** Trigger warning** Title edited by MNHQ Apparently I'm feminist because (according to "dp")

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When a scene came on in a film with a man smacking a woman around the face and her falling and "d"p said (that's right, slap the bitch round the face, put her into her place) I then refused to watch the film and haven't been speaking to him since as he got pissed off and said I'm a feminist and it's just "nature". He's such a prick.

He wouldn’t be my DP for much longer.

He sounds awful. Why are you still with him?

It's a constant battle at the moment because he's a sexist pig and I'm hating him more and more. Last week because he cleaned the wardrobe and I was "fucking lazy" even though I work and do everything for Ds and the home and I should do it (clean the wardrobe) because "you're a fucking woman". He'd had two days off that week whereas I worked.

Well he's clearly told you who he is right there. Ditch the prick.

Have I ever said this on MN?

LTB.

Bloody hell. I would be enraged by that, and I doubt I would stick around to find out what else he thinks is natural. BTW, men who come up with crap like that are one reason feminism continues to be needed

Quite the catch.

Op, I just read your second post. Why are you still there?

Feminist isn't a dirty word. He's angry with you because you objected to him approving violence against women? He is in the wrong, and it isn't "just nature". We are not animals.

Wow. What an asshole.

Can you bin him off? What are your circumstances like?

Because I'd be escaping the minute I had my parachute in hand.

Nothing wrong with being a feminist, with a man like that in your life you need feminism. I'd be very concerned about him celebrating violence against women.

If she was the baddie, maybe he was just getting engrossed in the film?

She wasn't the baddie per say. It was James bond, man with the golden gun.

It's not so much about the film is it. It's about him and his fucked up views of being a patriarch

WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM? please answer, it's not a rhetorical question

Honestly? I genuinely would have decked him for the comment about the wardrobe

I don't know any more. Every day I get sicker and sicker with it. I need to leave.

Had a lovely day with a friend and came back to his negative old grumpy ass.

@queenofthestress unfortunately it turned into a massive row and I walked out. It was freezing though and I returned in an hour.

What a prick! Get rid of him, you don’t need that kind of behaviour in your life. Please tell me you’ve haven’t got any kids with this waste of skin

People change and I'm going to hive you the benefit of the doubt and assume you didn't get together with him and have a child with him knowing he was a masochistic, revolting twat.

But now you know. And if you don't leave him you will be judged and your son will hate you for it.

Please get out

*give you

So his redeeming qualities are...?

Wow. But I think you know what you want to do.

LTB