"They could also be minimum wage workers"
Well someone's got to be. Going on about high earners is just stupid, most people in this Country will have to settle for a lot less.
What should we do? Stop producing children and just bring refugees/migrants in? Who usually go on to have big families.
" I don’t see a lot of potential net contributors almongst this family"
If we judged refugees like that, this thread would be gone.
Or the posters who have multiple disabled children. You would be vilified if you said they shouldn't carry on having children.
"" But there are far worse things happening to children every day in smaller hidden families and I reserve my anger and upset for that.""
Absolutely, those caught up in the CP system often go on to have more children, after permanent removal.
I know of an African Man (who paid someone to marry him so he got citizenship) who is on his tenth baby. All the Women are from the same region and have children very quickly, in the hope to gain indefinite leave, which seven of them now have, all on benefits. None want to integrate, a few are under SS. He is only in his thirties, so I don't doubt there will be more children.
"There's a lot of love"
There's also a lot of resentment"
I doubt it compares to the resentment from Posters against not only their own family, but their in-laws.
It's interesting, though. There was a thread by a Mother who had been a workaholic and admitted that she neglected her DD whilst she was growing up. The DD was now homeless and needed to live rent free in one of her houses. Very few posters felt that her Mother owed her anything and her emotional and physical neglect was OK because the Mother was out working.