?

PS. Also doubting that they are teachers. Very badly misguided trainees who haven't grown up yet? Possibly. I hear there are always a few on each course, and they don't last long.

We're still on Easter break here. The schools are back on Monday.